Playing the field? ( Archived) (218)

Jan 20, 2009 3:24 PM CST Playing the field?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
whatever dood
thank god i dont measure myself according to others' limited perspective on me

still you single me out tho a number of others agreed

and no one had that input to put you down
no one pulled anything out of the air

the situation as you explained it is:
a) you chatted a bit for a week
b) you had a date in which she seemed interested
c) she said she'd call and didnt call before you contacted her again
d) then she shared with you that she had some pre-existing stuff she was
attending to and that she was only willing to date at this point,
but seemed to be willing to date you.

i responded to your response to that
-which i thot was the input you were looking for by posting the thread??confused
my mistake was perhaps in presuming that you knew by posting
you might get varied input

sorry but the more you scream about what she owed you in your mind according to her committment to call
(which she hadnt done YET, maybe she didnt have a copy of your script?)
and your singling me out in some attempt to villify ME??

its hilarious




confused

ive been called out?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

call this ( / )
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Jan 20, 2009 3:55 PM CST Playing the field?
Wantedman
WantedmanWantedmanHamilton, Ontario Canada3 Threads 76 Posts
Ambrose2007:

In my opinion, her "signs" were as clear as day. But that's just me (and I'm 20 years older than you laugh)

20 years more experience does make a difference.beer



Mindfful with two "ff's", I'm screaming now am I? You must be delusional. Once again you have proved everything I have said about you to be true. I can truly see why you are still single.

I have no script, as you unwittingly suggested. Also the word "villify"
is spelled "vilify". And no, I do not need to "vilify" you, your doing that perfectly fine on your own.

Please try to grow up, and again troll elsewhere.
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Jan 20, 2009 4:00 PM CST Playing the field?
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
crying
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Jan 20, 2009 4:13 PM CST Playing the field?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
mindfful: whatever dood
thank god i dont measure myself according to others' limited perspective on me

still you single me out tho a number of others agreed

and no one had that input to put you down
no one pulled anything out of the air

the situation as you explained it is:
a) you chatted a bit for a week
b) you had a date in which she seemed interested
c) she said she'd call and didnt call before you contacted her again
d) then she shared with you that she had some pre-existing stuff she was
attending to and that she was only willing to date at this point,
but seemed to be willing to date you.

i responded to your response to that
-which i thot was the input you were looking for by posting the thread??
my mistake was perhaps in presuming that you knew by posting
you might get varied input

sorry but the more you scream about what she owed you in your mind according to her committment to call
(which she hadnt done YET, maybe she didnt have a copy of your script?)
and your singling me out in some attempt to villify ME??

its hilarious



ive been called out?

call this ( / )


A parenthetical slash??confused Why whatever could that symbolize?dunno laugh
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Jan 20, 2009 4:15 PM CST Playing the field?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
laura225: Oh, you were, J., in a diff way... and I got so relaxed that I didn't put my coffee when I was reading your post \/\/\/


....almost ruined my new LCD monitor


Thanks, Laura, for the compliment (I strive to ruin such things, you know)!blushing My work here is done for the day, it would seem.head banger laugh
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Jan 20, 2009 4:16 PM CST Playing the field?
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
Ambrose2007: A parenthetical slash?? Why whatever could that symbolize?

i think she meant this .|.. or this .!..


but don't quote me!!! rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 20, 2009 4:20 PM CST Playing the field?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
(/)
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Jan 20, 2009 4:23 PM CST Playing the field?
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
Wantedman: I'm kinda annoyed here...

I met this lady from another dating site, and online and over the phone we seemed to hit it off great!, We have alot in common, and she seemed generally interested in me. So we made arrangements to meet at a pub and talk. Well she did most of the talking. There was alot of eye contact and she also did play with her hair a bit. To me it was signs that she was into me. So we parted ways after about being there for 2hours. There was no kiss, but a nice hug and the promise of calling me later.
That night no call, she apparently was invited by her neighbour out for dinner. Saturday went by and no call but I knew this because she went skiing. Early in the afternoon I texted her a "hello" and no reply.

I checked on the dating site today and notice she had longed on 2hours previous from when I was on. So I messaged her basically asking what was up and asked if she wanted to see me again? Part of her reply was about her ski trip. Then I came to this...

"I did enjoy our meeting and do think you're a nice guy but i want to step back a bit because i realize i have alot going on before i go on my trip. There is no one else but i am starting to get some friends on here and will not limit myself."To me that reads "your ok but I want to play the field see what else is out there". Am I wrong here or? I also have a feeling that this is a lost cause as well... or?



Little bit older and you could have worked this one out on your own and not bothered us here!

I'm not sure what to think this.
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Jan 20, 2009 4:26 PM CST Playing the field?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
princess49503: i think she meant this .|.. or this .!..but don't quote me!!!


hmmm An ellipsistic slash or exclamation mark...?conversing dunno confused This just gets more and more mysterious!

angel
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Jan 20, 2009 4:27 PM CST Playing the field?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
Ambrose2007: An ellipsistic slash or exclamation mark...? This just gets more and more mysterious!
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

youre welcome


yeah
im soooo cryptic


rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 20, 2009 4:27 PM CST Playing the field?
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
Sorry, must have got in a muckin' fuddle there with the keys!



