My lupus has come out of remission and is real bad this time. I am in so much pain it is taking me forever to type on the threads. I also cannot get warm. I have on very warm gloves and 3 pairs of socks and my fingers and toes are still blue. I usually try clearing my mind and meditating and that works sometimes. But now dammit I had to go to more medication and I hate that. Do any of you out there in this vast dating circle suffer from these types of deseases and if so how do you cope?
Also have been talking to a man from the other site for quite sometime now. We were going to meet so I decided it was time to tell him about the lupus. He dropped me like a hot potato. But when he told me he suffered from erectile dysfunction I told him not to worry about it. If we decided we were right for each other and moved in together I would help him as much as I could. Oh well his loss. At least I have many friends he will stay loyal even in these bad times.
My sister has lupus, but has been in remission for quite a few years now. She still suffers from arthritis though. And the doctors had thought she may not be able to get pregnant. But she is now the proud momma of 3 kids. When she was little, she was diagnosed with rheumatic fever, which I understand was misdiagnosed instead of lupus.
My co-worker has lupus & can't go out in the sun for long periods of time, is always cold, gets odd skin rashes, etc.
Try things like reflexology. It helps with the pain, and might help with the circulation. Also, have you tried acupuncture or acupressure? Both of those can help immensely with long term medical conditions. It's even getting documented now by medical science. Anything is worth a try, hon. I'll send positive energy your way, my friend. And yes...his loss.
T/Y all so much for your kind words and thoughts. It is very true, if out in the sun too long it affects your skin. I have some rashes on my face and back now. I have done some reflexology Dru but have to be so careful. Have not tried acupuncture, but also have to check everytime I try new things to make sure my insurance will cover it. Before I go to bed I will go sit in the shower with very hot water for about 45 minutes.
Sassy , there are some great support sites for Lupus , I suggest you look them and get involved . Very often they have forums where you can learn alot about how to manage your problem. Good Luck
Sassy I have a cousin who have been dealing with Lupus for several years. He has to wear gloves about all the time with it is cooler. At one point they thought he was going to lose his finger tips. Will keep you in my thoughts and prayers
Thanks all for your support. I guess I was so upset last night trying to deal with everything that I forgot to mention that I also have MS. Was diagnosed with that in my 20's, had 3 children and gave birth to 2 more. I am a fighter, just once in awhile I get brought down. We have a support group right here that gets together monthly for the MS and I do on line support for lupus. I got in almost 4 hours of rest last night so that helped. Once again thanks to my dear CS family. You have been there for my support and it is greatly appreciated.
sassy49senior: My lupus has come out of remission and is real bad this time. I am in so much pain it is taking me forever to type on the threads. I also cannot get warm. I have on very warm gloves and 3 pairs of socks and my fingers and toes are still blue. I usually try clearing my mind and meditating and that works sometimes. But now dammit I had to go to more medication and I hate that. Do any of you out there in this vast dating circle suffer from these types of deseases and if so how do you cope?
Also have been talking to a man from the other site for quite sometime now. We were going to meet so I decided it was time to tell him about the lupus. He dropped me like a hot potato. But when he told me he suffered from erectile dysfunction I told him not to worry about it. If we decided we were right for each other and moved in together I would help him as much as I could. Oh well his loss. At least I have many friends he will stay loyal even in these bad times.
Sassy, having a chronic condition can be taxing, but I am praying for you... always.
trish123: EFT is worth checking out Sassy - its like acupuncture but without the needles and you can easily learn to do it yourself - heres a good link;
sassy49senior: T/Y Trish, Just clicked on and read about it. Will give it a try later today.
I hope you find it of use Sassy - I try to steer clear of sites with sales pitches but this one gives you the basics for free and the newsletter is pretty informative too Good luck
oh yes, the guy you mentioned - I reckon you had a lucky escape!
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My lupus has come out of remission and is real bad this
time. I am in so much pain it is taking me forever to
type on the threads. I also cannot get warm. I have on
very warm gloves and 3 pairs of socks and my fingers and
toes are still blue. I usually try clearing my mind and
meditating and that works sometimes. But now dammit I had
to go to more medication and I hate that. Do any of you
out there in this vast dating circle suffer from these
types of deseases and if so how do you cope?
Also have been talking to a man from the other site for quite
sometime now. We were going to meet so I decided it was time
to tell him about the lupus. He dropped me like a hot potato.
But when he told me he suffered from erectile dysfunction I
told him not to worry about it. If we decided we were right
for each other and moved in together I would help him as
much as I could. Oh well his loss. At least I have many
friends he will stay loyal even in these bad times.