dating! help! ( Archived) (13)

Dating seen to be hard these days? It's seem. At first. Loads of mails and texting. Then flirting texts and phone calls. Then out the blue! "sorry. I meet someone. Good luck!" this seem happen to me alot. Or date you. But want to date others aswell. That better than me! Do u get that aswell? Getting fed up!

Try not to set myself up to feel let down, just enjoy the moments as they happen and see what comes.

No has not happen to me..My love and i are still going strong..Lots of Phone calls everyday and we met now twice and planning to be married this year..sorry about what you went through..

my heart is in liquidation at the moment

that is just what happened to me, but he wasn't man enough to tell me, I tripped on it by happenstance. It would have been okay by me, as I believe that people are attracted to other people and there is really nothing that you can do, other than to wish them well. What I didn't like was the fact that he didn't tell me, he just turned his back. I think had he not done that, we would at least be friends now. As it was, I told him to lose my number, then I blocked him. I believe that he got the message in the proper way that it was intended. That's one person that I never would have thought would hurt me. I was wrong. He hurt me enough to where I'm a bit jaded and sarcastic...I hate that...and I can't wrap my mind around the fact of him not telling me. It just doesn't make sense.

I feel for you, but your prince will come, and he will be pure. You just hafta keep believing

good advise...u seem to always look for the brighter side of things....I like that & should really start trying to do the same...lol

here is what I have experienced...I have been very open and honest about not wanting to meet someone out of my immediate area. Yes I flirted, but made sure I mentioned often enough, that I only wish they were closer!!!!! THEN, when I met someone locally....they seemed to get upset, and accused me of leading them on!!


That is simply not so....if they read something into what I clearly said was the opposite....that's not my problem!!

Thanks 4 your messages! Cheers!

I compare every man I meet to a man in my past, ie is he as much a gentleman? Is he as intelligent? etc and wind up not going on any dates! My fault I know, I need to train myself to not do that