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A person is often too shy or afraid of rejection and being a fool in front of their friends, to make the feelings known.
If a matchmaker was around. A person could send a flower to the matchmaker with the name of the adored one.
The matchmaker could then ask the adored one to list three in order of preference that the adored one would like to start a relation with.
If there is a match, let the person know their ranking in the three and that they are willing to get to know one another for the purpose of love and romance.
If the adored one does not have a match in the list, then let the person know or tell them there was not a willingness to make a reply for the sake of private feelings.
The matchmaker would have to be above all reproach and never letting one know the other. That is their choice after knowing.
What do you think about that!