I do not know anything of the right or false here.
I am what and who I am ... I have always been enjoyed by the way God has created me - seeing my face , reading my name ...
... and still - a poet , a writer may be creative in threading an idea through a poem. It can be of different layers , it can be of different threads ... different ornamentation ... style ...colour ...
Very often we are like open books - it depends on - how deep we let the reader get into our heart , soul ... Some protective elements are needed for that - a reader can get through them or not.
Anyway - thank you , Adjhe, for sharing !