attractiveness is essential in furtives affairs...in other hand for serious relationships where the parts have a bond,physic attractive is part of the cake .
there has to be a physical attraction, but that is not enough by itself. a physically attractive man who is mean quickly begins to lose his appeal regardless of pysical attractivenss
being good looking is an attitude combined with attractiveness
Love enters through the eyes but thats not enough to build a relationship. So for initial attraction its very important but to have something more, there needs to be something more
Physical attraction is everything in a way, if you never saw they were kind hearted or witnessed they had a high IQ or had a 6 pack then you wouldn't be interested.
UrbuddyYellow Brick Rd , Larganville, Mayo Ireland2,441 posts
Recently I had somebody mail me without a photo , her whole life story more or less in one mail , now I'd have given her a fair chance if she didn't accuse me of being narrow minded for not as she called it , making the effort chatting to her (so I could feel deserving of her sending me her photo) instead of politely asking her for one as I did .
So yes , I think physical attraction is very important
About a man, attractiveness and good looks are not always synonymous. Attractive for me is the whole package. Physique, eyes, curve of the mouth, smile, allure, stride, voice, interaction with people, attitude, energy emanating from ...
OutofafricaPerth, Western Australia Australia1,296 posts
EagleWoman: I like my match not to break when I strike it...
Resilient yet easily flammable... About a man, attractiveness and good looks are not always synonymous. Attractive for me is the whole package. Physique, eyes, curve of the mouth, smile, allure, stride, voice, interaction with people, attitude, energy emanating from ...
Its does matter at first because it the first thing that I see in a person. Then if and if I have this interest, then I will proceed to knowing him deeper.
EagleWoman: About a man, attractiveness and good looks are not always synonymous. Attractive for me is the whole package. Physique, eyes, curve of the mouth, smile, allure, stride, voice, interaction with people, attitude, energy emanating from ...
venusenvy: Love enters through the eyes but thats not enough to build a relationship. So for initial attraction its very important but to have something more, there needs to be something more
Old Native American saying...very true...
"Many are the things that catch the eye.... But pursue only those which capture the Heart".....
Congrats to every one who took part already in my pole for their kind participation and valuable comments! Advance thanks to those who will come later also for enriching this discussion.
physical attractiveness to me is everything,if she cares about her body and is in good shape,she'll want to do almost anything with you,and yes-personality is right up there also,if your heart is on the same wavelength with hers and you both enjoy similar activities,then to me thats a recipe for a great relationship...and don't forget honesty,i'm still working on this.
Yes definitely, but also a good person inside, not asking for much, but i've been there where there was no physical attraction only good inside and personality and it don't work.
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