I need help from my guy friends ( Archived) (71)

Sep 4, 2008 10:12 AM CST I need help from my guy friends
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
HJFinAZ: There are no rules in a relationship, the rules "WE" make eventually get broken..

If a relationship takes a lot of hard work & is not free flowing, it ain't worth it.. JMO




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Sep 4, 2008 10:16 AM CST I need help from my guy friends
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
markizamkd25: im an idiot i never call


sigh I guess I won't email you my number then..tongue
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Sep 4, 2008 10:27 AM CST I need help from my guy friends
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Claayer: Yikes!.. are implying my Mr Big Cheese thing?

It dragged on for 3mths because he was chasing me when I was still too hurt from my last 'Adventure of the heart' ... so he was waiting for me to feel better. (he says)

Otherwise I'm sure it would have been resolved one way or another in a week.. haha.



No, just after reading the responses on this thread and others I get the feeling a lot of people are bitter, twisted and angry, and shouldn't be dating at all. laugh

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Sep 4, 2008 10:30 AM CST I need help from my guy friends
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
kidatheart: No, just after reading the responses on this thread and others I get the feeling a lot of people are bitter, twisted and angry, and shouldn't be dating at all.


Oo .. Phew!

Well I'm not bitter or angry..

just a bit twisted idea but thats okay. haha

But yeah I do think some people aren't ready to be dating yet.

hug cowboy
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Sep 4, 2008 10:36 AM CST I need help from my guy friends
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
Claayer: Oo .. Phew!

Well I'm not bitter or angry..

just a bit twisted but thats okay. haha

But yeah I do think some people aren't ready to be dating yet.


Twisted? You? Mine's a gin-and-tonic please! laugh
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Sep 4, 2008 10:39 AM CST I need help from my guy friends
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Fallingman: Twisted? You? Mine's a gin-and-tonic please!


Oo yummy.. I could murder one of those now.. hahaha

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Sep 4, 2008 10:40 AM CST I need help from my guy friends
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Thanks for all the input guys and gals, it gave me some things to think about, I don't know if it affected my decisionm but I decided to send him an email. The more I got to thinking about it, what he said and how he said it, I think he was just leaving it up to me, if I wanted to continue things, that he wasn't going to bug me. Not really a power play, but giving me the power, and that feels weird for me. He does seem sweet, and just a little insecure, which like I said before, could be a good thing. We'll see. grin
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Sep 4, 2008 12:21 PM CST I need help from my guy friends
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
alabamabebe: Thanks for all the input guys and gals, it gave me some things to think about, I don't know if it affected my decisionm but I decided to send him an email. The more I got to thinking about it, what he said and how he said it, I think he was just leaving it up to me, if I wanted to continue things, that he wasn't going to bug me. Not really a power play, but giving me the power, and that feels weird for me. He does seem sweet, and just a little insecure, which like I said before, could be a good thing. We'll see.


glad you have decided to make a move. It would be too bad if yu got on well together, but both sat waiting for the other to call.thinking' if he/she liked me he/she would calllaugh '

good luckwine
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Sep 4, 2008 12:35 PM CST I need help from my guy friends
sparky12366
sparky12366sparky12366Saint Louis, Missouri USA2 Posts
alabamabebe: and any women who have a clue what goes on in men's heads. Never mind, no woman can or should know that.

What does it mean when you've seen a man a couple or three times, had a real good time, and he tells you to call him, in a way that seems to mean, if you want to see me call me. Is it some kind of power play, like seeing how much you really want to see him, or what?

Second question, should I? I hate this stage of a relationship, I never know what the rules are.


No don't call him you can call me. Honestly we are all adults (no games) Call him if you like him, if you don't like him don't call. Truely whats the difference?
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Sep 4, 2008 12:48 PM CST I need help from my guy friends
Manyfeathers
ManyfeathersManyfeathersWerrimull, Victoria Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 243 Posts
alabamabebe: and any women who have a clue what goes on in men's heads. Never mind, no woman can or should know that.

What does it mean when you've seen a man a couple or three times, had a real good time, and he tells you to call him, in a way that seems to mean, if you want to see me call me. Is it some kind of power play, like seeing how much you really want to see him, or what?

Second question, should I? I hate this stage of a relationship, I never know what the rules are.


Rules. What Rules. There are no rules.
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Sep 5, 2008 12:26 AM CST I need help from my guy friends
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Manyfeathers: Rules. What Rules. There are no rules.
grin Yeah, I tend to make em up as I go, and then break them. That's why I never know what the rules are. laugh
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