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Jan 11, 2009 7:32 AM CST Interracial Marriages
Steveno
StevenoStevenoQassim, Al-Qassim Saudi Arabia140 Threads 485 Posts
Do mixed race/cultures marriages work?

confused
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Jan 11, 2009 7:36 AM CST Interracial Marriages
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Steveno: Do mixed race/cultures marriages work?
depends on the individuals involved
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Jan 11, 2009 7:37 AM CST Interracial Marriages
DoznEggs
DoznEggsDoznEggsAny town, New Jersey USA17 Threads 933 Posts
Steveno: Do mixed race/cultures marriages work?


It's up to the couple, not their race or culture.

JMO
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Jan 11, 2009 8:25 AM CST Interracial Marriages
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Steveno: Do mixed race/cultures marriages work?


It depends on the people involved. I've known of many that work, even in an area as prejudiced as the one I live in (prejudices that I wasn't raised with since I'm not originally from this area). If two people truly connect and love each other, race/culture shouldn't be a factor. It can pose its difficulties, though, with friends and family, and takes great strength and commitment on the part of the two people involved in the relationship, and even more of all of the ingredients that make any relationship work.

wine
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Jan 11, 2009 8:33 AM CST Interracial Marriages
Steveno
StevenoStevenoQassim, Al-Qassim Saudi Arabia140 Threads 485 Posts
druidess6308: It depends on the people involved. I've known of many that work, even in an area as prejudiced as the one I live in (prejudices that I wasn't raised with since I'm not originally from this area). If two people truly connect and love each other, race/culture shouldn't be a factor. It can pose its difficulties, though, with friends and family, and takes great strength and commitment on the part of the two people involved in the relationship, and even more of all of the ingredients that make any relationship work.


thumbs up thumbs up

Certainly there are many mixed marriages that work well. But it can put additional challenges or strain on a couple, especially when starting out. There may be pressure from family and community against the relationship, and these differences in cultural background often mean differences in expectations and ways of seeing the world which have to be worked out.

But love is a pretty powerful thing, and many couples have resolved those issues and developed strong and long lasting relationships despite them.

teddybear
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Jan 11, 2009 9:34 AM CST Interracial Marriages
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Are not a man and a woman different....can they not be Northerner and Southerner, rich and poor, tightwad and free spender.....etc. In all things a man and a woman can be different and can love each other enough to grow together into one. I see no difference in these things and race/cultures...love is the answer....the true love of the other and the love of each growing toward each other. Take two the exact same without the right love and it will never never work...that is the me..me..me kind of love.

Find the right love and all else is simple!
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Jan 11, 2009 9:38 AM CST Interracial Marriages
cyrille
cyrillecyrilleIstanbul, Marmara Turkey1 Posts
hello i hope u are ok baby
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Jan 11, 2009 9:46 AM CST Interracial Marriages
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
cyrille: hello i hope u are ok baby



And who was that directed to?
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Jan 11, 2009 9:51 AM CST Interracial Marriages
Sommerauer71: And who was that directed to?


You have mail.....

cool
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Jan 11, 2009 9:55 AM CST Interracial Marriages
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Steveno: Do mixed race/cultures marriages work?


This is 2009, not 1909.. Anything can work if the 2 people involved are "available"..confused
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Jan 23, 2009 10:44 AM CST Interracial Marriages
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
This is 2009, not 1909.. Anything can work if the 2 people involved are "available"..[/quote Good point.thumbs up
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Jan 23, 2009 11:19 AM CST Interracial Marriages
gypsykisses
gypsykissesgypsykissesPort Huron, Michigan USA7 Threads 1 Polls 2,405 Posts
Steveno: Do mixed race/cultures marriages work?



if the parties involved work at them, just like any marriage-there will be trials and tribulations-but a TRUE marriage stands the tests of timebouquet
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Jan 23, 2009 11:40 AM CST Interracial Marriages
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Steveno: Do mixed race/cultures marriages work?


I think it depends on the two people involved, just like any other relationship. All relationships have their problems, and with love, trust, communication, and respect, all of them can be worked through. Why would interracial or intercultural marriages be any different? wine
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Jan 23, 2009 11:41 AM CST Interracial Marriages
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: Are not a man and a woman different....can they not be Northerner and Southerner, rich and poor, tightwad and free spender.....etc. In all things a man and a woman can be different and can love each other enough to grow together into one. I see no difference in these things and race/cultures...love is the answer....the true love of the other and the love of each growing toward each other. Take two the exact same without the right love and it will never never work...that is the me..me..me kind of love.

Find the right love and all else is simple!


thumbs up Absolutely right on, Rilly.
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Jan 23, 2009 11:42 AM CST Interracial Marriages
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
druidess6308: I think it depends on the two people involved, just like any other relationship. All relationships have their problems, and with love, trust, communication, and respect, all of them can be worked through. Why would interracial or intercultural marriages be any different?


doh I really need to look at the dates on threads. Sorry, I didn't mean to answer on this twice.
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Jan 23, 2009 12:32 PM CST Interracial Marriages
Abram
AbramAbramGoshen, Ohio USA9 Threads 2,077 Posts
Knowing full well if mixed race/culture marriages can work, my answer is, Yes they can, and do. Some may not, and there are many variables in the lives of both, which can act in a positive, or negative manner on the marriage. Heck, you can find a greater amount of marriages between two, of similar face/culture, that have not worked, then you can of those that have. You can easily do searches and find, since the 1950's-60's divorce rates have increased among those of single race/culture, while the mixed race rate is only slightly higher. "The "Ten Truths about Interracial Marriage" that close the book acknowledge that mixed race couples experience the same stresses as everyone else in addition to those arising from other people's prejudice or curiosity. Their divorce rates are only slightly higher than those of single race couples, which suggests that their success or failure at marriage is not necessarily a racial issue."
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Feb 5, 2009 10:05 AM CST Interracial Marriages
broncos
broncosbroncosToms River, New Jersey USA5 Threads 138 Posts
I think they work and what does it matter anyway? When two people are in love, skin color matters not. I have an interracial couple living next to me and they are very close. Who cares what society thinks when you have the love of your life in your life regardless of the color?
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Feb 5, 2009 11:28 AM CST Interracial Marriages
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
It wouldn't work for me. I am too pig headed. But if you are so inclined, there is no reason why they wouldn't work
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Feb 5, 2009 12:07 PM CST Interracial Marriages
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
does anyone seriously think race will never be an issue??? Get real!
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Feb 5, 2009 12:09 PM CST Interracial Marriages
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
Steveno: Do mixed race/cultures marriages work?




Better ask the people that are in them????
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