How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live. (131)

Apr 22, 2014 6:43 AM CST How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live.
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
kettleson: It has to be worth a try


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Apr 24, 2014 1:23 AM CST How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live.
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
How did we land on discussing wedding pictures??

Getting bit OT here guys.

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Apr 24, 2014 2:22 AM CST How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live.
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Chemistry, is an energy, its either there or its not..like a Magnet pulling you towards someone, wheather you close or far away, energy can travel miles..if you feel the pull, you gotta travel towards it heart beating
Apr 24, 2014 2:29 AM CST How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live.
lonelygal122
lonelygal122lonelygal122HallsGap, Victoria Australia8 Threads 4,567 Posts
serena123: Chemistry, is an energy, its either there or its not..like a Magnet pulling you towards someone, wheather you close or far away, energy can travel miles..if you feel the pull, you gotta travel towards it
Very true serena.thumbs up
Apr 25, 2014 11:57 AM CST How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live.
Kattte
KattteKattteVancouver, British Columbia Canada759 Posts
Rogerzoekt: After one experience where after long writing and chatting i thought we figured it all out, the minute we saw each other in real life there was no chemistry at all.

This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.


Isn't it strange that we humans do not seem to need any type of technologically based apparatus to tell us if someone we meet may be a biological hazard to us, but we seem to be in desperate need for some sort of 'meter' device to tell us if there is a mutual attraction to each other, baring the ability to detect any questionable motive. If such a device could be invented it could be quite useful in the inertial quest of a mate. (not to be confused with the old TV program, The Dating Game, in which on the first show, an announcer told audiences around the country to "stay tuned or the new Dating Game show on which young people come to mate...."oh well, back to the 'drawing boards' for such a device...laugh
Apr 25, 2014 12:36 PM CST How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live.
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK21 Threads 1 Polls 1,364 Posts
Rogerzoekt: How did we land on discussing wedding pictures??

Getting bit OT here guys.


wedding photos lets start a bonefire
wow now I got a bunch of half photo`s much better
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Apr 25, 2014 2:00 PM CST How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live.
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
wave I have never had a problem detecting chemistry, and if I would
meet them in Person, it would be no different.
May 4, 2014 7:06 PM CST How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live.
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
unlaoised: Nah, I think chemistry is instantaneous. It's either there or it's not. I'd be more than happy to be proved wrong, though
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May 4, 2014 7:28 PM CST How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live.
joey987
joey987joey987Bowmanville, Ontario Canada1 Threads 1,417 Posts
Rogerzoekt: After one experience where after long writing and chatting i thought we figured it all out, the minute we saw each other in real life there was no chemistry at all.

This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
I believe if both people are honest open minded the chemistry will produce itself if there is any. Sometimes it may take a couple of dates to find out or until there is a level of comfort for each person. Someone may be very nervous on first dates and it could be mistaken for disinterest or something else. But at the end of the day who really knows.cheers
May 4, 2014 7:30 PM CST How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live.
lonelygal122
lonelygal122lonelygal122HallsGap, Victoria Australia8 Threads 4,567 Posts
joey987: I believe if both people are honest open minded the chemistry will produce itself if there is any. Sometimes it may take a couple of dates to find out or until there is a level of comfort for each person. Someone may be very nervous on first dates and it could be mistaken for disinterest or something else. But at the end of the day who really knows.
I agree with your comments joey.thumbs up
May 4, 2014 7:52 PM CST How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live.
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
joey987: I believe if both people are honest open minded the chemistry will produce itself if there is any. Sometimes it may take a couple of dates to find out or until there is a level of comfort for each person. Someone may be very nervous on first dates and it could be mistaken for disinterest or something else. But at the end of the day who really knows.


common sense 100% thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up even more than a couple of dates...


not only a couple of dates (then jump to bed too early) to get to know someone...otherwise, the other part will shrink and do a runner...grin peace

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