Where to go to meet someone? (34)
nice restaurant near the beach
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do you have any hobbies? or interests?? do you like to do volunteer work?? try joining a group of some kind that you have an interest in, at least that way you might meet someone with similar interests.
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Scottishlass: do you have any hobbies? or interests?? do you like to do volunteer work?? try joining a group of some kind that you have an interest in, at least that way you might meet someone with similar interests.
Hi Lass 
good advice evening classes are another good place 
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morganlee: Hi Lass good advice evening classes are another good place
Good morning, Morgan.Yes another good suggestion!
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For women, grocery store. "Attached" men seldom do the family shopping. Look in the frozen section, near the TV dinners or the beer aisle.
For men, grocery store. Pass up the ones on the baby needs aisle.
For men, grocery store. Pass up the ones on the baby needs aisle.
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Ive met some nice people at coffee shops before.. its such a relaxing environment.. just reading the newspaper & having a coffee making small talk
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I agree with the night classes or volunter group type of atmosphere being the best and church.Unfortunatley that's why these sites have become popular,as is often said"where do you meet someone"I must add on my own experiences,but you can't be shy.Grocery store,hardware store,golf or sportsman store or store dept.Go where they go.Personally if handled right,I see nothing wrong with(after small talk) asking a man out.Even a salesman,the plumber or carpet man who comes to your home.Some will disagree with me but as I said there is a proper way and I have done it,sucessfully in the past.Volunteering is great because you meet someone like you who has compassion.Jmo
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Silverstar: I'm just wondering where you would go to meet someone other than church ( I don't go ) or shopping
(not my style, shop and get out! ) Or the laundry matt ( I have a washer and dryer) Any ideas are appreciated!
(not my style, shop and get out! ) Or the laundry matt ( I have a washer and dryer) Any ideas are appreciated!
Do you mean 'meet' as in an arranged meetup, or 'meet' as in just run into someone (that you've never met before) and hit it off?
I would recommend daylight hours for a first arranged meet. Do something other than arrange to meet for coffee or lunch, like bowling. That way if the conversation doesn't happen naturally, then you can both just enjoy it anyway.
For other... Gyms or clubs (photography, golf, etc.). Would forget trying to meet someone in a bar of pub, alcohol fuelled rose tinted glasses and all that.
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To meet a lot of doctors, go lay in the street! They will get to know you real well and personally. Then when you can't pay the bill, you meet a bunch of rich lawyers. Then there is all the bill collectors knocking on your door often. Then you go see debt consolidators and bankrupcy lawyers, judges, police office if you tell the judge what you think. then there are all the other nice people in the jail with you. more lawyers, more judges, gaurds. Then you go to a half way house to get you back on your feet. New people you will meet pushing carts at Wal-mart to make a living again. Then if you get lonesome......you can always shoplift and meet new friends again.
Glad to help!
Glad to help!
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Silverstar: I'm just wondering where you would go to meet someone other than church ( I don't go ) or shopping
(not my style, shop and get out! ) Or the laundry matt ( I have a washer and dryer) Any ideas are appreciated!
(not my style, shop and get out! ) Or the laundry matt ( I have a washer and dryer) Any ideas are appreciated!
Biker's Parties and Rallies...... Blues Clubs ........ Libraries ......... Coffee Shops ........ Karaoke gatherings .......... Concerts ... everywere ...... as long as you know what and who exactly do you want.
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RillyNiceGuy: To meet a lot of doctors, go lay in the street! They will get to know you real well and personally. Then when you can't pay the bill, you meet a bunch of rich lawyers. Then there is all the bill collectors knocking on your door often. Then you go see debt consolidators and bankrupcy lawyers, judges, police office if you tell the judge what you think. then there are all the other nice people in the jail with you. more lawyers, more judges, gaurds. Then you go to a half way house to get you back on your feet. New people you will meet pushing carts at Wal-mart to make a living again. Then if you get lonesome......you can always shoplift and meet new friends again. Glad to help!
Oh! Len all those are very helpfull, for sure You do now life from inside out
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Coffee shops and the gym..
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Where ever you are and where there are people. The key is to be able to engage another person in conversation at will. You need ploys to open for any situation. You need to learn to ask open end questions and closed end questions. You need to inguire about them and then let them tell it. Learn to be a great talker by drawing talk from others and listening.
READ! "How to Win Friends and Influence People"
READ! "How to Win Friends and Influence People"
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blue_eyed_blonde: Coffee shops and the gym..
Uh uhu .... Very diverse potentials
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Konigsberg: Oh! Len all those are very helpfull, for sure You do now life from inside out
Thank you!
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blue_eyed_blonde: Coffee shops and the gym..
hi trudy soooo what you sayin ???? 
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Bars- 
Gym-
Gym-
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Konigsberg: Uh uhu .... Very diverse potentials
Yeh pretty much...I worked at a coffee house and was amazed at the amount of flirting and how approachable ppl were...
and the gym, oh yeh baby....even if you dont get a date..its well look the view
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morganlee: hi trudy soooo what you sayin ????
if i drank coffee...i'd prolly be drinking it at the gym...
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(not my style, shop and get out! )