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Jul 25, 2008 4:41 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
When things in your lives seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded t o fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous 'yes.'

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things--your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions--and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.

The sand is everything else--the small stuff. 'If you put the sand into the jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

'Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first--the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. 'I'm glad you asked.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'
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Jul 25, 2008 4:42 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Anyone for coffee??....beer??...tea??...me??..


laugh cheers laugh
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Jul 25, 2008 4:44 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Beautiful and true wine
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Jul 25, 2008 4:44 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Lagoona22: Anyone for coffee??....beer??...tea??...me??..




Tea will do nicely.....good Morningwink
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Jul 25, 2008 4:45 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
I've read that before. Thanks for posting it.
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Jul 25, 2008 4:45 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Yeah....me mum sends stuff like this to me all the time....she's a dear..


blushing
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Jul 25, 2008 4:46 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Nobody drinks tea here.....the plebians!!....


laugh


stefonline: Tea will do nicely.....good Morning
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Jul 25, 2008 4:48 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
Barnagie
BarnagieBarnagieWarsaw, Mazovia Poland28 Threads 3 Polls 819 Posts
handshake
I'm really touched.
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Jul 25, 2008 4:51 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
Lagoona22: When things in your lives seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded t o fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous 'yes.'

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things--your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions--and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.

The sand is everything else--the small stuff. 'If you put the sand into the jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

'Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first--the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. 'I'm glad you asked.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'
applause cheering very good food for thought,thanks I can use some sanity at this hour.lips
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Jul 25, 2008 4:54 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
INSPIRING daydream
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Jul 25, 2008 5:22 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
Lagoona22: Anyone for coffee??....beer??...tea??...me??..


Thanks... this made a very good read for me this morning. All too true!!

No coffee, beer or tea right now.... going for a work out at the gym...

cheers
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Jul 26, 2008 6:19 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
Dont_Look_Now
Dont_Look_NowDont_Look_NowHuntsville, Alabama USA5 Threads 1,855 Posts
Lagoona22: When things in your lives seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded t o fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous 'yes.'

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things--your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions--and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.

The sand is everything else--the small stuff. 'If you put the sand into the jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

'Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first--the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. 'I'm glad you asked.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'
I love this, Lagoona! Very good lesson...thanks! teddybear
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Jul 26, 2008 6:55 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
AFlightRisk
AFlightRiskAFlightRiskRed Lodge, USA13 Posts
Kiss your Mum for me, as mine is no longer here to send me loverly stories like that. I'm sending this to my children now.
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Jul 26, 2008 7:11 AM CST The Jar and the Coffee
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
I love this one- i have it on my fridge( never hurts to have a reminder!)
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Jul 26, 2008 1:41 PM CST The Jar and the Coffee
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
That's cutethumbs up cheers
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Jul 26, 2008 2:11 PM CST The Jar and the Coffee
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Lagoona22: Anyone for coffee??....beer??...tea??...me??..


hahah laugh

That was good Lagoona.. thumbs up
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Jul 26, 2008 2:12 PM CST The Jar and the Coffee
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
So I guess that'll be one cappucinno??....


crying cheers


Claayer: hahah

That was good Lagoona..
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Jul 26, 2008 2:13 PM CST The Jar and the Coffee
darlynda
darlyndadarlyndatazewell, Tennessee USA49 Threads 4 Polls 1,093 Posts
Lagoona22: Yeah....me mum sends stuff like this to me all the time....she's a dear..
your mom sounds like a wise lady
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Jul 26, 2008 2:16 PM CST The Jar and the Coffee
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
Great philosophy,I loved it.....thumbs up
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Jul 26, 2008 2:19 PM CST The Jar and the Coffee
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Yah...she's pretty cool....you can tell if you've got a cool mom.....if kids love her, it's a dead give-away.....my mum used to run a daycare.....kids who used to be with her 15 years ago still come and visit her....awesome...


applause


darlynda: your mom sounds like a wise lady
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