dont you hate it when people test you ? (26)
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welllll I test everyone.............Im a natural tester. Dont you test them???
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I think it´s probably quite wise to test people you don´t know very well - especially with all the people around who wish to scam, or just play with people´s feelings.
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hoolet: I think it´s probably quite wise to test people you don´t know very well - especially with all the people around who wish to scam, or just play with people´s feelings.
If you are not in ...you can't win ...I would be more wary of those who cannot find fun in this selection of connection ....
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testing at first yes but after the guy talks to you and texts you for 2 months and calls and then hes not interested whats up with that dee
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deedee53: i dislike men who play games with my feelings thats
The hard part is knowing when they are playing games...sometimes they are very good at it....lots of practice. And we still want to maintain our trust in others...not being able to trust makes it hard to have any kind of healthy relationship.
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freesparrow: The hard part is knowing when they are playing games...sometimes they are very good at it....lots of practice. And we still want to maintain our trust in others...not being able to trust makes it hard to have any kind of healthy relationship.
Goes both ways doesnt it?Women can play games to.
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A census worker tried to test me once. I ate his liver with some fava beans and a nice Chianti. Slurp slurp slurp.
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I have been tested by someone for hundreds of times,and he is not satisfied yet.
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its worse when they set a test u cant possibly pass, even at school u got pre warned before a test
i think mind games are over rated... if there playing them its there insecurity not the person there dating ..
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deedee53: testing at first yes but after the guy talks to you and texts you for 2 months and calls and then hes not interested whats up with that dee
I'd say it's the same as when you start going out with someone IRL and think you like them then 2 months down the line discover something about them you cannot live with and decide not to pursue the dating further. That's not testing. That's getting to know someone to see if you're compatible. Being attracted to someone is not equivalent to being compatible. It takes a lot longer than 2 months to even start to get to know someone.
There are also the mind game players but usually if you listen to your gut instinct and intuition and are observant, a few red flags start flapping in the wind. If you dismiss them, eventually you'll pay the price.
IMO
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deedee53: i dislike men who play games with my feelings thats
my brother is bad about that,makes u want to punch,his ticket lol.------ This poll is Archived ------
I don't do things to test him. If he's playing a game,he will eventually hang himself. It's just a matter of time. Going into a potential relationship these days you need to prepare yourself for the unexpected "Oh I forgot to tell you story".
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deedee53: i dislike men who play games with my feelings thats
It resembles a child pushing their parents limits trying to wear them down.
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people who play games are immature and do not have enough to do..... If someone plays games they should be called on to account for it because they can cause others a great deal of emotional distress
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true
but after a few incidents it can be pretty easy to see the pattern - I'd drop him and find someone who is seriously interested in working on a relationship
but after a few incidents it can be pretty easy to see the pattern - I'd drop him and find someone who is seriously interested in working on a relationship
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i'm the teacher
I test them
I test them
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I've never been very good at testing.
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deedee53: i dislike men who play games with my feelings thats
This thread is a bit odd imo.
In a men/women relationships, women are always testing. Sometimes though, they do it and somehow, maybe because it comes so naturally, they aren't aware that they are.... or something like that..... really.....
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Just remember what you told that guy the last few conversations you had. Most probably you told him something that made him change his mind or a sequense of things that you told him don't match and he changed his mind again.
Good luck with the next one.
Good luck with the next one.
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deedee53: i dislike men who play games with my feelings thats
Usually women are the ones that they are testing and the same time they are tested too but don't realize it. After they think aha that's the one they start the controlling part and the "bird" flies away. (personal experience)
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I don't find it really matters. You're either in there or you're not.
If he/she finds fault it's because they want to, if they ignore faults then that too is because they want to.
If he/she finds fault it's because they want to, if they ignore faults then that too is because they want to.
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I also,and they do on this site.
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TheRedSquirrel86: I don't find it really matters. You're either in there or you're not.
If he/she finds fault it's because they want to, if they ignore faults then that too is because they want to.
so be it If he/she finds fault it's because they want to, if they ignore faults then that too is because they want to.
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deedee53: i dislike men who play games with my feelings thats
When you say "test" I'm not sure what you mean. If you are talking about men who push you around and make you do things you don't want to, this is a game abusers play to see how much they can control you. What they are literally doing is trying to find a way to figure out how much they will be able to walk all over you in the future. They probably don't even realize that's what they are doing, but it is. So you are right to dislike them and to push them away. No matter how much you want a relationship, what they have to offer is not a relationship.
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