Jeeepers: Of course, you will have to find someone to share this with, I don't drink.
i know this about you. interesting...how this thread has gone from supporting those with addiction problems to sharing bananas and drink recipes??? hmmmmmm sorry OP (that's if you ever come back to the thread)
JeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)6,482 posts
jono7: i know this about you. interesting...how this thread has gone from supporting those with addiction problems to sharing bananas and drink recipes??? hmmmmmm sorry OP (that's if you ever come back to the thread)
No, no, no, You're not taking the blame for anything. As much as alcoholism is a serious subject we also have another part of our lives and that is to enjoy the friends we have on CS. You paid your dues, several times, and now it's time to laugh. Just because you don't drink anymore doesn't mean you can't be a bartender for our next party..
montecito: No, no, no, You're not taking the blame for anything. As much as alcoholism is a serious subject we also have another part of our lives and that is to enjoy the friends we have on CS. You paid your dues, several times, and now it's time to laugh. Just because you don't drink anymore doesn't mean you can't be a bartender for our next party..
P.S. The OP left when she wrote the thread. She didn't respond to anyone....not even once. She wrote in her profile that she wants to meet friends and then she dissed us in the very thread that we tried to befriend her.. So don't worry about hijcking the thread.
montecito: P.S. The OP left when she wrote the thread. She didn't respond to anyone....not even once. She wrote in her profile that she wants to meet friends and then she dissed us in the very thread that we tried to befriend her.. So don't worry about hijcking the thread.
Perhaps, but you know Montecito, I think sometimes people regret making a thread with personal information (I know I have occasionally), and therefore stay out of it hoping it will disappear sooner rather than later!
Let´s give the OP the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise.
JAN_is: Perhaps, but you know Montecito, I think sometimes people regret making a thread with personal information (I know I have occasionally), and therefore stay out of it hoping it will disappear sooner rather than later!
Let´s give the OP the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise.
I don't have a problem with the OP Jan. You might be right why she left. We had a great guy here a few years ago who would right a thread and then leave but he would come back later and reply to each person. I can't remember his name but everybody loved him. His true love was baseball. Wish I could remember his name..
My problem is with the person who attacked me. I don't have an interest in giving that person any furher attention. I know who it is and I'm sure she will be back under another profile. It's just a matter of time before the Mods catch her AGAIN.
bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
montecito: I don't have a problem with the OP Jan. You might be right why she left. We had a great guy here a few years ago who would right a thread and then leave but he would come back later and reply to each person. I can't remember his name but everybody loved him. His true love was baseball. Wish I could remember his name..
My problem is with the person who attacked me. I don't have an interest in giving that person any furher attention. I know who it is and I'm sure she will be back under another profile. It's just a matter of time before the Mods catch her AGAIN.
I think you're referring to Stressfree, still a member I think, in fact he posted not too long ago.
marisoll: my new boyfriend has a tendency to blow all his money on wine, spirits and all when he gets paid.... thank god that I do not depend on him financially, otherwise I would be homeless. He has promised to stop drinking soooo many times that I cannot count that high and I feel like my heart cannot believe him anymore.... If he really loved me he would have stopped drinking, right?
Anyone heard anything new from the creator? Oh and hey guy and gals :-).
JameelK: Anyone heard anything new from the creator? Oh and hey guy and gals :-).
Jamee's here. It's a mystery why she wrote her first post and then disappeared. Let's hope she read the thread even if she wasn't online. Glad you came back to say hello...
montecito: Jamee's here. It's a mystery why she wrote her first post and then disappeared. Let's hope she read the thread even if she wasn't online. Glad you came back to say hello...
Yeah it was an on and off for me lol.. i was so tired.. :-P
marisollBelen, Real Cariari, Heredia Costa Rica23 posts
marisoll: my new boyfriend has a tendency to blow all his money on wine, spirits and all when he gets paid.... thank god that I do not depend on him financially, otherwise I would be homeless. He has promised to stop drinking soooo many times that I cannot count that high and I feel like my heart cannot believe him anymore.... If he really loved me he would have stopped drinking, right?
marisoll: my new boyfriend has a tendency to blow all his money on wine, spirits and all when he gets paid.... thank god that I do not depend on him financially, otherwise I would be homeless. He has promised to stop drinking soooo many times that I cannot count that high and I feel like my heart cannot believe him anymore.... If he really loved me he would have stopped drinking, right?
He is an alcoholic and needs treatment. However, he has to seek it and try his best to stay sober. Some people manage it, but it is hard. I know about it because my sister has the problem. She is sober for 13 years now, but she must always be on check, because alcoholism is a life long problem. Try to get to know about alcoholism as much as possible and then decide whether you can handle this.
I was with my x for 9/2 years,I was pure miserable,if I could go back,I would have left her alone,I put up with a lot of crazy stuff,because of her drinking,so you really need to think it over and look at the big picture.
marisoll: my new boyfriend has a tendency to blow all his money on wine, spirits and all when he gets paid.... thank god that I do not depend on him financially, otherwise I would be homeless. He has promised to stop drinking soooo many times that I cannot count that high and I feel like my heart cannot believe him anymore.... If he really loved me he would have stopped drinking, right?
Drug cessation, whether it be narcotics, tobacco, or alcohol, is not contingent on a person's love for his or her partner. He most likely really does love you. Becoming sober is not about you, or the love you give. It is about him. You are too close to the picture. He needs someone who is neutral to help him navigate to sobriety.
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