IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING?????? (179)

Nov 10, 2011 6:48 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
JameelK: LOL Thank you .. i feel honoured


Jamee, I perved your profile. I'm glad you beat drinking cause you're a cute guy. And I see you are friends with Marrs. Another great guy. The three muskeeters....Jamee, Jeepers, Marrs...yay
Nov 10, 2011 6:51 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
JameelK: Id give you one.... a dancing banana that is :-P but i have no idea how to do them..lol


Okay Jamee....Dancing Bananna 101

First you click on Reply just like you do now
Then you look over to the right and you will see emoticons
Click on the bananna and it will go in the area where you would type your reply.

If you don't see an emote there that you like
Then look over to the right and under the emotes it says "Click here for more Emoticons"
When you click on that it gives you more emotes.

So try it now to give me a bananna or a hug or a kiss...
Nov 10, 2011 6:53 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
JameelK
JameelKJameelKMinehead, Somerset, England UK3 Threads 93 Posts
montecito: Jamee, I perved your profile. I'm glad you beat drinking cause you're a cute guy. And I see you are friends with Marrs. Another great guy. The three muskeeters....Jamee, Jeepers, Marrs...


as long as your dartnione :-) and thank for the cute :-)

you picture is hot.. almost like a painting :-P lol

anyways.. its way past my bed time goodnight all xx
Nov 10, 2011 6:54 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
montecito: Okay Jamee....Dancing Bananna 101

First you click on Reply just like you do now
Then you look over to the right and you will see emoticons
Click on the bananna and it will go in the area where you would type your reply.

If you don't see an emote there that you like
Then look over to the right and under the emotes it says "Click here for more Emoticons"
When you click on that it gives you more emotes.

So try it now to give me a bananna or a hug or a kiss...
I've got a banana for ya ! devil

rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 10, 2011 6:54 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
JameelK: as long as your dartnione :-) and thank for the cute :-)

you picture is hot.. almost like a painting :-P lol

anyways.. its way past my bed time goodnight all xx


But...but...but...you didn't give me a bananna. sigh
Nov 10, 2011 6:55 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
Jeeepers: I've got a banana for ya !


You're all talk Jeeps.
Nov 10, 2011 6:55 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
JameelK
JameelKJameelKMinehead, Somerset, England UK3 Threads 93 Posts
montecito: Okay Jamee....Dancing Bananna 101

First you click on Reply just like you do now
Then you look over to the right and you will see emoticons
Click on the bananna and it will go in the area where you would type your reply.

If you don't see an emote there that you like
Then look over to the right and under the emotes it says "Click here for more Emoticons"
When you click on that it gives you more emotes.

So try it now to give me a bananna or a hug or a kiss...


banana teddybear lips blushing
Nov 10, 2011 6:55 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
CMA467
CMA467CMA467Central CT, Connecticut USA5 Posts
Marisoll,
Hi, my name is Christina...I have been exactly where you are - as much as you love & adore your boyfriend - you just may need to leave him and hope for the best, I have a tremendously heartbreaking story to tell you, only if you want to hear it will I tell you. But from experience, its in your best interest to leave the relationship & move forward with your life...I sincerely wish you all the best in whatever decision you make...& will support you either wayteddybear
Nov 10, 2011 6:56 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
montecito: You're all talk Jeeps.
teddybear

have a nice night,gotta go soon.
Nov 10, 2011 6:58 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
CMA467
CMA467CMA467Central CT, Connecticut USA5 Posts
banana
Nov 10, 2011 6:58 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
I'm so proud of you Jamee. Thank you for the love. Have pleasant dreams...Good job...applause applause
Nov 10, 2011 6:59 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
Jeeepers: have a nice night,gotta go soon.


Pleasant dreams hon...angel sleep heart wings
Nov 10, 2011 7:01 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
Yea, the bananna lady is here. Hello CMA...Does that stand for Country Music Awards...laugh

Maybe you could email Marisol with your story as she hasn't come back to the thread since she wrote it.bouquet
Nov 10, 2011 7:06 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
CMA467
CMA467CMA467Central CT, Connecticut USA5 Posts
montecito: Yea, the bananna lady is here. Hello CMA...Does that stand for Country Music Awards...

