would you tell? (58)
I have reason to believe my sisters fiance is cheating on her. Many people(other family members) have seen him at restuarants with another woman.
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
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I wouldn't.....not my business.....JMO
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If it were my sister(may she rest in peace) I would tell her in a heart beat,
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princess49503: I have reason to believe my sisters fiance is cheating on her. Many people(other family members) have seen him at restuarants with another woman.
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
If it was a friend I'd say no. But being it's your sister, and marrying this guy might be a huge mistake, I don't know, you know her better, would you want her to tell you? I believe I'd want to know before marrying someone.Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
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I have reason to believe my sisters fiance is cheating on her. Many people(other family members) have seen him at restuarants with another woman.
Did any of these 'many people' ever approach him at these restaurants? Would he risk taking another woman out publicly knowing he is bound to be seen? Maybe its as innocent as two buddies having a meal. Maybe your sister knows the woman.
Having said that, maybe the next time he is sighted, you could call your sister and casually mention that so and so told you that they had seen him with a lady friend at so and so place. Her reaction will say it all.
Did any of these 'many people' ever approach him at these restaurants? Would he risk taking another woman out publicly knowing he is bound to be seen? Maybe its as innocent as two buddies having a meal. Maybe your sister knows the woman.
Having said that, maybe the next time he is sighted, you could call your sister and casually mention that so and so told you that they had seen him with a lady friend at so and so place. Her reaction will say it all.
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mastic55: If it were my sister I would tell her in a heart beat,
Same here.
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Not really sure about this one ,but you 2 choices .
If you tell her you must act now.
If you dont tell her you will have to take this secret to the grave ,as how many times have we heard the friend say 'you knew all along and you didnt tell me ?'
2 choices x
If you tell her you must act now.
If you dont tell her you will have to take this secret to the grave ,as how many times have we heard the friend say 'you knew all along and you didnt tell me ?'
2 choices x
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Blood is blood, I would tell her & then war dance on his head.
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alabamabebe: If it was a friend I'd say no. But being it's your sister, and marrying this guy might be a huge mistake, I don't know, you know her better, would you want her to tell you? I believe I'd want to know before marrying someone.
If it was me, I'd want people to tell me.
My sister and I are very close. But I haven't seen anything myself because I live in a different city.
Other family members have seen him with this other woman but are afraid to tell my sisiter.
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Karma3: I have reason to believe my sisters fiance is cheating on her. Many people(other family members) have seen him at restuarants with another woman .
Did any of these 'many people' ever approach him at these restaurants? Would he risk taking another woman out publicly knowing he is bound to be seen? Maybe its as innocent as two buddies having a meal. Maybe your sister knows the woman.
Having said that, maybe the next time he is sighted, you could call your sister and casually mention that so and so told you that they had seen him with a lady friend at so and so place. Her reaction will say it all.
Did any of these 'many people' ever approach him at these restaurants? Would he risk taking another woman out publicly knowing he is bound to be seen? Maybe its as innocent as two buddies having a meal. Maybe your sister knows the woman.
Having said that, maybe the next time he is sighted, you could call your sister and casually mention that so and so told you that they had seen him with a lady friend at so and so place. Her reaction will say it all.
no, they were to cowardly, but they felt the need to tell me
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princess49503: If it was me, I'd want people to tell me.
My sister and I are very close. But I haven't seen anything myself because I live in a different city.
Other family members have seen him with this other woman but are afraid to tell my sisiter.
It's good to get it out in the open, if he ain't doing nothing wrong the truth needs no defense.My sister and I are very close. But I haven't seen anything myself because I live in a different city.
Other family members have seen him with this other woman but are afraid to tell my sisiter.
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princess49503: I have reason to believe my sisters fiance is cheating on her. Many people(other family members) have seen him at restuarants with another woman.
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
Yes,even if the truth hurts.She will thank you later.Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
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gtbulldog2: Yes,even if the truth hurts.She will thank you later.
thanks, GT If I had the proof I'd call her right now..
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I would tell her..
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princess49503: thanks, GT If I had the proof I'd call her right now..
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princess49503: My sister and I are very close. But I haven't seen anything myself because I live in a different city.
Other family members have seen him with this other woman but are afraid to tell my sisiter.
