On yes, hugs all over the place on a first date. Kitty-cat kisses on the lips and kissing on the neck and ears. The thing about French kissing on a first date, is that you spend time later wondering if you've contracted mononucleosis.
I've always tried to make out with a date on the first date. Sometimes it just didn't work out due to me trying to move too fast. I can thoroughly respect a lady for wanting to reserve those kisses for someone who deserves her affections.
Sometimes it's okay, and sometimes not. Here's a bit of 'awkward', too,-- if you have to ask, then that wipes out the spontaneity of it, which ruins the moment. But, if you read the situation wrong, and the hug/kiss is not wanted, you have stepped on a boundary. So, you have to be able to read the situation perfectly, and I guess if you cannot, then no hug/kiss. A flash of hope: waiting for the second, (or third) date is fairly safe because if she/he accepts more dates then he/she is most likely welcoming of kisses and hugs, or there wouldn't be any more dates. So be patient. JMO
janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK916 posts
rohaan: Sometimes it's okay, and sometimes not. Here's a bit of 'awkward', too,-- if you have to ask, then that wipes out the spontaneity of it, which ruins the moment. But, if you read the situation wrong, and the hug/kiss is not wanted, you have stepped on a boundary. So, you have to be able to read the situation perfectly, and I guess if you cannot, then no hug/kiss. A flash of hope: waiting for the second, (or third) date is fairly safe because if she/he accepts more dates then he/she is most likely welcoming of kisses and hugs, or there wouldn't be any more dates. So be patient. JMO
Nothing worse than someone lunging at you unexpectedly at the end of a first date. Especially when you want it to be the last.
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Just for gigglles.Kissing on the first date.(Vote Below)