Are you alone and lonely or just alone? (71)
EagleWoman: Does that mean Einstein was a pseudo-scientist and quantum physics is also pseudo?
Sorry, I should've written it this way: "pseudo-science".
I'm not the one calling it pseudo-science, those who put all their stock on science and aren't willing to look into those matters do.
I only see my partner at weekends as he lives at his place and works long hours during the week. I miss him and feel lonely - after 51 years of marriage I'm rather used to having a man about the house. 
yes thata the reason i get loneley when i dont have my kids, sometimes when i wake up think it would be nice to have someone to smile to on the other side of the bed
ozgeek: I only see my partner at weekends as he lives at his place and works long hours during the week. I miss him and feel lonely - after 51 years of marriage I'm rather used to having a man about the house.
Alone & Lonely .....
But
on the bright side, I will be presented with my degree in "Hermitism" next month!! 
But
on the bright side, I will be presented with my degree in "Hermitism" next month!! 
Occasionally have felt lonely,but mainly alone without feeling lonely....
Juneau: Alone & Lonely .....
But on the bright side, I will be presented with my degree in "Hermitism" next month!!
But on the bright side, I will be presented with my degree in "Hermitism" next month!!
seems all that time spent cloistered in your house paid off! Congratulations !! 
aramaya: Occasionally have felt lonely,but mainly alone without feeling lonely....
Same here, aramaya Thankyou! I am very proud of myself!!
Juneau: Alone & Lonely .....
But on the bright side, I will be presented with my degree in "Hermitism" next month!!
But on the bright side, I will be presented with my degree in "Hermitism" next month!!
It's that Lentil and bean diet.....Keeps Perthshire WINDY...
Ive been single for a long time but I cant say I ever really feel lonely. My life is waaaay to hectic for that. 
I belong to a sect eremita, of new archaics, consequently, the lonely Loneliness is my only "companion" in solitude! venusenvy: Ive been single for a long time but I cant say I ever really feel lonely. My life is waaaay to hectic for that.
Gotta take the time to slow down and smell the roses, Venus. What's the point of all that work if you can't enjoy it? Mermaidon: Gotta take the time to slow down and smell the roses, Venus. What's the point of all that work if you can't enjoy it?
I hear that Merman but right now Im juggling school and work...This time next year it will be a different story though
venusenvy: Ive been single for a long time but I cant say I ever really feel lonely. My life is waaaay to hectic for that.
Hi sweetheart--I can tell you this: I worked all the time, and I do mean all the time. 60+ hours a week, plus continuing education at the college level, and so on...Over the years (and at this precise moment, it could be a sore subject, but I won't let it be...) it has occurred to me that I am happiest when alone. I really AM my own best friend. If you have become comfortable with yourself, and are honestly OK about being alone much of the time, it won't matter if you are super busy, or if you have plenty of time. You will be comfortable with that, if is who you are. So, not being so busy will not mean becoming "lonely". Plenty of busy people are lonely. Know what I mean? 
Depends.
I think this needs to be read thoughtfully.....
A lot of the time, or most of the time, I am neither alone or lonely.
Of the time that I am alone, I am usually not lonely.
Sometimes when I am alone I feel a bit lonely.
Sometimes when I am not alone, I can also feel a bit lonely.
Depends on the circumstances, and I suppose also on my mood.
So....on average I am neither alone nor lonely
But everyone has their moments
I think this needs to be read thoughtfully.....
A lot of the time, or most of the time, I am neither alone or lonely.
Of the time that I am alone, I am usually not lonely.
Sometimes when I am alone I feel a bit lonely.
Sometimes when I am not alone, I can also feel a bit lonely.
Depends on the circumstances, and I suppose also on my mood.
So....on average I am neither alone nor lonely
But everyone has their moments
Juneau: Alone & Lonely .....
But on the bright side, I will be presented with my degree in "Hermitism" next month!!
But on the bright side, I will be presented with my degree in "Hermitism" next month!!
Alone not lonely... most of the time..
I've obtained that degree and started a Monastery a few years back..
“Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh
Mermaidon: For sure! Thank God we don't need their green light to believe what we want to believe or have an opinion on the experiences we have.
I'm only talking about Science because I believe that the day Science and Spirituality combine under one umbrella will be the days we start learning about the "impossible" by leaps and bounds.
I'm only talking about Science because I believe that the day Science and Spirituality combine under one umbrella will be the days we start learning about the "impossible" by leaps and bounds.
I thought Einstein made a great "inroad" into that ...
And how about this...
Sunnydaze14: Depends.
I think this needs to be read thoughtfully.....
A lot of the time, or most of the time, I am neither alone or lonely.
Of the time that I am alone, I am usually not lonely.
Sometimes when I am alone I feel a bit lonely.
Sometimes when I am not alone, I can also feel a bit lonely.
Depends on the circumstances, and I suppose also on my mood.
So....on average I am neither alone nor lonely
But everyone has their moments
I think this needs to be read thoughtfully.....
A lot of the time, or most of the time, I am neither alone or lonely.
Of the time that I am alone, I am usually not lonely.
Sometimes when I am alone I feel a bit lonely.
Sometimes when I am not alone, I can also feel a bit lonely.
Depends on the circumstances, and I suppose also on my mood.
