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Jan 22, 2009 12:32 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
Are we too PC these days?

Reason I ask, is that it someone mentioned it was their birthday today. I said congratulations, and asked them how old they were. Even though I already knew them, they took offence.

I was later told that its now considered to be un-PC if you ask someone their age on their birthday, or any other time.doh

Doesnt seem safe to say anything to anyone anymore, it seems!!

Its all gone mad!!blues
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Jan 22, 2009 12:35 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Agree...thumbs up

People are so touchy these days. It seems they are looking for an excuse to get angry.

I have bipolar depression and when people make jokes about being looney I like to participate in them. We should all lighten up and realize life is too short to focus on the negative all the time.

<---Mr negativity...laugh uh oh
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Jan 22, 2009 12:37 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
mbcasey: Agree...

People are so touchy these days. It seems they are looking for an excuse to get angry.

I have bipolar depression and when people make jokes about being looney I like to participate in them. We should all lighten up and realize life is too short to focus on the negative all the time.

<---Mr negativity...


Absolutely agree!thumbs up If we cant laugh at ourselves, its very sad. It just seems these days that we cant say anything to anyone, without some kind of offence being possibly taken.

doh
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Jan 22, 2009 12:38 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
petalbabe: Are we too PC these days?

Reason I ask, is that it someone mentioned it was their birthday today. I said congratulations, and asked them how old they were. Even though I already knew them, they took offence.

I was later told that its now considered to be un-PC if you ask someone their age on their birthday, or any other time.

Doesnt seem safe to say anything to anyone anymore, it seems!!

Its all gone mad!!


I don't think that qualifies as "political correctness." It would fall more into the general manners category, I believe.

Political correctness (traditionally) refers to opinions about politics or subjects related to politics (sometimes of a philosophic nature).wave

And please don't ask my age - it's been causing enough controversy of late...dunno blushing
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Jan 22, 2009 12:39 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Ambrose2007: I don't think that qualifies as "political correctness." It would fall more into the general manners category, I believe.

Political correctness (traditionally) refers to opinions about politics or subjects related to politics (sometimes of a philosophic nature).

And please don't ask my age - it's been causing enough controversy of late...


You are definitely young at heart Jeff...handshake
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Jan 22, 2009 12:40 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
petalbabe: Are we too PC these days?

Reason I ask, is that it someone mentioned it was their birthday today. I said congratulations, and asked them how old they were. Even though I already knew them, they took offence.

I was later told that its now considered to be un-PC if you ask someone their age on their birthday, or any other time.

Doesnt seem safe to say anything to anyone anymore, it seems!!

Its all gone mad!!


So, how old are you then? laugh wave
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Jan 22, 2009 12:42 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
Ambrose2007: I don't think that qualifies as "political correctness." It would fall more into the general manners category, I believe.

Political correctness (traditionally) refers to opinions about politics or subjects related to politics (sometimes of a philosophic nature).

And please don't ask my age - it's been causing enough controversy of late...


Would dream of asking your age, Ambrose!!

Think my point is, if I had NOT known the person casually, I would have never have presumed to ask their age. That WOULD have come across possibly as rude. The only reason I asked is that I did know the person in passing, she was not a complete stranger, and it was STILL considered to be non-PC.

confused
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Jan 22, 2009 12:43 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
Fallingman: So, how old are you then?


Varies from day to day...Totally depends on the amount of drink taken!!tongue
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Jan 22, 2009 12:46 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
petalbabe: Are we too PC these days?

Reason I ask, is that it someone mentioned it was their birthday today. I said congratulations, and asked them how old they were. Even though I already knew them, they took offence.

I was later told that its now considered to be un-PC if you ask someone their age on their birthday, or any other time.

Doesnt seem safe to say anything to anyone anymore, it seems!!

Its all gone mad!!





We are indeed too PC and have been for many years, l believe it has caused so many problems for a lot of unsuspecting people.


Being asked your age on your birthday or at anytime, possibly means that this person you asked had a pet hate of this, dont worry.........................ask me anytime!
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Jan 22, 2009 4:33 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
simplicomplic8d
simplicomplic8dsimplicomplic8dWoodhaven, Michigan USA18 Posts
Are you bloody kidding me?

help
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Jan 22, 2009 4:38 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
petalbabe: Are we too PC these days?

Reason I ask, is that it someone mentioned it was their birthday today. I said congratulations, and asked them how old they were. Even though I already knew them, they took offence.

I was later told that its now considered to be un-PC if you ask someone their age on their birthday, or any other time.

Doesnt seem safe to say anything to anyone anymore, it seems!!

