Does age really matter? (30)
meganx0x012Charlotte, North Carolina USA1 Threads 3 PostsI want to know what people thing about when it comes to the age difference in some couples. I am 18 and have always been interested in people well over my age. It's just something I have always been drawn to. Is this wrong or no?
------ This thread is Archived ------
not wrong for you...but wrong for me
------ This thread is Archived ------
meganx0x012: I want to know what people thing about when it comes to the age difference in some couples. I am 18 and have always been interested in people well over my age. It's just something I have always been drawn to. Is this wrong or no?
Hiya.
Nah, I don't think its wrong. Has more to do with maturity and where the two of you are in your lives then anything else. Whatever works for you is where you want to be!------ This thread is Archived ------
If your emotional and mental age are close,then the chronological really doesn't matter.
------ This thread is Archived ------
I just know many people look down on it but my family and friends can agree with me its something that is just natural to me.
------ This thread is Archived ------
meganx0x012: I just know many people look down on it but my family and friends can agree with me its something that is just natural to me.
Who care what others think? You and your partner are the ONLY ones that have to be comfortable; everything else will work itself out. My niece just turned 22; she's getting married to a guy that's 33. They're really good for each other so who's to judge??
------ This thread is Archived ------
meganx0x012: I just know many people look down on it but my family and friends can agree with me its something that is just natural to me.
nice to meet you megan and what does it matter what others think if you 2 are both happy and in the relationship for reasons you have shared with each other honestley?Your life.As long as he is 18 or over of course
------ This thread is Archived ------
Haha dont worry Ive always liked older men so I hope he's not younger than 18
------ This thread is Archived ------
You've got no problems...wait until you're an older lady chasing younger men...thats when things get vicious...
------ This thread is Archived ------
meganx0x012: I want to know what people thing about when it comes to the age difference in some couples. I am 18 and have always been interested in people well over my age. It's just something I have always been drawn to. Is this wrong or no?
bottom line is... what you are comfortable with and not what people think...
------ This thread is Archived ------
it matters to me !!!
what would I want with a 25 year old?
not my cup o tea as it were ,
but each to his own,
Hey the same can be said
of blokes with no piccie wiccie !!
Except you FM,
what would I want with a 25 year old?
not my cup o tea as it were ,
but each to his own,
Hey the same can be said
of blokes with no piccie wiccie !!
Except you FM,
------ This thread is Archived ------
I think it can depend on what the age difference is, i married someone 15 yrs older than me we had 2 children and were married 16 yrs, problems started when i still wanted to go out and do things and he just wanted to stay home, that then moved onto jealousy on his part thinking i was looking for a younger man. I think if it's long term it needs alot of thought into the future
------ This thread is Archived ------
morgan5: I think it can depend on what the age difference is, i married someone 15 yrs older than me we had 2 children and were married 16 yrs, problems started when i still wanted to go out and do things and he just wanted to stay home, that then moved onto jealousy on his part thinking i was looking for a younger man. I think if it's long term it needs alot of thought into the future
Bingo! That WILL HAPPEN. You can bet your life on it.
You may not think so right now but once the older of the two starts to slow down, the younger one begins to think "What did I do?"
I'm sorry, I'm not trying to rain on your parade but I've been there and it is very hurtful to both involved and the pain never goes away.
My relationship ended almost 14 years ago after 10 years together and it still hurts my heart a little to this day, and it probably always will.
Then again, things could work out great for you and if you do decide to do it, I wish you all the love and happiness in the world!
Please think rationally about it first though.
Good luck!
------ This thread is Archived ------
meganx0x012: I want to know what people thing about when it comes to the age difference in some couples. I am 18 and have always been interested in people well over my age. It's just something I have always been drawn to. Is this wrong or no?
In a way ages doesn't matter to me: I had relations with younger and with older women!
But because of my experience: I never start anything with a woman below 27!
Reason:
1. They don't know what they want. They change their "mind" like tampons!
2. Only after certain (bad) experience thay're able to value a "good" guy!
3. You don't have to tell a mature woman what makes a man happy!
------ This thread is Archived ------
meganx0x012: I want to know what people thing about when it comes to the age difference in some couples. I am 18 and have always been interested in people well over my age. It's just something I have always been drawn to. Is this wrong or no?
Sure it matters!!
If she is still on the Bottle she is too young.
(Meaning alcohol)
------ This thread is Archived ------
look at several older threads with the same or similar title
------ This thread is Archived ------
I have nothing against a huge age gap....as long as she has doesn't mind taking me walkies in my wheelchair when I'm 80...
------ This thread is Archived ------
Lagoona22: I have nothing against a huge age gap....as long as she has doesn't mind taking me walkies in my wheelchair when I'm 80...
I'm sure she wouldn't mind one bit!!
As long as you have a lot of life insurance and live near a high cliff
------ This thread is Archived ------
Vido1: In a way ages doesn't matter to me: I had relations with younger and with older women!
But because of my experience: I never start anything with a woman below 27!
Reason:
1. They don't know what they want. They change their "mind" like tampons!
2. Only after certain (bad) experience thay're able to value a "good" guy!
3. You don't have to tell a mature woman what makes a man happy!
But because of my experience: I never start anything with a woman below 27!
Reason:
1. They don't know what they want. They change their "mind" like tampons!
2. Only after certain (bad) experience thay're able to value a "good" guy!
3. You don't have to tell a mature woman what makes a man happy!
I totally agree, have also been down that path
The girl I married was just 25, we had 7 wonderful years, no regrets there but then maturity set in and she needed to follow a different path.
I now have the most wonderful 3 year old daughter in the world, I would not swap her for anything but, as a 53 year old the responsibility weighs heavy at times, and now I need to make changes to my life that having such a young child is causing major complications.
Its not just the younger of the couple that needs to look at the whole picture.
------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
biggest lie
your favorite topic?
The GOP Representatives owned by Vladimir Putin
The weird and the random facts around the world
Trump Elementary
makeover
Have it both ways!
who shaped your life?
Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
beauty of the heart
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Stats for this Thread
935 Views
29 Comments
Created: Dec 2008
Last Viewed: Apr 14
Last Commented: Dec 2008
0 Likes