What do women look for in us men? (151)
RDM59: Would improving the girth by wrapping a few £100 notes around it be acceptable ? .....
Errrrr No!!
And what about her????Has she got to have the same qualities?????
lalasierra: Confidence, intelligent, funny, genuine, loyal, caring, driven, independent, out-going, spontaneous and adventurous.
Ccincy: Maturity,Has good manners and a kind heart.
and plus can play any kind of instruments , like guitar perharps
Never played a guitar, but I can play a piano with my tongue. 
manroe23: and plus can play any kind of instruments , like guitar perharps
galrads: and family jewels the size of a mastodon's
Mastodon? How will we wear it then? 
chris27292729: And what about her????Has she got to have the same qualities?????
ABSOLUTELY! It's a partnership!
I can bring it to the table and then some.
Shoe size...After all, you know what they say...big shoes....big feet 
RDM59: Would improving the girth by wrapping a few £100 notes around it be acceptable ? .....
Maaaaybe
Ayrtonsenna94: Question for the ladies: What do you look for in a man?
the size of his wallet is the most popular answer men will give and its true.
they call it compensation i do believe i call it robbing the rich to feed a habit shopping
lushguy4you: the size of his wallet is the most popular answer men will give and its true.
they call it compensation i do believe i call it robbing the rich to feed a habit shopping
they call it compensation i do believe i call it robbing the rich to feed a habit shopping
I would much rather have my own money than have to ask a man for something I need, or heaven forbid, something I want.
Ayrtonsenna94: Question for the ladies: What do you look for in a man?
A best friend
lushguy4you: the size of his wallet is the most popular answer men will give and its true.
they call it compensation i do believe i call it robbing the rich to feed a habit shopping
they call it compensation i do believe i call it robbing the rich to feed a habit shopping
From the time I left home at 16 I always earned my own money.
When I was married to my late husband never depended on him for money.
I'm still self sufficient and don't depend on my guy to support me.
The size of his wallet means absolutely nothing to me.
Intelligence is definitely a first priority. If a man is intelligent (& wise), he will know how to make money. It's been proven that couples who have a higher education level are less likely to divorce than couples who are less educated.
A topic that hasn't really been discussed much on dating sites is personal debt. Some people have worked hard and made sacrifices in order to either avoid being in debt or just trying to live within their means. Someone who is debt free is most likely not going to be attracted to someone who is drowning in debt. Sometimes it doesn't matter if you make a lot of money, if you don't manage it well or have a gambling addiction,most likely you're going to have a problem staying out of debt.
chemistrymajor: A topic that hasn't really been discussed much on dating sites is personal debt. Some people have worked hard and made sacrifices in order to either avoid being in debt or just trying to live within their means. Someone who is debt free is most likely not going to be attracted to someone who is drowning in debt. Sometimes it doesn't matter if you make a lot of money, if you don't manage it well or have a gambling addiction,most likely you're going to have a problem staying out of debt.
Its okay, I can sell your vital organs.
I am happy to look for them in a man who has run up debt.
I wish I knew
I wish I had an answer to that
Silly men.
The answer is obvious.
Yourselves.
And if a woman is looking for something different, then she's not for you.
The answer is obvious.
Yourselves.
And if a woman is looking for something different, then she's not for you.
chemistrymajor: A topic that hasn't really been discussed much on dating sites is personal debt. Some people have worked hard and made sacrifices in order to either avoid being in debt or just trying to live within their means. Someone who is debt free is most likely not going to be attracted to someone who is drowning in debt. Sometimes it doesn't matter if you make a lot of money, if you don't manage it well or have a gambling addiction,most likely you're going to have a problem staying out of debt.
Well put! I might add that those single people today, who have been frugal and or economically responsible, who have worked and saved and more or less debt free, don't have another 30 years at 60 to do it all over again.
Whenever I've raised the topic of a pre-nuptial agreement, the other party has always turned cold and disinterested, immediately. Seems like they always reply that anyone going into a contractual-relationship (marriage) needing a prenuptial has to feel that relationship is going to fail from the start. Bulloney. I look at a pre-nup as simply insurance, necessary because of the current trend of failing marriages.
jac379: Silly men.
The answer is obvious.