Should be:

Little bit older and you could have worked this one out on your own and not bothered us here!
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Jan 20, 2009 4:30 PM CST Playing the field?
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing Now I know what that is!!!!rolling on the floor laughing


heres mine



((( | )))


tongue rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 20, 2009 4:34 PM CST Playing the field?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
Wantedman: 20 years more experience does make a difference.
Mindfful with two "ff's", I'm screaming now am I? You must be delusional. Once again you have proved everything I have said about you to be true. I can truly see why you are still single.

I have no script, as you unwittingly suggested. Also the word "villify"
is spelled "vilify". And no, I do not need to "vilify" you, your doing that perfectly fine on your own.

Please try to grow up, and again troll elsewhere.



awesome

you know so much about me?

rolling on the floor laughing

you are so right about me???once again????

omg my name is w/ 2 f's fopr a reason and i misspelled vilify

oh what an awful character i amrolling on the floor laughing


come on guy
no one is perfect and not everyone will like everyone-
you dont like me but it aint based on much
see: snap judgement...

anbd just cuz you dont like me it doesnt mean im awful
it just means you have decided you dont and you wont like me

oh well
dunno

oh and ps? if you wanna monitor my spelling it will keep ya busy
i have a handicap that creates some neuro blocks sometimes-or finger stiffness or numbness
and even if i didnt-everyone mis-types- i can accept that-im tolerant.

also ive been married since sept 08/08

cheers
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Jan 20, 2009 4:43 PM CST Playing the field?
Wantedman
WantedmanWantedmanHamilton, Ontario Canada3 Threads 76 Posts
yubba: Sorry, must have got in a muckin' fuddle there with the keys!
Should be:

Little bit older and you could have worked this one out on your own and not bothered us here!



Last I checked this was a free forum where ppl could come and express ideas and ask questions. Or are you the forum police? nope did'nt think so.
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Jan 20, 2009 4:45 PM CST Playing the field?
Wantedman
WantedmanWantedmanHamilton, Ontario Canada3 Threads 76 Posts
mindfful: awesome

you know so much about me?



you are so right about me???once again????

omg my name is w/ 2 f's fopr a reason and i misspelled vilify

oh what an awful character i am come on guy
no one is perfect and not everyone will like everyone-
you dont like me but it aint based on much
see: snap judgement...

anbd just cuz you dont like me it doesnt mean im awful
it just means you have decided you dont and you wont like me

oh well


oh and ps? if you wanna monitor my spelling it will keep ya busy
i have a handicap that creates some neuro blocks sometimes-or finger stiffness or numbness
and even if i didnt-everyone mis-types- i can accept that-im tolerant.

also ive been married since sept 08/08



You just don't know when to leave things alone do you? I've asked you several times to take your trolling remarks elsewhere and yet you persist on typing BS on this forum. I guess you would rather be banned. Thats fine.
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Jan 20, 2009 4:49 PM CST Playing the field?
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
Last I checked this was a free forum where ppl could come and express ideas and ask questions. Or are you the forum police? nope did'nt think so.
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Jan 20, 2009 4:50 PM CST Playing the field?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
yubba: Sorry, must have got in a muckin' fuddle there with the keys!
Should be:

Little bit older and you could have worked this one out on your own and not bothered us here!


Sorry, Yubba, but I do think that's rather harsh!! scold

This man had a dilemma and wanted some viewpoints. It happens a lot and that's perfectly okay, particularly as he had expressed himself in an understable and courteous manner. Most of us, at times, can't see the wood for the trees, particularly in affairs of the heart, and often two/several heads are better than one?

Besides, there are very often threads containing absolute inane drivel that don't receive such unfavourable responses as the one you gave, and perhaps should.

Its all a diverse and interesting mix. Though, please note my remark re. courtesy?
peace
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Jan 20, 2009 4:51 PM CST Playing the field?
Wantedman
WantedmanWantedmanHamilton, Ontario Canada3 Threads 76 Posts
Expressing ideas by insulting a person who simply had a question is not allowed on the forums. Perhaps you should read the rules.
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Jan 20, 2009 4:51 PM CST Playing the field?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Wantedman: You just don't know when to leave things alone do you? I've asked you several times to take your trolling remarks elsewhere and yet you persist on typing BS on this forum. I guess you would rather be banned. Thats fine.


scold Whoa, Wanted - now you're going too far. In previous posts you spoke of being entitled to voice your opinion. She has that same entitlement. You've both traded insults. If those are cause for being banned, then you would *both* suffer that.

In any case, threatening to complain to the MODs is in my opinion uncalled for over disagreements - except in rather extreme circumstances. You haven't been here long, but this doesn't even come close to qualifying.
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Jan 20, 2009 4:51 PM CST Playing the field?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Wantedman: Expressing ideas by insulting a person who simply had a question is not allowed on the forums. Perhaps you should read the rules.


You were insulting to her as well, Wanted.
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