I've been getting a lot of emails from shirtless guys, is this normal? Do you respond to them? Just curious, I'm new to all of this and need to know how to play the game :)
OkieChic: I've been getting a lot of emails from shirtless guys, is this normal? Do you respond to them? Just curious, I'm new to all of this and need to know how to play the game :)
Hi Okie....May I ask what you mean when you say "I'm new to all this"?
If you're playing a game, then you'll be played with in return.
First, I've only been on here less than a mth...so therefore I'm "new" to online dating", Next, "play the game" is just slang...for learning how to do something, in this case, how most gals meet guys....geez didn't mean to upset you...sorry :(
OkieChic: First, I've only been on here less than a mth...so therefore I'm "new" to online dating", Next, "play the game" is just slang...for learning how to do something, in this case, how most gals meet guys....geez didn't mean to upset you...sorry :(
No hon, don't take every question as meaning you upset somebody. We ask questions all the time.
When you said you're new to this I was surprised cause you're a very pretty lady, that's why I asked the question.
Well,each to their own really. It probably wouldn't have bothered me as much back in my early day's. But surprisingly where I live,I've noticed a lot of men in the older age bracket on date sites shirtless,the climate being an excuse. Preferably a guy with a shirt on for the profile picture,shows he presents himself well,bit like a job interview. However, if in the other profile pictures he isn't wearing a shirt because he is swimming ect,that is fine.
It's should be about presentation. I guess what your saying as far as playing the game,is how to react? just be assertive,set good standards as to what your looking for and don't settle for less.
OkieChic: I've been getting a lot of emails from shirtless guys, is this normal? Do you respond to them? Just curious, I'm new to all of this and need to know how to play the game :)
Shamaila: Well,each to their own really. It probably wouldn't have bothered me as much back in my early day's. But surprisingly where I live,I've noticed a lot of men in the older age bracket on date sites shirtless,the climate being an excuse. Preferably a guy with a shirt on for the profile picture,shows he presents himself well,bit like a job interview. However, if in the other profile pictures he isn't wearing a shirt because he is swimming ect,that is fine.
It's should be about presentation. I guess what your saying as far as playing the game,is how to react? just be assertive,set good standards as to what your looking for and don't settle for less.
Thank you!! Yah, I was thinking on the same line....have more class if they are wearing a shirt... thank you for understanding my meaning of "playing the game", you explained it perfectly...
OkieChic: I've been getting a lot of emails from shirtless guys, is this normal? Do you respond to them? Just curious, I'm new to all of this and need to know how to play the game :)
Seeing a man shirtless on here is no different to then when/if I see a shirtless man on the beach.
eh - don't notice usually - generally the bare chested bathroom pic types are teenagers that I am too old for and I usually respond by asking them if their parents know their on here and shouldn't they be doing their homework????
OkieChic: I've been getting a lot of emails from shirtless guys, is this normal? Do you respond to them? Just curious, I'm new to all of this and need to know how to play the game :)
I happen to respond to all bare legged (kilted) men that email me!
OkieChic: I've been getting a lot of emails from shirtless guys, is this normal? Do you respond to them? Just curious, I'm new to all of this and need to know how to play the game :)
No shirtless guys will stcik in my mailbox for very long... Here they go ----------------------+ D E L E T E D
I WOULD LIKE TO THINK HE HAS AT LEAST FEW SHIRTS,SO IF YOU EVER DECIDED TO CONTACT ME,PLESE SEND ME SOME PICTURES OF YOUR SHIRTS... AND PANTS.... OH, AND A CAR... MAYBE A HOUSE TOO..
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