Other family members have seen him with this other woman but are afraid to tell my sisiter.
The element of heresay does make it a bit more tricky, unless I had reason believe they were just running their mouths,
I would still present her the information, but I would present it as what it is... second hand information.
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I'd let them know. I was the last to find out that I was being cheated on. I hsd reason to believe it and asked her several times if she had a boyfriend, of couse she denied it every time. Then later people would come up to me and say I thought you knew but didn't care! YEAH, RIGHT. She's his problem now!!!
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emesoog: I'd let them know. I was the last to find out that I was being cheated on. I hsd reason to believe it and asked her several times if she had a boyfriend, of couse she denied it every time. Then later people would come up to me and say I thought you knew but didn't care! YEAH, RIGHT. She's his problem now!!!
thats exactly what I don't want to happen!!!!!
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Just an idea,
Put a recorder in your pocket and confront him....tell him what you have been told and see what his reaction is.
Proof either way on tape.
Put a recorder in your pocket and confront him....tell him what you have been told and see what his reaction is.
Proof either way on tape.
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rasgumby: Just an idea,
Put a recorder in your pocket and confront him....tell him what you have been told and see what his reaction is.
Proof either way on tape.
Put a recorder in your pocket and confront him....tell him what you have been told and see what his reaction is.
Proof either way on tape.
I have one for lecture classes........thanks
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tell herprincess49503: I have reason to believe my sisters fiance is cheating on her. Many people(other family members) have seen him at restuarants with another woman.
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
Do you know anybody that works at the restuarant? They could help you in a way.But remember he could be on Cs reading this also, but that is a long shot.Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
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gtbulldog2: Do you know anybody that works at the restuarant? They could help you in a way.But remember he could be on Cs reading this also, but that is a long shot.
thank God my sisters fiance is not technologically inclined......
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princess49503: I have one for lecture classes........thanks
A cell phone works just fine.Most cell phones have a memo recorder.------ This poll is Archived ------
princess49503: thank God my sisters fiance is not technologically inclined......
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Don't say anything to his Coworkers.Loose Lips Sink Ships.
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princess49503: I have reason to believe my sisters fiance is cheating on her. Many people(other family members) have seen him at restuarants with another woman.
Should they tell her what they saw???
If it was me, no, I would approach him if I had seen him in a restaurant with another lady.
It could be completely innocent!
Or stay out of it???
Should they tell her what they saw???
If it was me, no, I would approach him if I had seen him in a restaurant with another lady.
It could be completely innocent!
Or stay out of it???
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Karma3: I have reason to believe my sisters fiance is cheating on her. Many people(other family members) have seen him at restuarants with another woman .
Did any of these 'many people' ever approach him at these restaurants? Would he risk taking another woman out publicly knowing he is bound to be seen? Maybe its as innocent as two buddies having a meal. Maybe your sister knows the woman.
Having said that, maybe the next time he is sighted, you could call your sister and casually mention that so and so told you that they had seen him with a lady friend at so and so place. Her reaction will say it all.
Maybe its as innocent as two buddies having a meal.Yes,that is true but if he was truthful to her he would have told her about that dinner beforehand.Did any of these 'many people' ever approach him at these restaurants? Would he risk taking another woman out publicly knowing he is bound to be seen? Maybe its as innocent as two buddies having a meal. Maybe your sister knows the woman.
Having said that, maybe the next time he is sighted, you could call your sister and casually mention that so and so told you that they had seen him with a lady friend at so and so place. Her reaction will say it all.
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Just go with your better judgment,it's sad to see these things happen in life.
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princess49503: If it was me, I'd want people to tell me.
My sister and I are very close. But I haven't seen anything myself because I live in a different city.
Other family members have seen him with this other woman but are afraid to tell my sisiter.
My sister and I are very close. But I haven't seen anything myself because I live in a different city.
Other family members have seen him with this other woman but are afraid to tell my sisiter.
These other family members should go up and introduce themselves ........ if he's not doing anything wrong then he's got nothing to hide from them. To blatantly ignore the situation is causing suspicion ~ so why not get it resolved. Once the truth is revealed if he is in fact being unfaithful, it will be up to your sister to make her decision as to whether she chooses to continue the relationship or not.
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Created: Aug 2008
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would you tell?(Vote Below)
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???