Before making a decision like that meet the person first.You get the taste of him/her and the location.If, you like both or the location is nice then it's up to you to move.
gsmonks: It's come right down to it! You've met someone on-line and they're perfect! Everything has come together in the best possible way!
However . . .
What do you do now? Do you shrug, think of it as a nice thought, and let it go?
Or do you decide to sell your belongings, pack a few suitcases, and take the plunge?
Let's find out who's dedicated to finding that special someone and who's not, shall we?
Well man I have to say DON'T DO IT!!! I'm sorry thats just the pessimist in me talking. I moved for someone once and it ended up being a HUGE waste of time. My advice is go visit, see if you like it and take some time to make sure it will work out.
Navymuffin: Before making a decision like that meet the person first.You get the taste of him/her and the location.If, you like both or the location is nice then it's up to you to move.
Navymuffin: Before making a decision like that meet the person first.You get the taste of him/her and the location.If, you like both or the location is nice then it's up to you to move.
Navymuffin: Before making a decision like that meet the person first.You get the taste of him/her and the location.If, you like both or the location is nice then it's up to you to move.
I would and i have for a time, until i found all the reasons why to "not"
as long as i was filled in on the local scene and employment opportunities beforehand and i had a grasp on the situation before I made the transition, sure,it might be the adventure and love of a lifetime
IT's better to get to know first who you be with,dunno what's behind the wall ..on-line is different than real..And when you get to know each other there is a plan,but sometimes plans never happen so don't expect much..Well not all ppl are desame you'll never know until you find out or live together..
In 2000 I starting talking with a man online. We got a long on line so we exchanged phone numbers. We became friends and for Christmas he sent me round trip airline tickets to come meet him in person. (By this time we have been talking for 3 months.) I fell in love with Virginia (that's where he lived) and 4 months later I moved to Virginia to live with him.
Unfortunately it didn't work out between him and me but I am so thankful and blessed for the experience of living in Virginia for a year.
gsmonks: It's come right down to it! You've met someone on-line and they're perfect! Everything has come together in the best possible way!
However . . .
What do you do now? Do you shrug, think of it as a nice thought, and let it go?
Or do you decide to sell your belongings, pack a few suitcases, and take the plunge?
Let's find out who's dedicated to finding that special someone and who's not, shall we?
Obviously, it is a given that the two would meet in person, get on well; chemistry; yadda, yadda...Yes, I would move. I'm used to travel and being away from home, so no biggie. Besides, I'm not tied to my possessions, except for books and music. I have plenty of clothes...and no shortage of shoes And depending on the location, I would return to see family and friends periodically.
p.s. No way would I contemplate living in polar bear country, though.
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Would you move to live with someone you met on-line?(Vote Below)
However . . .
What do you do now? Do you shrug, think of it as a nice thought, and let it go?
Or do you decide to sell your belongings, pack a few suitcases, and take the plunge?
Let's find out who's dedicated to finding that special someone and who's not, shall we?