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Dec 5, 2008 7:22 PM CST Connections, we emailed, we talked on the phone
SeriouslyFun
SeriouslyFunSeriouslyFunLondon, Ontario Canada23 Threads 1 Polls 247 Posts
I met a woman in the real world, and we have emailed and then talked on the phone. We are very interested in each other. What are the pitfalls or things to look out for? Anyone have this experience?
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Dec 5, 2008 7:54 PM CST Connections, we emailed, we talked on the phone
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
SeriouslyFun: I met a woman in the real world, and we have emailed and then talked on the phone. We are very interested in each other. What are the pitfalls or things to look out for? Anyone have this experience?


I would consider how willing she is to please you, that is telling, and look at differences in opinion and how that is handled between you two. Good lucklaugh
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Dec 5, 2008 7:57 PM CST Connections, we emailed, we talked on the phone
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
SeriouslyFun: I met a woman in the real world, and we have emailed and then talked on the phone. We are very interested in each other. What are the pitfalls or things to look out for? Anyone have this experience?



As long as you have both been your real selves and been honest with each other...there are none...meeting in person should just be a continuation of what you already have....just like meeting someone any other place.....wave wink hug teddybear bouquet
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Dec 5, 2008 8:01 PM CST Connections, we emailed, we talked on the phone
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
SeriouslyFun: I met a woman in the real world, and we have emailed and then talked on the phone. We are very interested in each other. What are the pitfalls or things to look out for? Anyone have this experience?





If you met someone...go for it. I missed out a lot in life because I didn't!!
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Dec 5, 2008 8:24 PM CST Connections, we emailed, we talked on the phone
gypsykisses
gypsykissesgypsykissesPort Huron, Michigan USA7 Threads 1 Polls 2,405 Posts
SeriouslyFun: I met a woman in the real world, and we have emailed and then talked on the phone. We are very interested in each other. What are the pitfalls or things to look out for? Anyone have this experience?





scold you just met? Looking for the pitfalls already? doh just allow yourself to enjoy the experience without trying to see problems that "may" arise....teddybear jmouh oh
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Dec 5, 2008 9:53 PM CST Connections, we emailed, we talked on the phone
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
gypsykisses: you just met? Looking for the pitfalls already? just allow yourself to enjoy the experience without trying to see problems that "may" arise.... jmo


They are always there, better to seek them out early!!professor


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Dec 6, 2008 10:16 AM CST Connections, we emailed, we talked on the phone
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
SeriouslyFun: I met a woman in the real world, and we have emailed and then talked on the phone. We are very interested in each other. What are the pitfalls or things to look out for? Anyone have this experience?


You e-mailed, you talked on the phone, you've met her.....

Are both of you up to meeting again?

If yes, why in the world you are going to look for the pitfalls instead of concentrating on positive things and enjoying each other's company? confused comfort
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Dec 6, 2008 11:10 AM CST Connections, we emailed, we talked on the phone
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
SeriouslyFun: I met a woman in the real world, and we have emailed and then talked on the phone. We are very interested in each other. What are the pitfalls or things to look out for? Anyone have this experience?


Seriously fun, you are kind of betraying your namesake confused... what is seriously fun about anticipating the 'pit falls' and negatives before you even embark on a relationship with someone.... all relationships have a certain risk attached to them, but that should be no reason to not embark on them...

The main thing is to get to know one another, spend time together... chemistry can't be manufactured so nature takes care of the rest..

good luck!!
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Dec 6, 2008 11:12 AM CST Connections, we emailed, we talked on the phone
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Strange questionlaugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Get deeper in order to fill the pitfalls yourself for sake, we don't know herrolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 6, 2008 11:13 AM CST Connections, we emailed, we talked on the phone
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
SeriouslyFun: I met a woman in the real world, and we have emailed and then talked on the phone. We are very interested in each other. What are the pitfalls or things to look out for? Anyone have this experience?


Apparently, they're within yourself for you to be looking for them. If you expect the worst, you'll find it. Expect the best, and you may be pleasantly surprised.

Good luck, SF. handshake
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Dec 6, 2008 11:53 AM CST Connections, we emailed, we talked on the phone
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
SeriouslyFun: I met a woman in the real world, and we have emailed and then talked on the phone. We are very interested in each other. What are the pitfalls or things to look out for? Anyone have this experience?



What experience? Dating?
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Dec 6, 2008 12:00 PM CST Connections, we emailed, we talked on the phone
maruska1980
maruska1980maruska1980Santa Venera, Majjistral Malta7 Threads 1 Polls 308 Posts
Just go for it and don't start thinking about pitfalls... meet in person and see how it goes. If you both are honest, then there should be no pitfalls. Beware of falling in love until you get to know her better. You know you are honest but you cannot be 100% sure of what she feels/wants.

... just some thoughts from someone who has been in your place... marrying my blind CS date soon :)

All the best for your future.
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