whatever dood thank god i dont measure myself according to others' limited perspective on me
still you single me out tho a number of others agreed
and no one had that input to put you down no one pulled anything out of the air
the situation as you explained it is: a) you chatted a bit for a week b) you had a date in which she seemed interested c) she said she'd call and didnt call before you contacted her again d) then she shared with you that she had some pre-existing stuff she was attending to and that she was only willing to date at this point, but seemed to be willing to date you.
i responded to your response to that -which i thot was the input you were looking for by posting the thread?? my mistake was perhaps in presuming that you knew by posting you might get varied input
sorry but the more you scream about what she owed you in your mind according to her committment to call (which she hadnt done YET, maybe she didnt have a copy of your script?) and your singling me out in some attempt to villify ME??
In my opinion, her "signs" were as clear as day. But that's just me (and I'm 20 years older than you laugh)
20 years more experience does make a difference.
Mindfful with two "ff's", I'm screaming now am I? You must be delusional. Once again you have proved everything I have said about you to be true. I can truly see why you are still single.
I have no script, as you unwittingly suggested. Also the word "villify" is spelled "vilify". And no, I do not need to "vilify" you, your doing that perfectly fine on your own.
mindfful: whatever dood thank god i dont measure myself according to others' limited perspective on me
still you single me out tho a number of others agreed
and no one had that input to put you down no one pulled anything out of the air
the situation as you explained it is: a) you chatted a bit for a week b) you had a date in which she seemed interested c) she said she'd call and didnt call before you contacted her again d) then she shared with you that she had some pre-existing stuff she was attending to and that she was only willing to date at this point, but seemed to be willing to date you.
i responded to your response to that -which i thot was the input you were looking for by posting the thread?? my mistake was perhaps in presuming that you knew by posting you might get varied input
sorry but the more you scream about what she owed you in your mind according to her committment to call (which she hadnt done YET, maybe she didnt have a copy of your script?) and your singling me out in some attempt to villify ME??
its hilarious
ive been called out?
call this ( / )
A parenthetical slash?? Why whatever could that symbolize?
I met this lady from another dating site, and online and over the phone we seemed to hit it off great!, We have alot in common, and she seemed generally interested in me. So we made arrangements to meet at a pub and talk. Well she did most of the talking. There was alot of eye contact and she also did play with her hair a bit. To me it was signs that she was into me. So we parted ways after about being there for 2hours. There was no kiss, but a nice hug and the promise of calling me later. That night no call, she apparently was invited by her neighbour out for dinner. Saturday went by and no call but I knew this because she went skiing. Early in the afternoon I texted her a "hello" and no reply.
I checked on the dating site today and notice she had longed on 2hours previous from when I was on. So I messaged her basically asking what was up and asked if she wanted to see me again? Part of her reply was about her ski trip. Then I came to this...
"I did enjoy our meeting and do think you're a nice guy but i want to step back a bit because i realize i have alot going on before i go on my trip. There is no one else but i am starting to get some friends on here and will not limit myself."To me that reads "your ok but I want to play the field see what else is out there". Am I wrong here or? I also have a feeling that this is a lost cause as well... or?
Little bit older and you could have worked this one out on your own and not bothered us here!
Wantedman: 20 years more experience does make a difference. Mindfful with two "ff's", I'm screaming now am I? You must be delusional. Once again you have proved everything I have said about you to be true. I can truly see why you are still single.
I have no script, as you unwittingly suggested. Also the word "villify" is spelled "vilify". And no, I do not need to "vilify" you, your doing that perfectly fine on your own.
Please try to grow up, and again troll elsewhere.
awesome
you know so much about me?
you are so right about me???once again????
omg my name is w/ 2 f's fopr a reason and i misspelled vilify
oh what an awful character i am
come on guy no one is perfect and not everyone will like everyone- you dont like me but it aint based on much see: snap judgement...
anbd just cuz you dont like me it doesnt mean im awful it just means you have decided you dont and you wont like me
oh well
oh and ps? if you wanna monitor my spelling it will keep ya busy i have a handicap that creates some neuro blocks sometimes-or finger stiffness or numbness and even if i didnt-everyone mis-types- i can accept that-im tolerant.
omg my name is w/ 2 f's fopr a reason and i misspelled vilify
oh what an awful character i am come on guy no one is perfect and not everyone will like everyone- you dont like me but it aint based on much see: snap judgement...
anbd just cuz you dont like me it doesnt mean im awful it just means you have decided you dont and you wont like me
oh well
oh and ps? if you wanna monitor my spelling it will keep ya busy i have a handicap that creates some neuro blocks sometimes-or finger stiffness or numbness and even if i didnt-everyone mis-types- i can accept that-im tolerant.
also ive been married since sept 08/08
You just don't know when to leave things alone do you? I've asked you several times to take your trolling remarks elsewhere and yet you persist on typing BS on this forum. I guess you would rather be banned. Thats fine.
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
yubba: Sorry, must have got in a muckin' fuddle there with the keys! Should be:
Little bit older and you could have worked this one out on your own and not bothered us here!
Sorry, Yubba, but I do think that's rather harsh!!
This man had a dilemma and wanted some viewpoints. It happens a lot and that's perfectly okay, particularly as he had expressed himself in an understable and courteous manner. Most of us, at times, can't see the wood for the trees, particularly in affairs of the heart, and often two/several heads are better than one?
Besides, there are very often threads containing absolute inane drivel that don't receive such unfavourable responses as the one you gave, and perhaps should.
Its all a diverse and interesting mix. Though, please note my remark re. courtesy?
Wantedman: You just don't know when to leave things alone do you? I've asked you several times to take your trolling remarks elsewhere and yet you persist on typing BS on this forum. I guess you would rather be banned. Thats fine.
Whoa, Wanted - now you're going too far. In previous posts you spoke of being entitled to voice your opinion. She has that same entitlement. You've both traded insults. If those are cause for being banned, then you would *both* suffer that.
In any case, threatening to complain to the MODs is in my opinion uncalled for over disagreements - except in rather extreme circumstances. You haven't been here long, but this doesn't even come close to qualifying.
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thank god i dont measure myself according to others' limited perspective on me
still you single me out tho a number of others agreed
and no one had that input to put you down
no one pulled anything out of the air
the situation as you explained it is:
a) you chatted a bit for a week
b) you had a date in which she seemed interested
c) she said she'd call and didnt call before you contacted her again
d) then she shared with you that she had some pre-existing stuff she was
attending to and that she was only willing to date at this point,
but seemed to be willing to date you.
i responded to your response to that
-which i thot was the input you were looking for by posting the thread??
my mistake was perhaps in presuming that you knew by posting
you might get varied input
sorry but the more you scream about what she owed you in your mind according to her committment to call
(which she hadnt done YET, maybe she didnt have a copy of your script?)
and your singling me out in some attempt to villify ME??
its hilarious
ive been called out?
call this ( / )