A work friend. ( Archived) (29)

Jun 30, 2008 10:19 AM CST A work friend.
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
Age 46,recently hung himself to death.

They never say good bye.
They never let on anything is wrong.
They just let go.

His sister knew,and it was about money problems but no one else.Sister didn't know the extent of those problems.
True sadness for everyone involved.

Work has help clinics available to "cope",with losses such as this.

Wayne.You will be missed.

blues
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Jun 30, 2008 10:23 AM CST A work friend.
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
bloody tragic sad flower I think some people feel there is no way out.
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Jun 30, 2008 10:23 AM CST A work friend.
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
friendsfirst: Age 46,recently hung himself to death.

They never say good bye.
They never let on anything is wrong.
They just let go.

His sister knew,and it was about money problems but no one else.Sister didn't know the extent of those problems.
True sadness for everyone involved.

Work has help clinics available to "cope",with losses such as this.

Wayne.You will be missed.


Aww i am so sorry

But its true..no one really knows...

Its so hard at times..but wish it could all be different....

people could just reach out for that support...

but maybe afraid to ask..or just to proud..

Who knows...

We need more support for people with such crises...

hug
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Jun 30, 2008 10:29 AM CST A work friend.
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
friendsfirst: Age 46,recently hung himself to death.

They never say good bye.
They never let on anything is wrong.
They just let go.

His sister knew,and it was about money problems but no one else.Sister didn't know the extent of those problems.
True sadness for everyone involved.

Work has help clinics available to "cope",with losses such as this.

Wayne.You will be missed.


Sorry to hear about that Walter. People forget that a burden is lighter when shared - and sometimes when we are so far down that we can't see any possibilities of it ending - someone else may see a different view to put us on a different path.

Been in my own valley of late - sometimes the thought of leaving would be a relief - but I know that things/feelings are always changing ............. we are never stuck in one place for long.
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Jun 30, 2008 10:31 AM CST A work friend.
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
thankyou.
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Jun 30, 2008 10:33 AM CST A work friend.
gypsykisses
gypsykissesgypsykissesPort Huron, Michigan USA7 Threads 1 Polls 2,405 Posts
sad flower so sad...hug X a billion for you Walter
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Jun 30, 2008 10:36 AM CST A work friend.
gringa
gringagringaPuebla, Mexico2 Threads 431 Posts
friendsfirst: Wayne.You will be missed.


sad flower I'm sorry, Walter...tough stuff to get your mind around.

The catch 22 for the Waynes in this world is that their wherewithal to reach out for help is all used up, hence the hopelessness that drives them to the last resort.
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Jun 30, 2008 10:41 AM CST A work friend.
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
thats such a sad shame.......... hug
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Jun 30, 2008 10:57 AM CST A work friend.
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
thank you
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Jun 30, 2008 11:05 AM CST A work friend.
Harleyquinn
HarleyquinnHarleyquinnBetwixt the stix, Illinois USA10 Threads 1,707 Posts
Yes truly tragic, my sympathies to you AND especially his family!sad flower
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Jun 30, 2008 11:09 AM CST A work friend.
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
My condolences......


comfort



sad



sad flower
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Jun 30, 2008 11:10 AM CST A work friend.
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
friendsfirst: Age 46,recently hung himself to death.

They never say good bye.
They never let on anything is wrong.
They just let go.

His sister knew,and it was about money problems but no one else.Sister didn't know the extent of those problems.
True sadness for everyone involved.

Work has help clinics available to "cope",with losses such as this.

Wayne.You will be missed.


Oh that's so sad Walter..

I have a huuuge amount of sympathy (and empathy) for people that take the own lives.. (not bombers etc btw!)

It's so sad that they can see no way out of the way they feel.. or the situation they are in..

sooo sad.. because there is ALWAYS a way.. just sometimes we can't see it for a while.


Sorry Walter comfort teddybear
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Jun 30, 2008 11:11 AM CST A work friend.
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
langleygirl: Sorry to hear about that Walter. People forget that a burden is lighter when shared - and sometimes when we are so far down that we can't see any possibilities of it ending - someone else may see a different view to put us on a different path.

Been in my own valley of late - sometimes the thought of leaving would be a relief - but I know that things/feelings are always changing ............. we are never stuck in one place for long.


Exactly! teddybear hug
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Jun 30, 2008 11:29 AM CST A work friend.
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
thank you
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Jun 30, 2008 11:30 AM CST A work friend.
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
friendsfirst: thank you
bouquet hug
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Jun 30, 2008 11:31 AM CST A work friend.
Justme4uok
Justme4uokJustme4uokNorthern CA, California USA28 Threads 5,737 Posts
So Sorry Walter!comfort hug
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Jun 30, 2008 11:44 AM CST A work friend.
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
friendsfirst: Age 46,recently hung himself to death.

They never say good bye.
They never let on anything is wrong.
They just let go.

His sister knew,and it was about money problems but no one else.Sister didn't know the extent of those problems.
True sadness for everyone involved.

Work has help clinics available to "cope",with losses such as this.

Wayne.You will be missed.
I'm sorry to hear about your friend sad flower I hear of so many taking their own lives because of debts. Someone walked in front of a train here a year ago because of gambling debts. It's sad for the families and friends they leave behind.

I also have a friend and his step daughter hung herself at the beginning of this year leaving 3 small children under 5 and a friend who found her husband hanging in the attic 5 years ago when she arrived home from work. She still has flashbacks and is traumatised by it to this day after years of counselling.

I'm sorry for his sister, family and his friends and you, of course hug sad flower
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Jun 30, 2008 11:52 AM CST A work friend.
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
thank you
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Jun 30, 2008 12:03 PM CST A work friend.
p_seg
p_segp_segCentral, Xlokk Malta340 Threads 4,497 Posts
I'm sorry to hear about your friend's demise. Its a pity that he did not talk about his problems, at least that would have eased his burden.

My sympathies to you and his family!!

comfort sad flower
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Jun 30, 2008 12:42 PM CST A work friend.
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
friendsfirst: Age 46,recently hung himself to death.

They never say good bye.
They never let on anything is wrong.
They just let go.

His sister knew,and it was about money problems but no one else.Sister didn't know the extent of those problems.
True sadness for everyone involved.

Work has help clinics available to "cope",with losses such as this.

Wayne.You will be missed.


Awww that's so sad its really hard for those who are left behind. They are left with the what if and if i only.

I am so sorryhug
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