if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip? (50)

Feb 17, 2013 7:19 PM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
if i was in love with someone,there'd be no lenghts that i would go to.to be with her,but thankfully i not ! laugh teddybear
Feb 17, 2013 10:44 PM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
ynotleon69: good point. but what if you were the only one with reliable transportation?


nor likely I would be in a relationship with such a person. If he does not have a reliable vehicle or cannot afford air or rail transit he should not be encouraging an LDR. I simply would not get involved if it meant I had to do all of the commuting - sorry. dunno

Having is own reliable vehicle and employment are are pretty high on my list of must haves....dunno
Feb 18, 2013 1:11 AM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
ynotleon69
ynotleon69ynotleon69Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA73 Threads 21 Polls 798 Posts
felixis99: nor likely I would be in a relationship with such a person. If he does not have a reliable vehicle or cannot afford air or rail transit he should not be encouraging an LDR. I simply would not get involved if it meant I had to do all of the commuting - sorry.

Having is own reliable vehicle and employment are are pretty high on my list of must haves....
employment was never mentioned. but thank you for an honest opinion. that may not be the same view as others, but its what free speech is all about.peace
Feb 18, 2013 2:37 AM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
MeantimeinBali
MeantimeinBaliMeantimeinBaliBali, Indonesia78 Posts
3 hours?! Nothing for a hopeless romantic like me...
Feb 18, 2013 10:35 PM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
ynotleon69: employment was never mentioned. but thank you for an honest opinion. that may not be the same view as others, but its what free speech is all about.


yes what others think of my view on who I date means nothing to me. I can't imagine dating a man who does not have a car....I would not want to get stuck doing all the driving and transportation in a relationship

maybe that's an odd view where u are from, but it is a fairly common view here
Feb 18, 2013 10:52 PM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
ynotleon69
ynotleon69ynotleon69Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA73 Threads 21 Polls 798 Posts
just because one person judges a book by its cover, doesn't mean the next person should not pick up the book and read it. im not judging
felixis99: yes what others think of my view on who I date means nothing to me. I can't imagine dating a man who does not have a car....I would not want to get stuck doing all the driving and transportation in a relationship

maybe that's an odd view where u are from, but it is a fairly common view here
and the question is only asking about how far, and how often you wold go out of your way for love.
Feb 18, 2013 11:47 PM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
3 hours would be the closest for me in over 5+ years!! I think I would be pretty excited about that, but I do not even expect 3 hours or 3000 miles. Just another 50 years to go it seems.
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Feb 20, 2013 2:18 AM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
ynotleon69
ynotleon69ynotleon69Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA73 Threads 21 Polls 798 Posts
Nikogas: 3 hours would be the closest for me in over 5+ years!! I think I would be pretty excited about that, but I do not even expect 3 hours or 3000 miles. Just another 50 years to go it seems.
i'm sorry bro.. don't give upcheers
Feb 20, 2013 2:54 AM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
As often as was convenient and welcome to both. dunno
Feb 20, 2013 3:01 AM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
ynotleon69
ynotleon69ynotleon69Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA73 Threads 21 Polls 798 Posts
jac379: As often as was convenient and welcome to both.
good answer for a politician.handshake but what lengths would you go through,,, or have gone through for love?
Feb 20, 2013 3:09 AM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
shay28
shay28shay28Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia468 Posts
If only I can drive ... well I will take the bus every other week and I expect him to do the same - visit/meet me every other week I mean.
Feb 20, 2013 5:41 AM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
We're 9 hours apart, driving time. So far (nigh 2 years), either of us makes the trip as often as we can. That's been about half-and-half. Come vacation time, though, she typically drives up here, as I live near an airport and she does not.

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Feb 20, 2013 5:59 AM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
ynotleon69
ynotleon69ynotleon69Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA73 Threads 21 Polls 798 Posts
Dagosto: We're 9 hours apart, driving time. So far (nigh 2 years), either of us makes the trip as often as we can. That's been about half-and-half. Come vacation time, though, she typically drives up here, as I live near an airport and she does not.
that is inspiringapplause
Feb 20, 2013 6:06 AM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
ynotleon69
ynotleon69ynotleon69Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA73 Threads 21 Polls 798 Posts
shay28: If only I can drive ... well I will take the bus every other week and I expect him to do the same - visit/meet me every other week I mean.
judging by your profile, any man should make the effort much more often than that.hug
Feb 21, 2013 10:51 PM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
Lover? Right? Whats 3 hours...!!! :-) I would drive everyday and anyway...there would be so many times I would be asked to stay over by default. What does it matter...in these days of commuting anyway !
Its scheduling work that would decide the drives ! :-) heart beating
Feb 23, 2013 11:02 PM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
thats a great question to ponder. ive actually been on this ride and my job allows me pleanty of off time due to my schedule. ive had some great outcomes by actually keeping the distance between us for awhile. it provides a lot of room for communication. as far as this site though.... noone replies. they are all pretty quiet so far. thinking i might give up and go to the bar..lol
Feb 23, 2013 11:28 PM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
The distance shouldn’t be any problem, if you really love the other person. I drove (sometimes the bus) more than 400 km for several years.
Feb 23, 2013 11:33 PM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
ynotleon69
ynotleon69ynotleon69Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA73 Threads 21 Polls 798 Posts
abcWOMAN: The distance shouldn’t be any problem, if you really love the other person. I drove (sometimes the bus) more than 400 km for several years.
thank you... thats why i created this thread.. to hear positive experiences.
Feb 25, 2013 1:56 AM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
27KentuckyGuy
27KentuckyGuy27KentuckyGuyCampbellsville, Kentucky USA2 Threads 1 Polls 22 Posts
Id make the trip as often as I could, distance isn't a problem. If you love someone, it shouldn't matter how far away they are.
Feb 25, 2013 2:11 AM CST if your lover was a 3 hour drive away,, how often would you make that trip?
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
27KentuckyGuy: Id make the trip as often as I could, distance isn't a problem. If you love someone, it shouldn't matter how far away they are.


Hear hear! applause

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