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May 16, 2008 6:17 PM CST what do ya think?
bridger
bridgerbridgersomerville, New Jersey USA8 Threads 29 Posts
after chatting with a man for a month we exchanged phone# and he seems very nice compliments me says he will call but never does.
Is this normal?confused
bridger
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May 16, 2008 6:19 PM CST what do ya think?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
bridger: after chatting with a man for a month we exchanged phone# and he seems very nice compliments me says he will call but never does.
Is this normal?
bridger
Well what is Normal?????Have you phoned him????
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May 16, 2008 6:19 PM CST what do ya think?
pvictoria
pvictoriapvictoriaVictoria, Gozo Malta17 Threads 1,044 Posts
bridger: after chatting with a man for a month we exchanged phone# and he seems very nice compliments me says he will call but never does.
Is this normal?
bridger


What's your phonenumber hun ? I will make up 4 it.laugh
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May 16, 2008 6:22 PM CST what do ya think?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
bridger: after chatting with a man for a month we exchanged phone# and he seems very nice compliments me says he will call but never does.
Is this normal?
bridger


Maybe you should just call him? Personally, I think it is rude of him to not call when he did mention that he would call. Maybe he is just shy....or is afraid his wife will find the phone bill....
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May 16, 2008 6:24 PM CST what do ya think?
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
When he calls tell him you're putting him on hold and he will be answered when he reaches the top of the queue.grin
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May 16, 2008 6:26 PM CST what do ya think?
Lorax68
Lorax68Lorax68monmouth, Oregon USA5 Threads 105 Posts
bubbles69: When he calls tell him you're putting him on hold and he will be answered when he reaches the top of the queue.


Ha! I like that.
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May 16, 2008 6:30 PM CST what do ya think?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
StressFree: Maybe you should just call him? Personally, I think it is rude of him to not call when he did mention that he would call. Maybe he is just shy....or is afraid his wife will find the phone bill....


thumbs up

If he's that shy, i'd hate to see what he does, about thing he hasn't volunteered to do.

roll eyes
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May 16, 2008 6:34 PM CST what do ya think?
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
No nice of him. scold
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May 16, 2008 6:41 PM CST what do ya think?
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
you DID asklaugh remember that..................uh no.sad flower
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May 16, 2008 6:53 PM CST what do ya think?
allready
allreadyallreadyportland, Oregon USA32 Threads 431 Posts
I think if they tell you they will call, then they should call you. Something I feel is not right with this...confused
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May 16, 2008 6:58 PM CST what do ya think?
bluebelle4000
bluebelle4000bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland46 Threads 6,001 Posts
allready: I think if they tell you they will call, then they should call you. Something I feel is not right with this...


I agree... once or twice is fine but if he keeps doing it.. No.. something is definately wrong.. not sure if its shyness or he just wants to know your waiting on his call... either way ask out straight.. nothing to loose except a messer....... teddybear
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May 16, 2008 7:02 PM CST what do ya think?
bridger
bridgerbridgersomerville, New Jersey USA8 Threads 29 Posts
StressFree: Maybe you should just call him? Personally, I think it is rude of him to not call when he did mention that he would call. Maybe he is just shy....or is afraid his wife will find the phone bill....

No he said he is not shy but he will text me.Maybe your right he has a wife devil
bridger
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May 16, 2008 7:05 PM CST what do ya think?
bluebelle4000
bluebelle4000bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland46 Threads 6,001 Posts
bridger: No he said he is not shy but he will text me.Maybe your right he has a wife
bridger


If he says he is not shy then the next time he txts you say u would rather talk to him and if he cant call then goodbye.... think stressfree might be right about the wife...
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May 16, 2008 7:06 PM CST what do ya think?
Hot_Single_Dude
Hot_Single_DudeHot_Single_DudeKobenhavn, Capital Region Denmark68 Threads 73 Polls 11,289 Posts
bridger: after chatting with a man for a month we exchanged phone# and he seems very nice compliments me says he will call but never does.
Is this normal?
bridger


I think it is best not to call ........If you still chat then keep chatting and then aks him in indirect way a bout the situation. Like ask, I gave you my number Right?

I dont think it will be ok if you call him even he was the one whom told he will call you. Yuo will be the one whom is the weakest in the begining of this "relation ship" if there is some thing in that direction if you call him first. In this matter "Ladies Frist" is not propper at all. I beleive he must Call first!
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May 16, 2008 7:06 PM CST what do ya think?
bridger
bridgerbridgersomerville, New Jersey USA8 Threads 29 Posts
kissmedeeply: Well what is Normal?????Have you phoned him????

I did ask if I can call and he totally igonored the questiondunno dunno
bridger
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May 16, 2008 7:22 PM CST what do ya think?
Maizy
MaizyMaizyOneonta, New York USA7 Threads 121 Posts
bridger: after chatting with a man for a month we exchanged phone# and he seems very nice compliments me says he will call but never does.
Is this normal?
bridger


You say you exchanged phone numbers....who asked for the phone number first? If it was him and he still hasn't called but you still "chatted" then I would end the relationship especially after you mentioned about phoning and he ignored the question. Something else happening with hiim.....that is for sure. Also always remember....people treat you the way you let them.
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May 16, 2008 7:35 PM CST what do ya think?
allready
allreadyallreadyportland, Oregon USA32 Threads 431 Posts
Maizy: You say you exchanged phone numbers....who asked for the phone number first? If it was him and he still hasn't called but you still "chatted" then I would end the relationship especially after you mentioned about phoning and he ignored the question. Something else happening with hiim.....that is for sure. Also always remember....people treat you the way you let them.
Maizy is so right. I think you need to let this one go and move on quick. Gwt one that is true to his word.dancing dancing dancing dancing
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May 16, 2008 8:13 PM CST what do ya think?
Xtabentun
XtabentunXtabentunOntario, Canada18 Threads 1,722 Posts
bridger: after chatting with a man for a month we exchanged phone# and he seems very nice compliments me says he will call but never does.
Is this normal?
bridger


Neh, he's a time waster. He's not really into you but ke keeps the option open by remaining in contact - texting you.

Don't let him waste your time; stop texting, he will not call anyways.
Avoid more pain for you in the future!
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May 16, 2008 8:51 PM CST what do ya think?
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
bridger: after chatting with a man for a month we exchanged phone# and he seems very nice compliments me says he will call but never does.
Is this normal?
bridger




drinking more normal than you knowroll eyes erase his phone number and move on.......hug
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May 16, 2008 8:56 PM CST what do ya think?
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
prncss4someone: more normal than you know erase his phone number and move on.......

AMEN! sistalips
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