What is your greatest fear? ( Archived) (119)

Oct 15, 2008 9:32 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
somechick: My greatest fear of all is taking a chance on falling in love again.


I figured out earlier that I'm afraid of this now, too...I'm afraid of losing someone that I love that much again. I hope it wears off with time. Our losses are both recent, Anna. hug bouquet
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Oct 15, 2008 9:36 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
loves2steppin
loves2steppinloves2steppinConcord, New Hampshire USA20 Threads 1,729 Posts
not being accepted-rejection
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Oct 15, 2008 9:37 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Dknew: Heights, But I love to fly and planes don't bother me.


My Nana had a great fear of heights, but loved to fly. She said the difference was that in a plane her feet were on the ground. I'll agree, since I seem to have developed that same fear with age (can it be genetic? my sons have it too).

Speaking of this, I'm rather proud of my self. This weekend I discovered that what I thought was one set of Tibetan prayer flags was actually five sets...the kind that's supposed to be strung along the front of the house...so, grabbed the big ladder and set it up on the porch. Neither of my sons could climb past the second step of the ladder, and that wasn't high enough. So, guess who climbed up to the third step?! applause And this was at the end of the porch with a 4 ft drop off to the driveway (railed...it's the visual if you looked down).

Unfortunately, this is also how I discovered that my sons have a worse fear of heights than I do. mumbling Guess I know who won't be climbing ladders to change light bulbs for me. doh
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Oct 15, 2008 9:40 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Lonely1: Mine too. And I just can't win with the alternative.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 15, 2008 9:43 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
druidess6308: I figured out earlier that I'm afraid of this now, too...I'm afraid of losing someone that I love that much again. I hope it wears off with time. Our losses are both recent, Anna.




I've gone way beyond the mourning stages.

I'm just scared of entering into another relationship.


Like someone told me when the time's right it'll happen.
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Oct 15, 2008 9:46 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
rare_dawn: What is your greatest fear?


Penile dysfunction problems....
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Oct 15, 2008 9:50 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
losing my health.
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Oct 15, 2008 9:50 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
that i will never get a hug from the wall
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Oct 15, 2008 9:54 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
mcampos87
mcampos87mcampos87Bauru, Sao Paulo Brazil62 Posts
lucky200761: lol taking risks... dunno if that's really a fear, but i like to stay in my comfort zone for the most part



For those who like taking the risk:
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Oct 15, 2008 10:02 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
rare_dawn: Do you think i will do such things when they are the best things that ever happen to me?


no one besides you would know the answer to that.

rare_dawn: She is too protective of them thinking that my attention for them will be divided.. Do you think i will do such things when they are the best things that ever happen to me?


dunno Attention is ALWAYS divided in a family (and multiplied at the same time).

The question is:

Why you have to live with this fear? How come your mother is authorized to make this decision for you? Is it cultural?

It's awful! You are a grown woman. You are entitled to have a family and to be happy.

hug
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Oct 15, 2008 10:06 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
mindfful: that i will never get a hug from the wall


wave MF

shock flirty

....not the 'hug from the wall' laugh,


the pic!!!!!!!!!! wow
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Oct 15, 2008 10:19 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
Losing loved onesuh oh
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Oct 15, 2008 10:20 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
irishlass45: Losing loved ones



Nice pic darlin....wink hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Oct 15, 2008 10:20 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
somechick: I've gone way beyond the mourning stages.

I'm just scared of entering into another relationship.Like someone told me when the time's right it'll happen.


6 Commandments.......grin

1. Do not build walls, for they are dangerous. Learn to transcend them.

2. Live in the moment, for each one is precious and not to be squandered.

3. Take care of yourself, first & foremost.

4. Drop the ego, be real and watch what happens.

5. All things are possible, all the time.

6. Maintain Universal Flow. When someone gives, it is an act of generosity to receive. For in giving there is something gained..
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Oct 15, 2008 10:21 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
laura225: MF



....not the 'hug from the wall' , the pic!!!!!!!!!!



BOO!!!!!!!!!!
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Oct 15, 2008 10:22 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
HJFinAZ: 6 Commandments.......

1. Do not build walls, for they are dangerous. Learn to transcend them.

2. Live in the moment, for each one is precious and not to be squandered.

3. Take care of yourself, first & foremost.

4. Drop the ego, be real and watch what happens.

5. All things are possible, all the time.

6. Maintain Universal Flow. When someone gives, it is an act of generosity to receive. For in giving there is something gained..


bowing Namaste, HJ. Well said.

(Btw, I have to use this bow, the one I want isn't available, but if you're familiar with Namaste, you know what I mean.)
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Oct 15, 2008 10:22 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Nice pic darlin....



Thank you, I had the famous kitty kat up but Mods Gods said it has to be of me, I guess not everybody get's to play, now bowing this time mods godsroll eyes
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Oct 15, 2008 10:23 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
That most women are becoming what I see on "The View" laugh
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Oct 15, 2008 10:25 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Nice pic darlin....



laugh you don't look so hot yourself laugh



wave Hi Hugzy, hope you feel better. teddybear
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Oct 15, 2008 10:26 PM CST What is your greatest fear?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
somechick: I've gone way beyond the mourning stages.

I'm just scared of entering into another relationship.Like someone told me when the time's right it'll happen.


I am getting there. I actually thought I was past the mourning thing until anniversaries started coming around again. That put me back into it. And, I have started to see someone...a great guy who has even called to see how I'm doing Monday and today. We've only met the once, but we talk and email a lot. One good thing...with him being an OTR truck driver, I don't have to worry about him wanting to be attached at the hip! I'll get my space! giggle Seriously, this is a great guy that I like a lot...but I feel part of me holding back. I'm afraid to give my heart.
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