would you tell? (58)
gtbulldog2Towson, Maryland USA10 Threads 2,828 PostsI was cheated on back in 1988 I saw the signs.If a bird looks like a duck, swims like a duck and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck.
Have you told her yet????????????
gtbulldog2: Yes,that is true but if he was truthful to her he would have told her about that dinner beforehand.
maybe he has?? i would talk to your sister and tell her that people have been saying this- you don't have to tell her whetheryou believe it is true or not- give her the chance to either explain his actions- or to confront him,. I ,personally, would want to know
princess49503: I have reason to believe my sisters fiance is cheating on her. Many people(other family members) have seen him at restuarants with another woman.
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
My sister or a close friend.. Someone I have that kind of understanding with .. yes..
because I would be gutted if it was happening to me and they didn't tell me.
Anyone else.. no.
emesoog: I'd let them know. I was the last to find out that I was being cheated on. I hsd reason to believe it and asked her several times if she had a boyfriend, of couse she denied it every time. Then later people would come up to me and say I thought you knew but didn't care! YEAH, RIGHT. She's his problem now!!!
Hellooo Danny
Thats what happened to me too..
Manyfeathers: Have you told her yet????????????
If I was the one who saw him with the other girl, I would have told her weeks ago.
If I jump the gun and say somethine it's going to look like I'm making things up because I WASN'T THERE.
My other sister had a heated discussion about it this past weekend...It's in her hands not mine. My other sister really hates this guy, so I'm not sure why she didn't say anything when this happened.
I'm very close to my sisters and I hate seeing this conflict.
princess49503: If I was the one who saw him with the other girl, I would have told her weeks ago.
If I jump the gun and say somethine it's going to look like I'm making things up because I WASN'T THERE.My other sister had a heated discussion about it this past weekend...It's in her hands not mine. My other sister really hates this guy, so I'm not sure why she didn't say anything when this happened.
I'm very close to my sisters and I hate seeing this conflict.
If I jump the gun and say somethine it's going to look like I'm making things up because I WASN'T THERE.My other sister had a heated discussion about it this past weekend...It's in her hands not mine. My other sister really hates this guy, so I'm not sure why she didn't say anything when this happened.
I'm very close to my sisters and I hate seeing this conflict.
Good luck, I'm sure things will work out.
My sister is 100% in love with this guy. in the past, people have tried to warn her about him but she wouldn't hear any of if.
What I want to do is hire someone to get pics of him with the other women. That may be the only way to get her to see reality.
What I want to do is hire someone to get pics of him with the other women. That may be the only way to get her to see reality.
want to know????
last night, 1 of these family members coughed up their info on this womanizer to my sister.
She was stunned....
after a minute she collected herself and said she knew about it, then she left 20 minutes later.
I don't care if she stays with him or not. But she needs to know this douchebag isn't monogamous.
last night, 1 of these family members coughed up their info on this womanizer to my sister.
She was stunned....
after a minute she collected herself and said she knew about it, then she left 20 minutes later.
I don't care if she stays with him or not. But she needs to know this douchebag isn't monogamous.
princess49503: I have reason to believe my sisters fiance is cheating on her. Many people(other family members) have seen him at restuarants with another woman.
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
Yes, you should, but...
Only what you saw, not what you think or assume. Try next time to take a pic (even with handy) so that she's got a proof and can tell maybe if it's his sister or ex or a business chat!
I personally belief strongly in people, but once dissapointed, I loose confidence and partner!
princess49503: I have reason to believe my sisters fiance is cheating on her. Many people(other family members) have seen him at restuarants with another woman.
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
Of-course it should be mentioned. being engaged is a time beofre the final commitment, to truly see what kind of person each of the parties is. Not sure why the hesitation.
Imagine how she would feel knowing that after she was married, and things got worse with hubby's behaviour, she found out everyone kept this from her. Had they not, she might have been spared all the future grief.
She might not like to hear it....but she should know, because it will happen throughout her whole marriage and end out breaking them up anyway.
My experience -- it depends on the person. My best friends husband was screwing around. I started to tell her and realized that she wasn't ready to know. That she would face it when she was ready. And she did.
We've talked about it since and she said I made the right decision.
Good luck.
We've talked about it since and she said I made the right decision.
Good luck.
aberfoyle: She might not like to hear it....but she should know, because it will happen throughout her whole marriage and end out breaking them up anyway.
yeah......and that scares the crap out of me.
You know, i would give anything for these claims to be false. If this dude was out with his sister or cousin or what ever. that would be great!!!
right now, it isn't going that way
Tell her yesterday
hmmm If you are 100% sure of what u saw and know then it makes sense to tell cos she would better know now than be sorry later. But if there is even the slight chance that its a hearsay or speculation .. then think twice.
riyablossom: hmmm If you are 100% sure of what u saw and know then it makes sense to tell cos she would better know now than be sorry later. But if there is even the slight chance that its a hearsay or speculation .. then think twice.
Arrrgggghhhhhh
I didn't seeeeeee anything.....I live in a different city!!!!!!
I have FAMILY MEMBERS who saw this guy with another girl!!!
princess49503: I have reason to believe my sisters fiance is cheating on her. Many people(other family members) have seen him at restuarants with another woman.
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
May be you can ask him diplomatically. Ofcourse, I would tell her of my doubts and my reasons for them.What with a woman's intuition, you might even have real reasons to believe.
If it was me i would want to know, if i was to find out my sister knew and said nothing would feel very betrayed. But there may be nothing in it so i think you need to be very sure of the facts sounds like he is doing it openly if people are seeing him. Not an easy one but good luck
princess49503: Arrrgggghhhhhh I didn't seeeeeee anything.....I live in a different city!!!!!!I have FAMILY MEMBERS who saw this guy with another girl!!!
Do you have his phone number? If you do, then confront him, ask him what he is doing you have the right to have an honest answer, blood is thicker than water, and let him know that your family will be keeping a close eye on him.
JMO
yes i,d tell my sister, blood is thicker than water!
princess49503: Arrrgggghhhhhh I didn't seeeeeee anything.....I live in a different city!!!!!!I have FAMILY MEMBERS who saw this guy with another girl!!!
I am sorry .. i mistook the OP ..
But i was just giving my view ( why so many
? ) .. I wasnt being rude .. 
Sister, ofcourse that is my "family"
Now friends, some I would tell, others I would not....
I look at it this way, If I know my friend is not cheating on their partner, but their partner is cheating on them... I would tell my friend, because what if their staying partner catches something (incurable) and gives it to your friend.... How would that ake you feel, if you chose not to tell them?????
Now if my friend and their partner are cheating on each other, I say nothing, they both deserve what ever happens to them...
Now I'm no snitch, I won't tell the cops on anyone
Now friends, some I would tell, others I would not....
I look at it this way, If I know my friend is not cheating on their partner, but their partner is cheating on them... I would tell my friend, because what if their staying partner catches something (incurable) and gives it to your friend.... How would that ake you feel, if you chose not to tell them?????
Now if my friend and their partner are cheating on each other, I say nothing, they both deserve what ever happens to them...
Now I'm no snitch, I won't tell the cops on anyone
Tell Her.....
mastic55: If it were my sister(may she rest in peace) I would tell her in a heart beat,
^this
princess49503: I have reason to believe my sisters fiance is cheating on her. Many people(other family members) have seen him at restuarants with another woman.
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
Should they tell her what they saw???
Or stay out of it???
was it the same woman all those times?
Yes, I would definitely tell her. At least tell her what you know and then she can decide what to do.
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