Its all gone mad!!


OUCH. Some people are touchy, but I've never had anyone tell me that this is un-PC. doh Honestly...I ask a lot of people how old they are on their birthday. "Really? It is? Well, happy birthday. How old are you today?" Honestly, it's called conversation...and I've never minded answering the question in return. I'm not ashamed of my years, and I certainly don't say anything like, "I don't have birthdays anymore"...'cuz I'm happy I'm still alive to have them. applause

I'm sorry someone was so insecure as to tell you this...and so down on themselves. Sheesh.
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Jan 22, 2009 4:39 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
I'm not, but society as a whole is, and yes I find annoying as hell....JMOcheers
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Jan 22, 2009 4:43 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
petalbabe: Are we too PC these days?

Its now considered to be un-PC if you ask someone their age on their birthday, or any other time.
Doesnt seem safe to say anything to anyone anymore, it seems!!
Its all gone mad!!


Sheesh, it's crazy.
What is the use of even having birthdays if we can't discuss age?
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Jan 22, 2009 4:52 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
petalbabe: Are we too PC these days?

Reason I ask, is that it someone mentioned it was their birthday today. I said congratulations, and asked them how old they were. Even though I already knew them, they took offence.

I was later told that its now considered to be un-PC if you ask someone their age on their birthday, or any other time.

Doesnt seem safe to say anything to anyone anymore, it seems!!

Its all gone mad!!


There is good PC and PC which perhaps has gone OTT. I love the changes in our language to accommodate it, being a teacher of English, it interests me a lot.

Think about the way language has evolved in respect of people with various disabilities, that can only be a good thing. The only reason people used words such as handicapped, or even worse, was because people with disabilities were not as visible as they, thankfully, are today. Visibility and acceptance means tolerance and using acceptable language.

Incidentally, I would never dream of asking anybody under perhaps 16, how old they were. That has nothing to do with being PC, just good manners in my opinion.
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Jan 22, 2009 4:55 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Hell I'm still mad because "THEY" decided that I should have to capitalize letters, put spaces between words and put comma's inbetween my runon sentences....laugh
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Jan 22, 2009 5:08 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
Tater: Hell I'm still mad because "THEY" decided that I should have to capitalize letters, put spaces between words and put comma's inbetween my runon sentences....
scold nowyoumaybegoingalittletoofarwiththatone....rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 22, 2009 5:16 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
jlw45: nowyoumaybegoingalittletoofarwiththatone....
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

I almost wrote it like that....cheers
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Jan 22, 2009 5:25 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
petalbabe: Would dream of asking your age, Ambrose!!

Think my point is, if I had NOT known the person casually, I would have never have presumed to ask their age. That WOULD have come across possibly as rude. The only reason I asked is that I did know the person in passing, she was not a complete stranger, and it was STILL considered to be non-PC.


I hope you'll tell me how that dream works out. laugh

Still don't think that qualifies as a politically correct or incorrect issue, by my understanding of what that term means. For instance, one wouldn't call someone politically incorrect for asking "Do you dye your hair?" or "Have you had plastic surgery?" Those kinds of questions would generally just be considered bad-mannered because they're (possibly) invasive. If you're going to use "politically correct/incorrect" to label those kinds of behaviors, then the term would apply to virtually every manner of objectionable behavior, thereby rendering it worthless, no?dunno wave
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Jan 22, 2009 5:28 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
JamesBraginton
JamesBragintonJamesBragintonPalm Desert, California USA179 Posts
petalbabe: Are we too PC these days?

Reason I ask, is that it someone mentioned it was their birthday today. I said congratulations, and asked them how old they were. Even though I already knew them, they took offence.

I was later told that its now considered to be un-PC if you ask someone their age on their birthday, or any other time.

Doesnt seem safe to say anything to anyone anymore, it seems!!

Its all gone mad!!



Too bad if they can't take a joke.
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Jan 22, 2009 5:30 PM CST Political Correctness - Gone Mad?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
I hope you'll tell me how that dream works out.

Still don't think that qualifies as a politically correct or incorrect issue, by my understanding of what that term means. For instance, one wouldn't call someone politically incorrect for asking "Do you dye your hair?" or "Have you had plastic surgery?" Those kinds of questions would generally just be considered bad-mannered because they're (possibly) invasive. If you're going to use "politically correct/incorrect" to label those kinds of behaviors, then the term would apply to virtually every manner of objectionable behavior, thereby rendering it worthless, no?[/quote

I agree. It shouldnt have been a PC issue.

It was not me who labeled anything! Thats the point! I think it was ridiculous.

Just passing on my own experience, is all..
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