So....on average I am neither alone nor lonely
But everyone has their moments
I agree wholeheartedly! I am thankful at times for being single, however I do have my moments when I wish I was not alone or lonely.
I believe There is two emotions that any woman s intuition can seance....
One is needy
desperation
that can correlate with feeling lonely......
The other is contentment within ones self.....
So in combating the first i go out and listen to music
I exercise regular...
And keep really healthy and positive friends
all these combined with good 
and 
makes the world a fantastic place
One is needy
desperation that can correlate with feeling lonely...... The other is contentment within ones self.....
So in combating the first i go out and listen to music
I exercise regular...
And keep really healthy and positive friends
all these combined with good and makes the world a fantastic place Mermaidon: I'm just curious to see how many people feel lonely or are alone but aren't lonely or aren't alone but still feel lonely.
Thanks for your participation.
...I feel both....being lonely...isnt an illness........its a condition ....as you get older...friends...and loved one......you once had....pass on.......a void....in a manner of speaking.......i am quite healthy/ have all my facuties....I love lfe.....A woman e/mailed me the other week....after reading my profile...and said...quote.....you must be joking mate...........stupid cow......I did,nt reply....I treated it with the comtempt..it deserve,d.......just thought i would mention it........T/H.Thanks for your participation.
trueheart1941: ...I feel both....being lonely...isnt an illness........its a condition ....as you get older...friends...and loved one......you once had....pass on.......a void....in a manner of speaking.......i am quite healthy/ have all my facuties....I love lfe.....A woman e/mailed me the other week....after reading my profile...and said...quote.....you must be joking mate...........stupid cow......I did,nt reply....I treated it with the comtempt..it deserve,d.......just thought i would mention it........T/H.
.....(ps).......she was no oil painting....... trueheart1941: ...I feel both....being lonely...isnt an illness........its a condition ....as you get older...friends...and loved one......you once had....pass on.......a void....in a manner of speaking.......i am quite healthy/ have all my facuties....I love lfe.....A woman e/mailed me the other week....after reading my profile...and said...quote.....you must be joking mate...........stupid cow......I did,nt reply....I treated it with the comtempt..it deserve,d.......just thought i would mention it........T/H.
Good for you, truheart!
Mail like that only deserve to be deleted and forgotten!I'm still looking for that ~Special Someone~...to make-good on a promise I made to my late wife.
She said:
"You're too Good a man to live the rest of your life alone...
Promise that you'll find someone that you can love
as much...
and as well
as you have loved Me!!"
She said:
"You're too Good a man to live the rest of your life alone...
Promise that you'll find someone that you can love
as much...
and as well
as you have loved Me!!"
Kargyle227: I'm still looking for that ~Special Someone~...to make-good on a promise I made to my late wife.
She said:
"You're too Good a man to live the rest of your life alone...
Promise that you'll find someone that you can love
as much...
and as well
as you have loved Me!!"
She said:
"You're too Good a man to live the rest of your life alone...
Promise that you'll find someone that you can love
as much...
and as well
as you have loved Me!!"
Boy, that's a hard promise to fulfill, especially looking here on a dating site where a quarter of the members are scammer, another quarter are fakes and frauds, the third quarter are afraid of anything male and the last quarter are afraid of committing
But I wish you all the luck in the world, I really do, sincerely
Mermaidon: I'm just curious to see how many people feel lonely or are alone but aren't lonely or aren't alone but still feel lonely.
Thanks for your participation.
I'm sometimes a mixture ..... I think sometimes the loneliest times I've experienced have been when I wasn't alone. I try not to think too much about it, but just acknowledge it and move on. Thanks for your participation.
Being content in simply just being us, whether we have someone in our life or not is key ............ our happiness and well being isn't contingent on whether we are a partner to someone. We each stand alone in this life, sometimes we have others who walk beside us on the path of life.
langleygirl: I'm sometimes a mixture ..... I think sometimes the loneliest times I've experienced have been when I wasn't alone. I try not to think too much about it, but just acknowledge it and move on.
Being content in simply just being us, whether we have someone in our life or not is key ............ our happiness and well being isn't contingent on whether we are a partner to someone. We each stand alone in this life, sometimes we have others who walk beside us on the path of life.
So very well said! Being content in simply just being us, whether we have someone in our life or not is key ............ our happiness and well being isn't contingent on whether we are a partner to someone. We each stand alone in this life, sometimes we have others who walk beside us on the path of life.
I agree 100%.And we should never forget this one thing: We come to this world alone and we'll leave this world alone. Better get used to it.
Kargyle227: I'm still looking for that ~Special Someone~...to make-good on a promise I made to my late wife.
She said:
"You're too Good a man to live the rest of your life alone...
Promise that you'll find someone that you can love
as much...
and as well
as you have loved Me!!"
She said:
"You're too Good a man to live the rest of your life alone...
Promise that you'll find someone that you can love
as much...
and as well
as you have loved Me!!"
What a caring wife you had, 1 in a million.
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Oh well, you may not believe what I said, Mam!
Of course I do!!
If it´s a public place just walk away. If it´s at home, buy a bell with a really cristaline sound and ring it around the room and in every corner, it disperses the stagnant energies. Open the windows and let some fresh air in too!!