Whyif a man is interested enough to send a flower.... (34)
nomindgamesPainesville, Ohio USA168 Threads 1 Polls 3,154 Postswhy does he put "love to hear from you","your profile is great" or"Tell me about you"?Why not write and say whatever in a letter.Is it me or what?I dislike those flowers.Write me don' say you wanna hear from me.Put effort from your side.Opinions please.
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nomindgames: why does he put "love to hear from you","your profile is great" or"Tell me about you"?Why not write and say whatever in a letter.Is it me or what?I dislike those flowers.Write me don' say you wanna hear from me.Put effort from your side.Opinions please.
the worse ones are the ones provided by CS...no offense mods.
I can see them being used by people who cannot speak English very well.
I use flowers just so send someone a quick note. If I am interested in someone I would send them an e-mail.
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nomindgames: why does he put "love to hear from you","your profile is great" or"Tell me about you"?Why not write and say whatever in a letter.Is it me or what?I dislike those flowers.Write me don' say you wanna hear from me.Put effort from your side.Opinions please.
Probably because its a much easier way to break the ice and see if there may possibly be a slight bit of interest from whoever the flower was sent to?!?!
Why write an essay that 99% of the time won't get a reply?!
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i ignore them generally- they are putting the onus on you to really make a connection- i hate those flowers- think they should be done away with altogether- if you can't string a sentence to gether then don't contact me- but they are good for people you are already friends with to just say 'hi'
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nomindgames: why does he put "love to hear from you","your profile is great" or"Tell me about you"?Why not write and say whatever in a letter.Is it me or what?I dislike those flowers.Write me don' say you wanna hear from me.Put effort from your side.Opinions please.
I prefer those to the lengthy letters that talk of love at first sight-I am their soulmate, they feel alive again 
here's my phone number, my address and my email so that you can contact me....
I'll take a flower with a stupid message over those any day!
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tufty: Probably because its a much easier way to break the ice and see if there may possibly be a slight bit of interest from whoever the flower was sent to?!?! Why write an essay that 99% of the time won't get a reply?!
Exactly what I mean.Why should I write the essay?
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gypsykisses: I prefer those to the lengthy letters that talk of love at first sight-I am their soulmate, they feel alive again here's my phone number, my address and my email so that you can contact me.... I'll take a flower with a stupid message over those any day!
I said I was sorry.....
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I think they cn be a good way to say hi. Is not easy to know what to say when you first contact someone.
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nomindgames: why does he put "love to hear from you","your profile is great" or"Tell me about you"?Why not write and say whatever in a letter.Is it me or what?I dislike those flowers.Write me don' say you wanna hear from me.Put effort from your side.Opinions please.
I love the flowers. I think it's so sweet when a guy sends them to me.
As for what they say to me. Short right to the point coments don't bother me.
It's the fact that the men took the time to send them.
To me it's the thought behind the flowers that counts.
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mbcasey: I said I was sorry.....
I'm left speechless...
that's weird... stop that!!! 
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vonney: I think they cn be a good way to say hi. Is not easy to know what to say when you first contact someone.
Okay I get that.But they don't know me,maybe I don't know how to start eithr.If they are interested then they can find the words.I feellike )not the scammers and weirdos)I have to take thetime o write in their mind.Maybe it's m mood but just got a few and it set me off.I use them to,to say hi t people orcompliment a thread,but"Iwana hear from yo",t write me and you will.
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nomindgames: Okay I get that.But they don't know me,maybe I don't know how to start eithr.If they are interested then they can find the words.I feellike )not the scammers and weirdos)I have to take thetime o write in their mind.Maybe it's m mood but just got a few and it set me off.I use them to,to say hi t people orcompliment a thread,but"Iwana hear from yo",t write me and you will.
Your answer doesnt have to be long either. If you like the look of his profile and decide to reply you can just say 'Hi thanks for the flower' or 'What would you like to know'...just examples, you dont have to write a long reply.
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I want to thank anyone who took time to give any opinion,already or after this post
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nomindgames: why does he put "love to hear from you","your profile is great" or"Tell me about you"?Why not write and say whatever in a letter.Is it me or what?I dislike those flowers.Write me don' say you wanna hear from me.Put effort from your side.Opinions please.
Agree - really odd.
I do reply (to be polite) because some ppl just don't know how to start a conversation:
What would you like to hear?
Yours too
you hear back from those who just need an assurance that they won't be ignored, but those who don't care to put a minimal effort are happily gone for good.
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A digital flower has no emotion. Little time is expressed in the garnering, and they feel very empty. Flowers are beautiful and by all means should be representative of how someone fels, but I much prefer fresh hand picked ones. To give and receive, after all it is the thought that counts...
The only purpose they might have here is between friends as I would never accept one if given from someone whom I have never spoken with.
Perhaps if there was some sort of limit to how many a person could send in a week it would indicate that at least the one you receive was chosen especially for you. More so if the entire allotment for the time frame was delivered to only one person.
The only purpose they might have here is between friends as I would never accept one if given from someone whom I have never spoken with.
Perhaps if there was some sort of limit to how many a person could send in a week it would indicate that at least the one you receive was chosen especially for you. More so if the entire allotment for the time frame was delivered to only one person.
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BarrenPneuma: A digital flower has no emotion. Little time is expressed in the garnering, and they feel very empty. Flowers are beautiful and by all means should be representative of how someone fels, but I much prefer fresh hand picked ones. To give and receive, after all it is the thought that counts...
The only purpose they might have here is between friends as I would never accept one if given from someone whom I have never spoken with.
Perhaps if there was some sort of limit to how many a person could send in a week it would indicate that at least the one you receive was chosen especially for you. More so if the entire allotment for the time frame was delivered to only one person.
The only purpose they might have here is between friends as I would never accept one if given from someone whom I have never spoken with.
Perhaps if there was some sort of limit to how many a person could send in a week it would indicate that at least the one you receive was chosen especially for you. More so if the entire allotment for the time frame was delivered to only one person.
Perhaps
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I like the flowers and am greatful to anyone who took a few minutes to send them. I prefer a unique message instead of the drop down menu, but don't hold it against anyone for using them. Some men have done both, flowers and mail which is always nice.
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nomindgames: why does he put "love to hear from you","your profile is great" or"Tell me about you"?Why not write and say whatever in a letter.Is it me or what?I dislike those flowers.Write me don' say you wanna hear from me.Put effort from your side.Opinions please.
I'm thinking maybe he wants you to put in the effort first.
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somechick: I love the flowers. I think it's so sweet when a guy sends them to me.
As for what they say to me. Short right to the point coments don't bother me.It's the fact that the men took the time to send them.
To me it's the thought behind the flowers that counts.
As for what they say to me. Short right to the point coments don't bother me.It's the fact that the men took the time to send them.
To me it's the thought behind the flowers that counts.
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Maybe a man who's approaching a woman may not know exactly what to say.
Maybe he doesn't know how to express himself in words.
I tend to give the guy the benefit of the doubt.
Sometimes when I'm writing to a guy I sometimes trip over my tongue and can't figure out what to say even when it's sending an answer back to them.
Maybe he doesn't know how to express himself in words.
I tend to give the guy the benefit of the doubt.
Sometimes when I'm writing to a guy I sometimes trip over my tongue and can't figure out what to say even when it's sending an answer back to them.
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