shipoker58: take her to a homeless shelter....and tell her this is what happens when people get to involved with each other. Works really well with blondes
well a casino is a public place and somewhere you might win big......so if a guy really wants to impress me then we should go to a casino and spend his money and mingle and try to win!the buffets usually are free
MckinneyMemories: well a casino is a public place and somewhere you might win big......so if a guy really wants to impress me then we should go to a casino and spend his money and mingle and try to win!the buffets usually are free
If you have a gambling problem, call the Gambling Addiction Center, not a date.
shipoker58: take her to a homeless shelter....and tell her this is what happens when people get to involved with each other. Works really well with blondes
The great thing about dating homeless girls is you can drop them off anywhere.
I like to meet for coffee, and walk in a park where there are lots of people. In time, he'd have to pass the test of my Dogs. If they like each other, then he's ok. If the Dog's hate him, I take notice and don't see him again. If he says hey would you give the Dogs away before we take the relationship to the next level, well he struck out.
diogenes: If you have a gambling problem, call the Gambling Addiction Center, not a date.
i have no gambling problem....when i go i do not take bill money or grocery money to spend....it is extra cash for my pleasure.And i am sure if the guy liked going as i do then the date would be wonderful.
depends on how long i've known the person and what our interests are ........and if it's a "friends only" date or a date to "see where this goes"
but if you can surprise me with something different than dinner and a movie, your a step ahead of the game i like someone who can actually plan a date............not show up and say ok what do you want to do............if you took the time to ask me out, take the time to show me your interested in letting me know who you are by planning something!(jmo of course!)
depends on how long i've known the person and what our interests are ........and if it's a "friends only" date or a date to "see where this goes"but if you can surprise me with something different than dinner and a movie, your a step ahead of the game i like someone who can actually plan a date............not show up and say ok what do you want to do............if you took the time to ask me out, take the time to show me your interested in letting me know who you are by planning something!(jmo of course!)[/quote]
Again, it's a matter of damned if I do...damned if I don't.
Some women would take offense at a man making all the plans without consulting her. I thought they didn't want to be herded about! Isn't it better to get together and plan things??
shipoker58: depends on how long i've known the person and what our interests are ........and if it's a "friends only" date or a date to "see where this goes"but if you can surprise me with something different than dinner and a movie, your a step ahead of the game i like someone who can actually plan a date............not show up and say ok what do you want to do............if you took the time to ask me out, take the time to show me your interested in letting me know who you are by planning something!(jmo of course!)[/ quote] Again, it's a matter of damned if I do...damned if I don't.
Some women would take offense at a man making all the plans without consulting her. I thought they didn't want to be herded about! Isn't it better to get together and plan things??
ah ship here's where that weird funky thing about women comes in...............note i said that was my opinion! yes planning things together is great.......but on a first date or even a fiftieth, it's nice if he has it planned and it's something out of the "norm" that shows me a side of him that i may not have seen yet......that's how i learn about someone.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
StarliteFantazy: depends on how long i've known the person and what our interests are ........and if it's a "friends only" date or a date to "see where this goes"but if you can surprise me with something different than dinner and a movie, your a step ahead of the game i like someone who can actually plan a date............not show up and say ok what do you want to do............if you took the time to ask me out, take the time to show me your interested in letting me know who you are by planning something!(jmo of course!)
Yes this does make a differents of course. Most men would want your input into the; where do you want to go thing. That has been until now, always been my experiences
hollandgirl: Yes this does make a differents of course. Most men would want your input into the; where do you want to go thing. That has been until now, always been my experiences
a little input yes, like places you absolutely would not enjoy going with him..........but other than that, i think it shows part of what the man is really like inside whether he plans just a walk along a trail, or a horseback ride, or a romantic boat trip or something outrageous like jumping out of an airplane........i guess i'm just a different breed of woman
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
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StarliteFantazy wrote: depends on how long i've known the person and what our interests are ........and if it's a "friends only" date or a date to "see where this goes"but if you can surprise me with something different than dinner and a movie, your a step ahead of the game i like someone who can actually plan a date............not show up and say ok what do you want to do............if you took the time to ask me out, take the time to show me your interested in letting me know who you are by planning something!(jmo of course!)
Yes this does make a differents of course. Most men would want your input into the; where do you want to go thing. That has been until now, always been my experiences
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