With a partner I trust...yes. The point is to give pleasure to the point of them not being able to take any more, and them not being able to do anything about it...and he'd better let me give like that in return. It's a game that goes both ways.
While I was married, I let him tie me a couple of times...once to the bed...and once in the walk-in closet standing up (he didn't want the boys to see what he'd rigged up is why the closet).
Yes, and vice-versa. Usually fluffy cuffs work since they can be broken if needed. It's not an often thing but it does add some intensity and diversity which are both very nice to have in the bedroom.
ModestlyAwesome: Yes, and vice-versa. Usually fluffy cuffs work since they can be broken if needed. It's not an often thing but it does add some intensity and diversity which are both very nice to have in the bedroom.
Agreed...only I prefer things that are cloth, like scarves or nylons. I have to be able to escape easily if necessary...even with a partner I trust, I must have the security of knowing that I can get out whenever I want...then, and only then, can I relax and enjoy the game. And they have to be willing to let me do it in return...I love to give my man that much pleasure.
I enjoy using rubber bands or paper chains they are very accommodating and easy to break. I tie them up not the other way around. If they don't do as I say then I bring out the handcuffs and toss the key away.
druidess6308: Agreed...only I prefer things that are cloth, like scarves or nylons. I have to be able to escape easily if necessary...even with a partner I trust, I must have the security of knowing that I can get out whenever I want...then, and only then, can I relax and enjoy the game. And they have to be willing to let me do it in return...I love to give my man that much pleasure.
Indeed. Even if I fully trust someone I want to know that if I need to get out for whatever reason I can.
About returning the favor... I am fond of pleasing my partner and tend to hate being the only one who is being pleasured. I like it to be a mutual thing so I hear where you're coming from. Now I just need to find someone who can keep up with me lol. I'll have to train the woman I'm dating now
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