RobbieM: Oh i'm not talking about me! I have had three women try to nag me to death though. I've concluded i'm now a bad judge of relationships, so i try to keep happy, and if i do meet somone else i'll check the back garden for a hole if the lady starts picking fights with me.
You're that guy who says 'hey if I said I will do it, I will do it. Quit nagging every few months about it.'
Oct 23, 2014 12:57 AM CST Your wife is sick. Do you.....
halfpoundSOUTH CHARLESTON, West Virginia USA2 Posts
halfpoundSOUTH CHARLESTON, West Virginia USA2 posts
Ken_19: Sigh, been there, done that. Did option 1) but the stupid hospital sent us home. She stayed sick and a few days later I had no option but to go back to work, but did ask a friend of hers to come by, and that woman did so, then called me to say wife had gone to nap. Came home to an empty house. On a hunch, called the ER, and yes, she was there. H1N1 She never did come home again. :(
Greetings, I just lost my wife due to strokes and I know how hard it is to wake up and reach out for your lady but she is not there. I wish you the best dear sir.
RainComeShine: Cuddling soul. Where did it go wrong? You sound precious to me.
Thank you, Miss. And thank you for asking... I was far too young to be married and so was she... Seems so long ago, like it's just an idea now, but I know that my youth really happened, I was there.
Track16: Play golf, kick her out of the bed and tell her to get on with it, go off to work as if it were a normal day, jump in bed with the next door neighbor.
You sound very familiar. You can forget Christmas!
halfpound: Greetings, I just lost my wife due to strokes and I know how hard it is to wake up and reach out for your lady but she is not there. I wish you the best dear sir.
Again, what more could you have done! Sorry to hear your story.
LadyDiz2: Not quite sure what the issue is here. Surely if your spouse is ill, or really anyone for whom you care, you take care of them to the best of your abilities and means? Can't imagine the kind of person who would be so heartless as to turn their backs on an ill spouse....
mickyj63adelaide, South Australia Australia2,362 posts
RainComeShine: Remember Christmas is coming!
yeah i stood by my ex when she was in dire straits couldnt get her to a quack . took one of her girlfriends to get her to a quack and then a hospital !! Stood by her like a good husband should and got shafted for it but hey thats life !
Thankfully i ahve moved on but its a good question
mickyj63: yeah i stood by my ex when she was in dire straits couldnt get her to a quack . took one of her girlfriends to get her to a quack and then a hospital !! Stood by her like a good husband should and got shafted for it but hey thats life !
Thankfully i ahve moved on but its a good question
You can have no regrets micky. You did what a husband or wife should do.
halfpound: Greetings, I just lost my wife due to strokes and I know how hard it is to wake up and reach out for your lady but she is not there. I wish you the best dear sir.
Thanks. Sorry to hear you have entered that place. For me it took at least six months before I stopped spending my days sitting on the couch just holding her pillow and not doing much of anything else. Totally lost all interest in spending 4 hours a day commuting to a job that had lost all purpose and point. Accepted the layoff for low productivity without a whimper. In my case someone very sweet noticed the deterioration, found out what happened and spent much time pulling me out of it. Needing to feel needed was what I needed and that was supplied. Even then I think it was about 2 years before I was ready to even think of dating or working again. A couple of GFs later I realized I needed to re-figure out who I was and what I wanted to be when I grew up. I am still undecided as to the last. :)
Ken_19: Thanks. Sorry to hear you have entered that place. For me it took at least six months before I stopped spending my days sitting on the couch just holding her pillow and not doing much of anything else. Totally lost all interest in spending 4 hours a day commuting to a job that had lost all purpose and point. Accepted the layoff for low productivity without a whimper. In my case someone very sweet noticed the deterioration, found out what happened and spent much time pulling me out of it. Needing to feel needed was what I needed and that was supplied. Even then I think it was about 2 years before I was ready to even think of dating or working again. A couple of GFs later I realized I needed to re-figure out who I was and what I wanted to be when I grew up. I am still undecided as to the last. :)
You've had a really difficult time, words can't express but I'm pleased that you've both started moving forwards Ken and Halfpound.
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You're that guy who says 'hey if I said I will do it, I will do it. Quit nagging every few months about it.'