Claayer: Yikes!.. are implying my Mr Big Cheese thing?
It dragged on for 3mths because he was chasing me when I was still too hurt from my last 'Adventure of the heart' ... so he was waiting for me to feel better. (he says)
Otherwise I'm sure it would have been resolved one way or another in a week.. haha.
No, just after reading the responses on this thread and others I get the feeling a lot of people are bitter, twisted and angry, and shouldn't be dating at all.
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
kidatheart: No, just after reading the responses on this thread and others I get the feeling a lot of people are bitter, twisted and angry, and shouldn't be dating at all.
Oo .. Phew!
Well I'm not bitter or angry..
just a bit twisted but thats okay. haha
But yeah I do think some people aren't ready to be dating yet.
alabamabebeOPBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
Thanks for all the input guys and gals, it gave me some things to think about, I don't know if it affected my decisionm but I decided to send him an email. The more I got to thinking about it, what he said and how he said it, I think he was just leaving it up to me, if I wanted to continue things, that he wasn't going to bug me. Not really a power play, but giving me the power, and that feels weird for me. He does seem sweet, and just a little insecure, which like I said before, could be a good thing. We'll see.
alabamabebe: Thanks for all the input guys and gals, it gave me some things to think about, I don't know if it affected my decisionm but I decided to send him an email. The more I got to thinking about it, what he said and how he said it, I think he was just leaving it up to me, if I wanted to continue things, that he wasn't going to bug me. Not really a power play, but giving me the power, and that feels weird for me. He does seem sweet, and just a little insecure, which like I said before, could be a good thing. We'll see.
glad you have decided to make a move. It would be too bad if yu got on well together, but both sat waiting for the other to call.thinking' if he/she liked me he/she would call '
alabamabebe: and any women who have a clue what goes on in men's heads. Never mind, no woman can or should know that.
What does it mean when you've seen a man a couple or three times, had a real good time, and he tells you to call him, in a way that seems to mean, if you want to see me call me. Is it some kind of power play, like seeing how much you really want to see him, or what?
Second question, should I? I hate this stage of a relationship, I never know what the rules are.
No don't call him you can call me. Honestly we are all adults (no games) Call him if you like him, if you don't like him don't call. Truely whats the difference?
ManyfeathersWerrimull, Victoria Australia243 posts
alabamabebe: and any women who have a clue what goes on in men's heads. Never mind, no woman can or should know that.
What does it mean when you've seen a man a couple or three times, had a real good time, and he tells you to call him, in a way that seems to mean, if you want to see me call me. Is it some kind of power play, like seeing how much you really want to see him, or what?
Second question, should I? I hate this stage of a relationship, I never know what the rules are.
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If a relationship takes a lot of hard work & is not free flowing, it ain't worth it.. JMO