Women, ask Guys what you've always wanted to know. (241)
*Looking at the watch* Tic, tic...
I think we get the point.
I think we get the point.
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munch: *Looking at the watch* Tic, tic...I think we get the point.
Thanks, but thats not really an answer.
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sxc666: Women are from Venus. Men are from Mars or so they say.So lets put it out there and ask the guys questions that we've always wanted to know.
As for the twin thread, play nice.
Me first. I wan't to know why a guy says he loves you the way you are, before you actually committ, then when you are committed they try to change you?
As for the twin thread, play nice.
Me first. I wan't to know why a guy says he loves you the way you are, before you actually committ, then when you are committed they try to change you?
I remember wondering that years ago..
Wondering how (Sometimes) a man will fall/chase/pursue a woman in heels skirt.. make up etc..
then sometime after he has 'snagged her' .. isn't happy with the way she dresses any more.. too 'available'.. too attractive to other men?
THEN.. goes off her because she is starting to dress down.. and not look so good any more.. while he is back off oggling the skirts and heels elsewhere..
I never did understand that..
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sxc666: Women are from Venus. Men are from Mars or so they say.So lets put it out there and ask the guys questions that we've always wanted to know.
As for the twin thread, play nice.
Me first. I wan't to know why a guy says he loves you the way you are, before you actually committ, then when you are committed they try to change you?
As for the twin thread, play nice.
Me first. I wan't to know why a guy says he loves you the way you are, before you actually committ, then when you are committed they try to change you?
Delusions of grandeur meets the modular girlfriend. He thinks you're perfect except for a few nagging details, somewhat like tuning a car. A little tweak of personality...
Wait, human?
Goes both ways, too.
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sxc666: Women are from Venus. Men are from Mars or so they say.So lets put it out there and ask the guys questions that we've always wanted to know.
As for the twin thread, play nice.
Me first. I wan't to know why a guy says he loves you the way you are, before you actually committ, then when you are committed they try to change you?
As for the twin thread, play nice.
Me first. I wan't to know why a guy says he loves you the way you are, before you actually committ, then when you are committed they try to change you?
oh I thought it was the other way round...
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uk_man_31: oh I thought it was the other way round...
No doubt it is in a lot of circumstances. But I was asking from my point a view about why a guy does it.
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sxc666: Women are from Venus. Men are from Mars or so they say.So lets put it out there and ask the guys questions that we've always wanted to know.
As for the twin thread, play nice.
Me first. I wan't to know why a guy says he loves you the way you are, before you actually committ, then when you are committed they try to change you?
As for the twin thread, play nice.
Me first. I wan't to know why a guy says he loves you the way you are, before you actually committ, then when you are committed they try to change you?
Like an answer in the other thread...Not all guys are like that...
I have seen both men and women trying to change their partners to the point of success...Only to find out its not what they wanted...
I have great memories of first meetings, first dates, and how they made me feel...
The impact of that stays with me and i would think to try to change a person that made me feel so good would be counterproductive and a great disadvantage to myself too...
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munch: Delusions of grandeur meets the modular girlfriend. He thinks you're perfect except for a few nagging details, somewhat like tuning a car. A little tweak of personality...
Wait, human?Goes both ways, too.
Wait, human?Goes both ways, too.
No doubt it goes both ways. So kinda like a little tune up here and there.
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sxc666: No doubt it is in a lot of circumstances. But I was asking from my point a view about why a guy does it.
all I can say is in my personal opinion I wouldnt change anyone not much help I know but true
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Okay...I have a question. A girlfriend of mine said she believed men didn't actually care as much about our bodies being 'perfect' as women think they do. So, I want to know if she is right. That is, advertising and our culture have virtually convinced women we need to be thin and nearly perfect....so we diet, and do a lot of other silly and exteme stuff so men will want us. But maybe it is not as important to them as we think. What's the truth???
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Claayer: I remember wondering that years ago..
Wondering how (Sometimes) a man will fall/chase/pursue a woman in heels skirt.. make up etc..
then sometime after he has 'snagged her' .. isn't happy with the way she dresses any more.. too 'available'.. too attractive to other men?
THEN.. goes off her because she is starting to dress down .. and not look so good any more.. while he is back off oggling the skirts and heels elsewhere..
I never did understand that..
Wondering how (Sometimes) a man will fall/chase/pursue a woman in heels skirt.. make up etc..
then sometime after he has 'snagged her' .. isn't happy with the way she dresses any more.. too 'available'.. too attractive to other men?
THEN.. goes off her because she is starting to dress down .. and not look so good any more.. while he is back off oggling the skirts and heels elsewhere..
I never did understand that..
That sounds like ownership more then relationship
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I suppose in the early days we only look for the positives also.
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martyg: That sounds like ownership more then relationship
Yeahh..
Marnin!
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Portiea: Okay...I have a question. A girlfriend of mine said she believed men didn't actually care as much about our bodies being 'perfect' as women think they do. So, I want to know if she is right. That is, advertising and our culture have virtually convinced women we need to be thin and nearly perfect....so we diet, and do a lot of other silly and exteme stuff so men will want us. But maybe it is not as important to them as we think. What's the truth???
I believe you are right on the money since we aren't perfect either.
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martyg: That sounds like ownership more then relationship
exactly Marty. It just seems like initially your so Gorgeous, funny etc. Then when you committ the top is too revealing, Dont laugh so loud etc.
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Claayer: Yeahh.. Marnin!
Mornin' Claayer, love your accent!!
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sxc666: I suppose in the early days we only look for the positives also.
We look at what we want to see in the person. Sometimes to idealistic....
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sxc666: No doubt it goes both ways. So kinda like a little tune up here and there.
Yeah, and fear that you can't "do better," find a better match before the bioloical clock runs out.That's what happened in my last relationship, actually. We kept trying to change one another until I finally had enough.
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munch: Yeah, and fear that you can't "do better," find a better match before the bioloical clock runs out.
That's what happened in my last relationship, actually. We kept trying to change one another until I finally had enough.
**biological** Sticky gThat's what happened in my last relationship, actually. We kept trying to change one another until I finally had enough.
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So lets put it out there and ask the guys questions that we've always wanted to know.
As for the twin thread, play nice.
Me first. I wan't to know why a guy says he loves you the way you are, before you actually committ, then when you are committed they try to change you?