IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING?????? (179)

Nov 11, 2011 12:41 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
banana sure
Nov 11, 2011 12:43 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
gettin' pretty free with those bananas this morning jeepers..lol
Nov 11, 2011 12:43 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
jono7: gettin' pretty free with those bananas this morning jeepers..lol
They're everywhere around here. Want one ?

rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 11, 2011 12:49 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
Jeeepers: They're everywhere around here. Want one ?


did you know that folks with a latex allergy may experience a reaction to bananas? (lol....yup..right from WIKI...lol)

now i just knowwwwww you'll have something to say about that. or at least it's got ya thinkin'.....grin
Nov 11, 2011 12:50 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
Jeeepers: They're everywhere around here. Want one ?
better yet, try this !!


Scale ingredients to servings
1 1/2 oz light rum
1 tbsp triple sec
1 banana
1 1/2 oz lime juice
1 tsp sugar
1 cherry


Read more: Banana Daiquiri recipe

cheers
Nov 11, 2011 12:51 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
jono7: did you know that folks with a latex allergy may experience a reaction to bananas? (lol....yup..right from WIKI...lol)

now i just knowwwwww you'll have something to say about that. or at least it's got ya thinkin'.....grin
professor try putting the lime in the coconut and drink it all up first.
Nov 11, 2011 12:52 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
Jeeepers: better yet, try this !! Scale ingredients to servings
1 1/2 oz light rum
1 tbsp triple sec
1 banana
1 1/2 oz lime juice
1 tsp sugar
1 cherryRead more: Banana Daiquiri recipe
professor
Of course, you will have to find someone to share this with, I don't drink. wink
Nov 11, 2011 12:56 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
Jeeepers: Of course, you will have to find someone to share this with, I don't drink.


i know this about you.
interesting...how this thread has gone from supporting those with addiction problems to sharing bananas and drink recipes??? hmmmmmm sorry OP (that's if you ever come back to the thread)
Nov 11, 2011 12:58 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
jono7: i know this about you.
interesting...how this thread has gone from supporting those with addiction problems to sharing bananas and drink recipes??? hmmmmmm sorry OP (that's if you ever come back to the thread)
hijack My bad, I'll take the blame. Sorry OP. dancing
Nov 11, 2011 1:03 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
Jeeepers: My bad, I'll take the blame. Sorry OP.



No, no, no, You're not taking the blame for anything. As much as alcoholism is a serious subject we also have another part of our lives and that is to enjoy the friends we have on CS. You paid your dues, several times, and now it's time to laugh. Just because you don't drink anymore doesn't mean you can't be a bartender for our next party..laughteddybear
Nov 11, 2011 1:04 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
moping
Okay.
Nov 11, 2011 1:08 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
montecito: No, no, no, You're not taking the blame for anything. As much as alcoholism is a serious subject we also have another part of our lives and that is to enjoy the friends we have on CS. You paid your dues, several times, and now it's time to laugh. Just because you don't drink anymore doesn't mean you can't be a bartender for our next party..


P.S. The OP left when she wrote the thread. She didn't respond to anyone....not even once. She wrote in her profile that she wants to meet friends and then she dissed us in the very thread that we tried to befriend her..doh So don't worry about hijcking the thread.grin
Nov 11, 2011 3:10 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
montecito: P.S. The OP left when she wrote the thread. She didn't respond to anyone....not even once. She wrote in her profile that she wants to meet friends and then she dissed us in the very thread that we tried to befriend her.. So don't worry about hijcking the thread.


Perhaps, but you know Montecito, I think sometimes people regret making a thread with personal information (I know I have occasionally), and therefore stay out of it hoping it will disappear sooner rather than later!

Let´s give the OP the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise. wine
Nov 11, 2011 3:16 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
JAN_is: Perhaps, but you know Montecito, I think sometimes people regret making a thread with personal information (I know I have occasionally), and therefore stay out of it hoping it will disappear sooner rather than later!

Let´s give the OP the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise.


I don't have a problem with the OP Jan. You might be right why she left. We had a great guy here a few years ago who would right a thread and then leave but he would come back later and reply to each person. I can't remember his name but everybody loved him. His true love was baseball. Wish I could remember his name..dunno

My problem is with the person who attacked me. I don't have an interest in giving that person any furher attention. I know who it is and I'm sure she will be back under another profile. It's just a matter of time before the Mods catch her AGAIN.
Nov 11, 2011 3:42 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
montecito: I don't have a problem with the OP Jan. You might be right why she left. We had a great guy here a few years ago who would right a thread and then leave but he would come back later and reply to each person. I can't remember his name but everybody loved him. His true love was baseball. Wish I could remember his name..

My problem is with the person who attacked me. I don't have an interest in giving that person any furher attention. I know who it is and I'm sure she will be back under another profile. It's just a matter of time before the Mods catch her AGAIN.


I think you're referring to Stressfree, still a member I think, in fact he posted not too long ago.
Nov 11, 2011 4:17 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
bodleing: I think you're referring to Stressfree, still a member I think, in fact he posted not too long ago.


