How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live. (131)
RogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 PostsThat is indeed the way to do it Ladydiz. Just see it as a holiday where you're at least going to meet someone nice. Dont expect more. All the rest you just see it when you see it.
Rogerzoekt: After one experience where after long writing and chatting i thought we figured it all out, the minute we saw each other in real life there was no chemistry at all.
This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
Surely you would Skype or something before you flew halfway round the world.This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
lonelygal122: Surely you would Skype or something before you flew halfway round the world.
I'll dance Tango with her
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That's beautiful Jean.
lonelygal122: That's beautiful Jean.
thanks - it is interesting what we can find on the internet.
We take a risk, a chance, step out of our comfort zone when we connect with another person whether they are in our home town or their home town.
Nothing ventured nothing gained.
JeanKimberley: thanks - it is interesting what we can find on the internet.
We take a risk, a chance, step out of our comfort zone when we connect with another person whether they are in our home town or their home town.
Nothing ventured nothing gained.
Isnt it wonderful when that risk is so worth it though?We take a risk, a chance, step out of our comfort zone when we connect with another person whether they are in our home town or their home town.
Nothing ventured nothing gained.
lonelygal122: Isnt it wonderful when that risk is so worth it though?
I am so hoping so, when I can return to Scotland for my next vacation.
On a non-romantic note, I met a friend here who is coming back for a visit in October - we are going to see if we can find her a man in my neighborhood, well a little further south in Key West.
JeanKimberley: I am so hoping so, when I can return to Scotland for my next vacation.
On a non-romantic note, I met a friend here who is coming back for a visit in October - we are going to see if we can find her a man in my neighborhood, well a little further south in Key West.
Ooooh....best of luck in your quest Jean.On a non-romantic note, I met a friend here who is coming back for a visit in October - we are going to see if we can find her a man in my neighborhood, well a little further south in Key West.
lonelygal122: Ooooh....best of luck in your quest Jean.
It's still an age before I can get back to Scotland - although for my friend - hopefully she will find a nice american guy - surprisingly enough there are tons of them.
LadyDiz2: We're all different Fishi. And Happy Easter to you, by the way.
Happy easter ladydiz.
CuddlingSoul: For me, if a good scene of humor is between us, that is the greatest indication of a close bond forming. Laughter promotes all sorts of pleasant chemistry, for the individual as well as for the couple.
right on cuddling..
lonelygal122: Surely you would Skype or something before you flew halfway round the world.
indeed :)JeanKimberley: Happy easter ladydiz.
Happy Easter JeanK
Thank you for all the pics - you've livened up the threads in a wonderful way.
JeanKimberley: thanks - it is interesting what we can find on the internet.
We take a risk, a chance, step out of our comfort zone when we connect with another person whether they are in our home town or their home town.
Nothing ventured nothing gained.
We take a risk, a chance, step out of our comfort zone when we connect with another person whether they are in our home town or their home town.
Nothing ventured nothing gained.
Quite true, sometimes you have to take a chance !
skippyguy: Quite true, sometimes you have to take a chance !
Don't you think it is possible even if a romance doesn't grow to fruition that a friendship might develop - and who knows, she might have a friend who turns out to be the one special one -
JeanKimberley: Don't you think it is possible even if a romance doesn't grow to fruition that a friendship might develop - and who knows, she might have a friend who turns out to be the one special one -
A good point
and i know i have instances of such, but in saying that it's also dependent, of how far things have gone, but waiting for a friend of a friend i think would be indeed VERY...hopefulJeanKimberley: Don't you think it is possible even if a romance doesn't grow to fruition that a friendship might develop - and who knows, she might have a friend who turns out to be the one special one -
I agree with you Jean. Ive made some friends for life on this site. There are some truly beautiful people here.lonelygal122: I agree with you Jean. Ive made some friends for life on this site. There are some truly beautiful people here.
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I like the idea of this is how I would travel toward love.
I like the idea of this is how I would travel toward love.
JeanKimberley: I like the idea of this is how I would travel toward love.
I hear ya.If after 30 seconds her knickers have not dropped to the floor then I know their is no chemistry. So far that has not happened 
...a true Gentlemen at heart !JeanKimberley: I like the idea of this is how I would travel toward love.
awwww that's so cool !!!
skippyguy: ...a true Gentlemen at heart !
rebel2: If after 30 seconds her knickers have not dropped to the floor then I know their is no chemistry. So far that has not happened
rebel2: If after 30 seconds her knickers have not dropped to the floor then I know their is no chemistry. So far that has not happened
Maybe they didn' t drop because she wasn' t wearing any.bluegirl07:
Also, I think people expect everything to be "instant" including attracting a mate. Instant soup, instant custard, instant love affair ! instead of taking time to get to know the real person in all their moods
Also, I think people expect everything to be "instant" including attracting a mate. Instant soup, instant custard, instant love affair ! instead of taking time to get to know the real person in all their moods
true....that is not instant things nor miracle...it takes time to truly in love.........imo, it has lots everything to do with compatibility....... many good guys/gals out there, but not always fit for each other......
lots of ppl are getting older just waiting for "miracle" fall from the sky instead of building it.....
Skyping does help in that it gives us an idea of their personality, their mannerisms, humour etc.
I think we do form impressions of people online.
...but nothing can beat a face-to-face meeting to determine whether there is indeed a connection.
I think we do form impressions of people online.
...but nothing can beat a face-to-face meeting to determine whether there is indeed a connection.
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