Glimpses of unum…
Definition for: unum
accusative singular masculine of unus, one
nominative and accusative singular neuter of unus, one
As a healer, I witness suffering daily,
I have a very soft spot for those in distress among us,
More so for those whose anguish is emotional,
More so for those who are tender of age…
Although, I have seen great dis-ease in my therapy room,
Often, I’m more mortally influenced when I view it outside, in the great beyond we call our society, when my guard is down and I least expect it…
I will be at a theatre,
And there, in plain sight,
Yet hidden from the untrained eye,
Is a beautiful young blonde, languishing,
Frame ever so slightly bent,
Breasts ever so slightly caved in,
Legs not so pert,
Their liveliness and sauciness absent tonight,
The smile ever so slightly fake,
The twinkle certainly missing from lack-luster eyes…
Who knows her pain?
Who will whisper a word in her ear to make it better?
Did she get the minimum of eight hugs we need daily, just to break even,
today?
Who will give her ten or twelve hugs,
Brotherly hugs, healing hugs, not leeringly or lustfully?
Sigh, I sigh sooo deeply,
But, I pass humbly on,
Powerless to offer succor,
I leave her to the universe,
And I contemplate the cavernous bond that meshes us all together,
For, assuredly, I would not notice such travail in a ‘stranger’, if that stranger were not inexorably intertwined with me,
And me with the great ‘unum’…,
And you, and you, and you…
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Posted: May 2011
Comments (19)
Your contributions are always a "must read", and never disappoint. You have a rare insightfulness into the human condition and are an acute observer of life.
I could go on EGT. If my path ever takes me to the Island of Aphrodite again, I would be mortified if I failed to meet with you and enjoy a glass of something cheering.
Kindest regards
Bill
So, where did this minimum of eight hugs we need daily figure come from - just to break even? I realize that too often our lives are lived with such a huge hug-deficit! But, now, there is actually a number associated with it! Go ahead; reach out and hug someone!
Wed May 18, 2011 11:08 PM
WOW!! such a deep thought provoking poem, a poem that will linger in my mind when I am washing the dishes.
you honor me greatly dear Odette, thank you...
Wed May 18, 2011 11:36 PM
wow you really know people earlgrey , it's a shame that we are not connected, it's a shame we don't trust each other , but i suppose we can learn. I just checked what unum was, it means one out of many and the u.s of a uses it as it's motto.
you hit the nail on the head with the trust issue dear Schawalski, i try to remember that people get hurt by others and that they carry this unconscious mistrust around with them and project it to the rest of us, deserved or not, pity, 'cause it mars our world..., so, i try not to take it personally, thank for your insightful comment...
Wed May 18, 2011 11:58 PM
Dear Earl Grey
Your contributions are always a "must read", and never disappoint. You have a rare insightfulness into the human condition and are an acute observer of life.
I could go on EGT. If my path ever takes me to the Island of Aphrodite again, I would be mortified if I failed to meet with you and enjoy a glass of something cheering.
Kindest regards
Bill
Thank you dear Bill, it's such a pleasure to get your delightful comments, i'm sure i'm not the only one that appreciates your input, and its significant value, I recently sent a poem of mine with a few comments to one of my daughters, and she was sooo moved by your comment as well, many thanks!
You have a talent, kind heart and huge
experience to help people!
Thank you that you exist!
You are the best. I need to get more hugs, that must be it. Wonderful, caring write from a wonderful, caring soul. Thank you for sharing once again. Take care.
Thu May 19, 2011 1:51 AM
Hi Eargreytea......lovely caring words.....you are genuine and kind....because you look inside....and sometimes we need that in socity....I have lymphedeoma....and cope well, but once was bedridden with it, and now act normally, but cope daily with problems I'd rather not have....We all need someone to care.....and a hug better than anything in a bottle.....Niah
Thank you for your kind words dear Niah...
tinkerbell3621 Avon, New York USA
Thu May 19, 2011 2:15 AM
Thank you Earlgrey for being one of the few who even notice those in and around us that are in pain. So many are consumed with themselves and their own lives they refuse to try caring about anyone else. "I have enough troubles of my own",they say. And go on with life as usual while all around there is suffering,illness,poverty and death.Thank you Earlgrey for being truly human.
Thank you sooo much for your comment, we will win in the end...
mcradloff Platteville, Wisconsin USA
Thu May 19, 2011 2:40 AM
Hugs are great healers, I feel blessed I have someone who hugs me daily. Good write!
you are indeed blessed, thanks for your comment...
to all...