crotalus_p: That would not stop me from marrying some one , it would however make me revaluate the whole children issue , but at the end of the day a child is a child, weather it is genetically mine or adopted makes no difference to me
Thats a great attitude .
I think its important to discuss it cos one fine day if u realise u might have to adopt and not be in the safe zone of having biological children .. it shouldnt come as a shock and " oh what now " ...
JusDoinMytingYo: I think people should disclose all memberships to singles and dating websites.... I mean ... if they still have an account for a match making website..... maybe you should reconsider getting married....
Not necessarily... For one thing, perhaps one created profiles on SO many dating sites that s/he's long forgotten all the passwords or what sites they even were..... Why bother...
AudrysSis: Not necessarily... For one thing, perhaps one created profiles on SO many dating sites that s/he's long forgotten all the passwords or what sites they even were..... Why bother...
what do u think is a must on the " to discuss " list ?
Do you believe hitting someone is alright, my husband thought because I was his wife he could do whatever he wanted with me. He would say if I did not like it I knew where the door way.
Do you believe hitting someone is alright, my husband thought because I was his wife he could do whatever he wanted with me. He would say if I did not like it I knew where the door way.
We even went for counseling and he told him at first he would just slap me a little and when I still would not do as he wanted he had to use more force and thought it was alright
riyablossom: Surprisingly , even today i have seen a lot of guys with this attitude .. personally i think raising and caring for children is mutual and not a divided " its your job " sort of responsibility.
Him lying in bed all day an me getting the kids ready and dropping them to a minder on my way to work wasnt what I had expected when we said 'I do'
not forgetting out here .. i mean in India still mostly its arranged marriages and usually wherein u dont have much time to actually get to know the person and quite a few are happy and most of them last ..
scary yet ..
I have heard that a lot of the Indian arranged marriages last.......I'm looking for an arranged Man.....
The sight of a woman ironing in a french maid's outfit is alone enough to float the titanic....heck, I'd even be prepared to mow the lawn for that!!!....
Claayer: Pffft! I don't iron anything if I can get away with it.
Addendum: Dear Diary... I can just imagine what sort of trouble I'm in now....
Lagoona22: The sight of a woman ironing in a french maid's outfit is alone enough to float the titanic....heck, I'd even be prepared to mow the lawn for that!!!....
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Thats a great attitude .
I think its important to discuss it cos one fine day if u realise u might have to adopt and not be in the safe zone of having biological children .. it shouldnt come as a shock and " oh what now " ...