Once met a girl from another province - a teacher on a school trip. I left work- lunchtime- to meet her at the stadium. We have not seen each other since.
Somehow I get the impression she did not like me. I got the impression she was....
Moral: make sure it is somewhere where you at least have more than an hour. A couple of days if somebody is from out of town.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
Lonely1: Once met a girl from another province - a teacher on a school trip. I left work- lunchtime- to meet her at the stadium. We have not seen each other since.
Somehow I get the impression she did not like me. I got the impression she was....
Moral: make sure it is somewhere where you at least have more than an hour. A couple of days if somebody is from out of town.
There is not always chemistry when two people meet. There has to be at least a spark, upon you may be able to build on as time goes by.
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
hollandgirl: Hello kiddo, no date either this weekend? Life is hard when you run with your head against a brick wall eh?
So many single guys so many single women yet never the twain shall meet. What a waste. Oh heck am hyacking my own thread lol.
Just told another scammer 419 he knows what it means.
NEXT
Alas I don't have a date this weekend either , but I have lots to do in anycase , you know if I start saying yes I can have dates , but for now I don't want to !! No your not hijacking your thread watch the scammers !!
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
rwantin: Anywhere where we can talk - quiet.
My one first date was at an In & Out Burger. Really. We ended up in a relationship for some two years.
I don't know what that means, either.
I would think I was a good meeting turning into a relationship even though it did not last forever. My last one was a year. We are still friends. He moved so is it not so akward this way
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
Here is my take on going to a coffee place for the first meeting. You may even bring a girlfriend sitting three tables away. You could meet like this 6 times and the 7th, now meeting at home? he could still turn out to be a jerk.
What would/could he do in a coffee shop anyway. Alcoholics have been known to hide it for a year. Your date knows he on probation those first times, so will be showing his good side.
Met a guy working at my landladies home, we went for a dance. Perfect gentleman, should have made me a bit suspicsious? never held me too close etc. Driving home, he asked would I like to see where he worked. Sure! Next thing I am I find myself in a back alley. The "gentleman" now turns and start to paw me. It made me so angry I let him have it both barrels. He was soo shocked and surprised he let me go.
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
hollandgirl: Here is my take on going to a coffee place for the first meeting. You may even bring a girlfriend sitting three tables away. You could meet like this 6 times and the 7th, now meeting at home? he could still turn out to be a jerk.
What would/could he do in a coffee shop anyway. Alcoholics have been known to hide it for a year. Your date knows he on probation those first times, so will be showing his good side.
Met a guy working at my landladies home, we went for a dance. Perfect gentleman, should have made me a bit suspicsious? never held me too close etc. Driving home, he asked would I like to see where he worked. Sure! Next thing I am I find myself in a back alley. The "gentleman" now turns and start to paw me. It made me so angry I let him have it both barrels. He was soo shocked and surprised he let me go.NEXT
Wow HG, that is very scary !! Glad you were able to hold your own
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
livinglarge: Wow HG, that is very scary !! Glad you were able to hold your own
Never worry about me I can be a tiger in the tank. No I really am peace loving but this guy made me soo angry because he had fooled me the whole evening.
The first time my husband hit me it was also the last. He never tast me again. Ugly in hindsight but I remember charging at him like a little bull.
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Somehow I get the impression she did not like me. I got the impression she was....
Moral: make sure it is somewhere where you at least have more than an hour. A couple of days if somebody is from out of town.