What side of the bed do you sleep on???? ( Archived) (63)

May 29, 2008 1:34 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
Scottishlass
ScottishlassScottishlassKnoxville, Tennessee USA491 Threads 23 Polls 3,324 Posts
So, you're in a relationship with someone and the awkwardness has arisen where either one of you is going to "spend the night" at your respective lover's home for the first time. Do you ask your lover which side of the bed do they want to sleep on, let it take it's course or tell her "This is MY SIDE OF THE BED and just expect them to deal with it because it is YOUR home? And what about further down the road when the relationship gets even more serious leading towards cohabitating or even considering matrimony.....do you compromise and let your lover pick the side of the bed that will ultimately be THEIR side throughout the course of the relationship?

Does it really matter to you???
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May 29, 2008 1:37 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
laugh I am somehow sure that THIS will be the LEAST of my problems or compromises in a relationship when I finally do get into one.... laugh

Seriously though, when we had puppies, my side of the bed became the one by the whelping box. That for me is the only practical reason for wanting to occupy a particular side of the bed.
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May 29, 2008 1:37 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Scottishlass: So, you're in a relationship with someone and the awkwardness has arisen where either one of you is going to "spend the night" at your respective lover's home for the first time. Do you ask your lover which side of the bed do they want to sleep on, let it take it's course or tell her "This is MY SIDE OF THE BED and just expect them to deal with it because it is YOUR home? And what about further down the road when the relationship gets even more serious leading towards cohabitating or even considering matrimony.....do you compromise and let your lover pick the side of the bed that will ultimately be THEIR side throughout the course of the relationship?

Does it really matter to you???



The middle.....grin
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May 29, 2008 1:39 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
I don't care what side of the bed I sleep on....what bothers me is that the other side is empty.sigh
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May 29, 2008 1:39 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
Scottishlass
ScottishlassScottishlassKnoxville, Tennessee USA491 Threads 23 Polls 3,324 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: The middle.....
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
me too, i've had partners tell me sleeping with me is like sleeping with a pro wrestler or boxer, i'm all over the place.
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May 29, 2008 1:44 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
At the moment I sleep in the middle of the bed.. if that changes I am sure it will be no problem which side I sleep at.laugh wink
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May 29, 2008 1:46 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I sleep on topgrin
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May 29, 2008 1:47 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
Under her on her side..help hmmm
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May 29, 2008 1:47 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
jimbhoy
jimbhoyjimbhoyHamilton, Strathclyde, Scotland UK80 Threads 2 Polls 4,142 Posts
I'm lucky I prefer the right side and the better half prefers the left side to sleep.
But meeting in the middle is the best part of any bedwink wink wink
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May 29, 2008 1:47 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Scottishlass: me too, i've had partners tell me sleeping with me is like sleeping with a pro wrestler or boxer, i'm all over the place.



Well they have to wrestle the dog for any other part of the bed that might be left!!!!!!!!!!!


dancing dog boxing dancing dog grin
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May 29, 2008 1:50 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
nope, doesn't matter to me, as long as he has his arms and legs wrapped around me when I fall asleep....daydream
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May 29, 2008 1:50 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
In the middle....I'm single!!...
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May 29, 2008 1:53 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Well they have to wrestle the dog for any other part of the bed that might be left!!!!!!!!!!!


The dog, yeah... The other night my Mom was staying over and sleeping in my bedroom, so I made my bed on the couch where my dog usually sleeps. So this spoiled brat of a dog got on "her" couch, stood over me and tried to push me off of it using her nose. When that didn't work, she sighed, stepped over me and curled up right on TOP of me, resting her head on my shoulder. I think we do have dominance issues, after all. rolling on the floor laughing
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May 29, 2008 1:53 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
Bowie
BowieBowiewinter haven, Florida USA2 Threads 958 Posts
I used to start on the right side, but in the morning I would be wrapped around her and have her" kissing the wall" while I had 4 feet of space behind me. You roll, I roll with you.grin
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May 29, 2008 1:57 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
AudrysSis: The dog, yeah... The other night my Mom was staying over and sleeping in my bedroom, so I made my bed on the couch where my dog usually sleeps. So this spoiled brat of a dog got on "her" couch, stood over me and tried to push me off of it using her nose. When that didn't work, she sighed, stepped over me and curled up right on TOP of me, resting her head on my shoulder. I think we do have dominance issues, after all.



rolling on the floor laughing


OMG!!!!!!!!!! Aren't they spoiled....My dog is NOT good at sharing either anything that she deems is hers!!!!!!!


We have issues with her trying to be the boss too...if I happen to look like I am sitting down and doing nothing according to her....then it's her play time...even if I'm on the comp....I didn't even used to be able to read or she would bark at me and if I refused to put the book or paper down...well she would just jump on it!!!!!!!!!!


roll eyes doh dancing dog laugh
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May 29, 2008 2:00 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
life is about compromise. What side of the bed you sleep on seems rather silly! I just have never thought about it. I crawl in the empty side. What can it possibly matter??confused
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May 29, 2008 2:03 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
Don't have a bed so don't have a side.
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May 29, 2008 2:04 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: OMG!!!!!!!!!! Aren't they spoiled....My dog is NOT good at sharing either anything that she deems is hers!!!!!!!We have issues with her trying to be the boss too...


Ah, I had one with a personality like that, LOL. A real boss. Mine, on the other hand, is the sweetest, mellowest girl you ever did see, so seeing her act so "selfishly" really made me rolling on the floor laughing
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May 29, 2008 2:04 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
kitty01: Don't have a bed so don't have a side.


Interesting!! Elaborate, please?!
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May 29, 2008 2:07 PM CST What side of the bed do you sleep on????
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
AudrysSis: Interesting!! Elaborate, please?!
I am living with my daughter and her kids so there is no extra room for me to stay in so I sleep on the sofa, only room for one.
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