dillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads2,697 Posts
dillydallyOPBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK2,697 posts
yesterday in the am my nan passed away ,she left behind 13 children ,52 grandkids and 2 great grandkids . my family are all broken hearted ,she meant the world to us ,she kept us anchored as a unit .she has been ill for a few years now and as expected as it was it still came out the blue .now the effects are already taking place .the family are so mad at each other and no one can say anything right .
i was going to stay with them this evening but my cousin warned me about the fights so il leave it for now ,cant let connor see that . so instead i went to church .i ask of all of you if its not to much ,could you send a happy thought my families way .i worry that things will be said that cant be taken back .
i apologize for sending this sad news ,just needed to get it out . hope your all well this day ,and thanks for reading xXx
dillydally: yesterday in the am my nan passed away ,she left behind 13 children ,52 grandkids and 2 great grandkids . my family are all broken hearted ,she meant the world to us ,she kept us anchored as a unit .she has been ill for a few years now and as expected as it was it still came out the blue .now the effects are already taking place .the family are so mad at each other and no one can say anything right .i was going to stay with them this evening but my cousin warned me about the fights so il leave it for now ,cant let connor see that . so instead i went to church .i ask of all of you if its not to much ,could you send a happy thought my families way .i worry that things will be said that cant be taken back .
i apologize for sending this sad news ,just needed to get it out . hope your all well this day ,and thanks for reading xXx
Sorry about your Nan.... she sounds like an amazing person. You have every right to post that here.
Even though this is the internet, sometimes you need support and there are people that will gladly be there for you.
dillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads2,697 Posts
dillydallyOPBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK2,697 posts
sxc666: Sorry DillyDally things will settle sometimes emotions run high and we do things and say things we don't really mean. Hope it gets better soon.
thank you ,the worst about it is they are all so stubborn ,so if something bad gets said it will never be taken back . thank you tho
dillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads2,697 Posts
dillydallyOPBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK2,697 posts
KHD100: Sorry about your Nan.... she sounds like an amazing person. You have every right to post that here.
Even though this is the internet, sometimes you need support and there are people that will gladly be there for you. * sending long distant hug..... Take care
i know everyone has an amazing nan but mine really was ,she could tell such dirty jokes at times thank you
It is unfortunate to lose the back bone of the family. I have not seen some of my family since my fathers funeral in 1992. It is sad to lose the peace maker. There are no words I can offer to make you feel better. Maybe in time, the pain of this moment will pass and be replaced by the good memories. Good thoughts for you and your family.
dillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads2,697 Posts
dillydallyOPBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK2,697 posts
Bowie: It is unfortunate to lose the back bone of the family. I have not seen some of my family since my fathers funeral in 1992. It is sad to lose the peace maker. There are no words I can offer to make you feel better. Maybe in time, the pain of this moment will pass and be replaced by the good memories. Good thoughts for you and your family.
slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA943 posts
sorry for your loss, you and your family will be in my prayers. I do hope calmer heads prevail amd nothin is said that cant be taken back, again my condolances.
dillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads2,697 Posts
dillydallyOPBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK2,697 posts
KHD100: I have a feeling I'd have loved meeting her and getting to know her.
Maybe she'll meet my 2 aunts (both passed way earlier this year) .... and they will share their dirty jokes.... and a wee pint. Scots & Irish are very good at telling good stories.
they they are i have no doubt she will be playing pool and hustling everyone whilst washing it all down with crude rude jokes , she took pride that her hair was still straight and not curly "like the other blue rinsers" she would say she could still dance so lightly ,and her cooking was out of this world .no one does chocolate cream like my nan .
dillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads2,697 Posts
dillydallyOPBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK2,697 posts
slim1977: sorry for your loss, you and your family will be in my prayers. I do hope calmer heads prevail amd nothin is said that cant be taken back, again my condolances.
ohhhh I am very sorry for your loss, they are only words but they are truely meant, i will pray hard for your family to come to an understanding that now is not the time to argue it is a time to recall, and join in each others loss, thinking of you
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i was going to stay with them this evening but my cousin warned me about the fights so il leave it for now ,cant let connor see that . so instead i went to church .i ask of all of you if its not to much ,could you send a happy thought my families way .i worry that things will be said that cant be taken back .
i apologize for sending this sad news ,just needed to get it out . hope your all well this day ,and thanks for reading xXx