YES....Thank you Bode..yay
Nov 11, 2011 7:29 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
JameelK
JameelKJameelKMinehead, Somerset, England UK3 Threads 93 Posts
marisoll: my new boyfriend has a tendency to blow all his money on wine, spirits and all when he gets paid.... thank god that I do not depend on him financially, otherwise I would be homeless.
He has promised to stop drinking soooo many times that I cannot count that high and I feel like my heart cannot believe him anymore....
If he really loved me he would have stopped drinking, right?


Anyone heard anything new from the creator? Oh and hey guy and gals :-). angel
Nov 11, 2011 7:38 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
JameelK: Anyone heard anything new from the creator? Oh and hey guy and gals :-).


yay yay Jamee's here. It's a mystery why she wrote her first post and then disappeared. Let's hope she read the thread even if she wasn't online. Glad you came back to say hello...hug
Nov 12, 2011 8:13 AM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
JameelK
JameelKJameelKMinehead, Somerset, England UK3 Threads 93 Posts
montecito: Jamee's here. It's a mystery why she wrote her first post and then disappeared. Let's hope she read the thread even if she wasn't online. Glad you came back to say hello...


Yeah it was an on and off for me lol.. i was so tired.. :-P

xx
Dec 19, 2011 12:07 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
marisoll
marisollmarisollBelen, Real Cariari, Heredia Costa Rica4 Threads 1 Polls 23 Posts
marisoll: my new boyfriend has a tendency to blow all his money on wine, spirits and all when he gets paid.... thank god that I do not depend on him financially, otherwise I would be homeless.
He has promised to stop drinking soooo many times that I cannot count that high and I feel like my heart cannot believe him anymore....
If he really loved me he would have stopped drinking, right?


kiss THANK YOU FOLKS !!!!
Dec 19, 2011 12:08 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
If they loved themselves they would quit drinking.
Dec 19, 2011 8:03 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Calliopesgirl
CalliopesgirlCalliopesgirlNashville, Tennessee USA2 Threads 374 Posts
I married a man like this, he quit drinking for a long time. But, his mistress was vodka, and he went back to her. Run like a white-tailed deer.
Dec 19, 2011 8:03 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
Calliopesgirl
CalliopesgirlCalliopesgirlNashville, Tennessee USA2 Threads 374 Posts
I married a man like this, he quit drinking for a long time. But, his mistress was vodka, and he went back to her. Run like a white-tailed deer.
Dec 21, 2011 9:30 AM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
without reading all the other post all i can say is tell him how you feel if he doesnt get help your gone if he trys you will help him through
Dec 26, 2011 7:20 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
marisoll: my new boyfriend has a tendency to blow all his money on wine, spirits and all when he gets paid.... thank god that I do not depend on him financially, otherwise I would be homeless.
He has promised to stop drinking soooo many times that I cannot count that high and I feel like my heart cannot believe him anymore....
If he really loved me he would have stopped drinking, right?


He is an alcoholic and needs treatment. However, he has to seek it and try his best to stay sober. Some people manage it, but it is hard. I know about it because my sister has the problem. She is sober for 13 years now, but she must always be on check, because alcoholism is a life long problem. Try to get to know about alcoholism as much as possible and then decide whether you can handle this.
Jan 5, 2012 5:59 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
GoodHeartforYou
GoodHeartforYouGoodHeartforYouEarth, Alaska USA5 Threads 4 Polls 218 Posts
Didn't read through the 10 pages - but really - a " NEW boyfriend...
so....many times" how can something NEW occur so many times ???

Again - the internet - who's is telling the truth who is making up stories

Love = Love....

Women trying to change men - not likely

He obviously was drinking when he met you and now you decided you want him to stop. If you don't like his drinking find another - that simple
Jan 5, 2012 6:05 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
olivette12000
olivette12000olivette12000Florence, South Carolina USA2 Threads 1 Polls 10 Posts
I was with my x for 9/2 years,I was pure miserable,if I could go back,I would have left her alone,I put up with a lot of crazy stuff,because of her drinking,so you really need to think it over and look at the big picture.
Jan 5, 2012 7:23 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
marisoll: my new boyfriend has a tendency to blow all his money on wine, spirits and all when he gets paid.... thank god that I do not depend on him financially, otherwise I would be homeless.
He has promised to stop drinking soooo many times that I cannot count that high and I feel like my heart cannot believe him anymore....
If he really loved me he would have stopped drinking, right?
Drug cessation, whether it be narcotics, tobacco, or alcohol, is not contingent on a person's love for his or her partner. He most likely really does love you. Becoming sober is not about you, or the love you give. It is about him. You are too close to the picture. He needs someone who is neutral to help him navigate to sobriety.
Jan 5, 2012 9:45 PM CST IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
i've answered this question before...
addiction and love do not make for good bed partners..

but changing my answer today...

"if he loved me; would he stop drinking"

in my case...nah....he'd probably start....
We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here