Yourselves.
And if a woman is looking for something different, then she's not for you.
The answer is obvious.
Yourselves.
And if a woman is looking for something different, then she's not for you.
Sometimes my mind strolls..jac379: Silly men.
The answer is obvious.
Yourselves.
And if a woman is looking for something different, then she's not for you.
The answer is obvious.
Yourselves.
And if a woman is looking for something different, then she's not for you.
most astute opinion yet.
Ayrtonsenna94: Question for the ladies: What do you look for in a man?
an independent mature man who can take a stand in his own feet, not a crawling crying baby....Its not funny if I lead a man and do babysitting for him... a good leader with soft heart wanted...and only in my age range...
galrads: Well put! I might add that those single people today, who have been frugal and or economically responsible, who have worked and saved and more or less debt free, don't have another 30 years at 60 to do it all over again.
Whenever I've raised the topic of a pre-nuptial agreement, the other party has always turned cold and disinterested, immediately. Seems like they always reply that anyone going into a contractual-relationship (marriage) needing a prenuptial has to feel that relationship is going to fail from the start. Bulloney. I look at a pre-nup as simply insurance, necessary because of the current trend of failing marriages.
Whenever I've raised the topic of a pre-nuptial agreement, the other party has always turned cold and disinterested, immediately. Seems like they always reply that anyone going into a contractual-relationship (marriage) needing a prenuptial has to feel that relationship is going to fail from the start. Bulloney. I look at a pre-nup as simply insurance, necessary because of the current trend of failing marriages.
Errrmmm...ye-ah, to me it says you don't trust your partner to have integrity and without that, you don't have a relationship. Not much point in getting married on those terms.
Although from what I've witnessed (with the exception of one man I know), it seems the men are more likely to lack a sense of fairness at the point of divorce, so women and children might benefit from prenuptial agreements.
Be fair fellas, if you weren't all a bit lush just the way you are, don't you think I would have told you by now?
Its not like I'm known for holding back on that score.
Chillax brothers, be you.
Its not like I'm known for holding back on that score.
Chillax brothers, be you.
jac379: Errrmmm...ye-ah, to me it says you don't trust your partner to have integrity and without that, you don't have a relationship. Not much point in getting married on those terms.
Although from what I've witnessed (with the exception of one man I know), it seems the men are more likely to lack a sense of fairness at the point of divorce, so women and children might benefit from prenuptial agreements.
Although from what I've witnessed (with the exception of one man I know), it seems the men are more likely to lack a sense of fairness at the point of divorce, so women and children might benefit from prenuptial agreements.
gee wiz, people marry for bunches of reasons... money, lust, social status, envy etc.
and, yep. all these people, men and women marrying today for money doesn't say much for integrity.
I'm not thinking of marriages that exist early in someone's life to start a family etc.
Aside from that kind of relationship, how does this sense of fairness apply?
Anything earned and saved prior to a marriage is not considered a marital asset in most States here. so, what does fairness have to do with most marriages started much later in life? Fairness to me means, everyone should get what they put into the relationship, when it fails.
jac379: Errrmmm...ye-ah, to me it says you don't trust your partner to have integrity and without that, you don't have a relationship. Not much point in getting married on those terms.
Although from what I've witnessed (with the exception of one man I know), it seems the men are more likely to lack a sense of fairness at the point of divorce, so women and children might benefit from prenuptial agreements.
Although from what I've witnessed (with the exception of one man I know), it seems the men are more likely to lack a sense of fairness at the point of divorce, so women and children might benefit from prenuptial agreements.
gee wiz, people marry for bunches of reasons... money, lust, social status, envy etc.
and, yep. all these people, men and women marrying today for money doesn't say much for integrity.
I'm not thinking of marriages that exist early in someone's life to start a family etc.
Aside from that kind of relationship, how does this sense of fairness apply?
Anything earned and saved prior to a marriage is not considered a marital asset in most States here. so, what does fairness have to do with most marriages started much later in life? Fairness to me means, everyone should get what they put into the relationship, when it fails.
galrads: gee wiz, people marry for bunches of reasons... money, lust, social status, envy etc..
I'll go back and read the thread in full however from just this last part..... yike what about people marrying for love?....
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