Maybe you could email Marisol with your story as she hasn't come back to the thread since she wrote it.


CMA is my initials...sorry to hear she hasn't been back to read her responses to her post...Wish you the best, pls note the bananna was a request by CS to post my comment, I thought it was strange but clicked on it to post...I wish you & Marisol the best.
Nov 10, 2011 7:19 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
CMA467: CMA is my initials...sorry to hear she hasn't been back to read her responses to her post...Wish you the best, pls note the bananna was a request by CS to post my comment, I thought it was strange but clicked on it to post...I wish you & Marisol the best.


Not sure what you mean "the bananna was a request by CS to post my comment". confused
Nov 10, 2011 7:24 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
CMA467
CMA467CMA467Central CT, Connecticut USA5 Posts
montecito: Not sure what you mean "the bananna was a request by CS to post my comment".


I was being sincere & serious replying to Marisol's post, yet I got a response from you instead-while I appreciate your replying to my post, lets just drop it...you're obviously more interested in flirting with responses than being serious...good luck to you and everything that is important to you, sincerely.
Nov 10, 2011 8:30 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
CMA467: I was being sincere & serious replying to Marisol's post, yet I got a response from you instead-while I appreciate your replying to my post, lets just drop it...you're obviously more interested in flirting with responses than being serious...good luck to you and everything that is important to you, sincerely.


Whoa there you. You are way out of line. You've been on CS since August 13th and you think you can attack me. In no way was I flirting with anyone and if I was it's none of your business. To say that I'm not serious is this thread shows how ridiculous you are. Get your ducks in a row before you attack someone. I see that you are logged off so I will see you in email.
Nov 10, 2011 8:34 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
montecito: Whoa there you. You are way out of line. You've been on CS since August 13th and you think you can attack me. In no way was I flirting with anyone and if I was it's none of your business. To say that I'm not serious is this thread shows how ridiculous you are. Get your ducks in a row before you attack someone. I see that you are logged off so I will see you in email.


Well you have my area blocked so I can't email you. I sincerely hope you read my post.bouquet
Nov 10, 2011 8:35 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
CMA467
CMA467CMA467Central CT, Connecticut USA5 Posts
what a viscous paranoid person you are...first of all I sent a reply to Marisol...you replied to me - wrong...you should have left your lonely comment to yourself...you are a sinister person who I care never to come in contact with...with that said...I will NEVER reply to a post on here for not to be REBUKED by a person like you. Again, I wish you the best sincerely, but yet I am assuming you can accept someone would say that - especially to you. God Bless you - I will keep you in my prayers.
Nov 11, 2011 3:30 AM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Class5: I know my friend, but talking about it all the time was not something I wanted to do at that point. Anyway, I've been fine without AA and I don't care about drinking anymore~it doesn't define who I am.
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
I know just what type of Meetings you're talking about!
I avoid those like the Plague!laugh
It is about Living Today,not about my Drinking!
Nov 11, 2011 4:47 AM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
montecito: I agree Scuba, support can be a fine line. In my case when he got nasty I backed off and left him alone for a hour or so, and then again I'd stand up to him. Since I lived with him for 7 years I was educated how to handle him. He moved away from my area and one day I got the phone call.

One day his mother called me and said she had found him dead. His body was so decomposed after four days that his casket couldn't be open. I wish I had been with him to say goodbye. He was my VERY best friend. He didn't want to make my life miserable. There was no doubt in my mind that he loved me but alcohol was more powerful. I met him when I was just a girl in high school so I knew him for a long time.


Yeah, I know exactly what you're talking about. If someone is emotionally attached on any level, be that as a friend, lover or relation, and the person isn't able or willing to give it up, you're in for a painful roller coaster ride. People should never underestimate how taxing such a relationship is.

