why do you think there are so many singles on here n out there? (66)

There are so many singles because we follow the patterns dictated by society of "marriage, set up home, children" BEFORE they have found out who they are, who they wanna be, what makes them happy or slowly dimmers their connection with their own soul.

We follow society´s expectations of us without querying the validity of some of it. Some of it might not be about "acquiring" a husband/wife but about acquiring financial wealth, material goods, more material wealth, more material goods. Always MORE!! Because non of it fills the "void"!!

Eventually, our life blows up in our face because as neither of the 2 people in the marriage/relationship know who they are, how is the partner supposed to? Both are "playing roles" (at home and at work) not trully defined consciously, even parenthood is too often an "accident"... Too many people´s lives are set set on that type of "shifting sand" and too much effort is required to avoid getting swollowed up by the ever shifting sand. That means the focus is always "in the wrong place".

How many people can trully say they live a conscious life?

Of course in the old days people lived by the "put up, shut up" rule, which does mean what I described did go on, it just meant people put up and shut up!! Was it better? No!!

Now at least, after a relationship split, people get a chance to do what they might not have done in their earlier years IE find out who they are and what makes them tick. That takes time and effort and makes people more aware and less likely to jump in both eyes shut into the next relationship "adventure". But it doesn´t mean they won´t when they at least have an inkling that this time, with both people wide awake and prepared to work together on "making it work", the relationship has achance of "survival" bringing peace and joy to both.

Conclusion, be patient! People are busy "growing", healing and broadening their minds and hearts!!