Did you ever see the movie "Leaving Las Vegas" with Nick Cage? I thought that depicted things rather well.
Nov 11, 2011 12:01 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
professor by sitting in front of this computer monitor I have found friends who have helped me change my life in more ways than one !! I hope that I can do the same for others.
I am not one to socialise much, but being here and from what I've learned I have built up self confidence. I'me learned soooo much.
Yeah baby !! dancing
Nov 11, 2011 12:02 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
Jeeepers: by sitting in front of this computer monitor I have found friends who have helped me change my life in more ways than one !! I hope that I can do the same for others.
I am not one to socialise much, but being here and from what I've learned I have built up self confidence. I'me learned soooo much.
Yeah baby !!


hug cheering
Nov 11, 2011 12:07 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
wave Hey amahlalalalalaaaaaa....

See folks, here's a nice lady...and pretty too. cool
Nov 11, 2011 12:08 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
Jeeepers: Hey amahlalalalalaaaaaa....

See folks, here's a nice lady...and pretty too.


blushing
Nov 11, 2011 12:09 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
Jeeepers: Hey amahlalalalalaaaaaa....

See folks, here's a nice lady...and pretty too.
She also loves working in the kitchen making hot apple pie !! pizza

tongue
Nov 11, 2011 12:18 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
Jeeepers: by sitting in front of this computer monitor I have found friends who have helped me change my life in more ways than one !! I hope that I can do the same for others.
I am not one to socialise much, but being here and from what I've learned I have built up self confidence. I'me learned soooo much.
Yeah baby !!


teddybear And we love you Jeeps hug

There was a suspicious person in this thread a little ways back. I have no doubt that it was someone who has been banned from CS. She is now under the name CMA which is about the third or fourth profile she has written. Right before Conrad's post, CMA wrote a nasty post towards me because I tried to help her get in touch with the OP. She then sent me several emails that were also of a nasty nature.

And isn't it strange that someone would give out red thumbs in the Veterans Days thread until I reminded them that the CS Mods know who gives out red thummies. That person very quickly disappeared.

This person who condemned all of us for writing about our experiences with alcoholism is just another problem ...... like a computer virus. These people are a dime a dozen. They will always be around especially the one who keeps trying to come back undercover.

My hat is off to anyone who has gone through the hell of alcoholism tip hat tip hat tip hat tip hat tip hat tip hat
Nov 11, 2011 12:25 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
montecito: And we love you Jeeps

There was a suspicious person in this thread a little ways back. I have no doubt that it was someone who has been banned from CS. She is now under the name CMA which is about the third or fourth profile she has written. Right before Conrad's post, CMA wrote a nasty post towards me because I tried to help her get in touch with the OP. She then sent me several emails that were also of a nasty nature.

And isn't it strange that someone would give out red thumbs in the Veterans Days thread until I reminded them that the CS Mods know who gives out red thummies. That person very quickly disappeared.

This person who condemned all of us for writing about our experiences with alcoholism is just another problem ...... like a computer virus. These people are a dime a dozen. They will always be around especially the one who keeps trying to come back undercover.

My hat is off to anyone who has gone through the hell of alcoholism
doh Don't sweat the small stuff.

comfort Like my friend Bob Marley said...ever little ting gonna be all right ! wink
Nov 11, 2011 12:26 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
marisoll: my new boyfriend has a tendency to blow all his money on wine, spirits and all when he gets paid.... thank god that I do not depend on him financially, otherwise I would be homeless.
He has promised to stop drinking soooo many times that I cannot count that high and I feel like my heart cannot believe him anymore....
If he really loved me he would have stopped drinking, right?


Perhaps working with him in a different way would solve it. Nothing is impossible, the difficulty level of a task is usually determined by the method applied.

And I'm not sure how I feel about the votes (I didn't vote) where you are basically encouraged to walk away. I guess your question whether to stay or leave is "why" - if you stay, don't ask for it to be easy, ask for it to be worth it.
Nov 11, 2011 12:27 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
Jeeepers: Don't sweat the small stuff.

Like my friend Bob Marley said...ever little ting gonna be all right !


Awwww honey, I can always count on your for a hug...lips lips

Wanna share a bannanna...banana laugh

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