to the ladies.....Money or True love? (174)
2intrigued: I think it's more about being responsible and able to support himself financially. I don't think many women would go into a relationship knowing that she would have to support her partner.
money talks
pedro27: i bet most would not even date a man without money/job
2intrigued: I think it's more about being responsible and able to support himself financially. I don't think many women would go into a relationship knowing that she would have to support her partner.
that's right....nail gun him to the wall.......
KNenagh: There are other things I would prefer talking about than his money, his job, his car and all his gadgets.
Someone mature with a bit of brain will find other topics to talk about and other ways to attract someone than purely his financial means.
I had it as well that guys tried to find out about my financial means which didn't get them any bonus points either.
Someone mature with a bit of brain will find other topics to talk about and other ways to attract someone than purely his financial means.
I had it as well that guys tried to find out about my financial means which didn't get them any bonus points either.
There are still a lot of men who think women are after their money, and they will complain about it to no end and in the same breath, boast about the house, cottage, car, boat, trips and his rising stocks. Can't win for losing eh?
2intrigued: I think it's more about being responsible and able to support himself financially. I don't think many women would go into a relationship knowing that she would have to support her partner.
Everyone has ups and downs in life and I have no problem with supporting a partner through the downs, nor would I exclude a potential partner is if he is going through one of these rough times. But I certainly would not be interested in a man who lacks the ambition, pride and strength of character to better his situation but rather depends on a partner or the state to provide him with a living.
truheart1941: that's right....nail gun him to the wall.......
What?
2intrigued: What?
...support......
2intrigued: There are still a lot of men who think women are after their money, and they will complain about it to no end and in the same breath, boast about the house, cottage, car, boat, trips and his rising stocks. Can't win for losing eh?
Yeah, and then they go for arm candy who takes them to the cleaner.
rich wealthy people dont have to work!! so
LadyDiz2: Everyone has ups and downs in life and I have no problem with supporting a partner through the downs, nor would I exclude a potential partner is if he is going through one of these rough times. But I certainly would not be interested in a man who lacks the ambition, pride and strength of character to better his situation but rather depends on a partner or the state to provide him with a living.
That's my point...ambition, pride and strength of character.
There were a few times in my marriage where my husband was laid off in his job and it didn't bother me.
KNenagh: Yeah, and then they go for arm candy who takes them to the cleaner.
And then complain some more.
2intrigued: That's my point...ambition, pride and strength of character.
There were a few times in my marriage where my husband was laid off in his job and it didn't bother me.
There were a few times in my marriage where my husband was laid off in his job and it didn't bother me.
Yip, supported a partner before, too. It's part of being in a relationship, helping each other when needed.
LadyDiz2: Everyone has ups and downs in life and I have no problem with supporting a partner through the downs, nor would I exclude a potential partner is if he is going through one of these rough times. But I certainly would not be interested in a man who lacks the ambition, pride and strength of character to better his situation but rather depends on a partner or the state to provide him with a living.
Well said!!
.....candy....arm candy.....?????..who empty,td the box on this site.....???????
LadyDiz2: Yip, supported a partner before, too. It's part of being in a relationship, helping each other when needed.
Thats called equality. well said!!
truheart1941: ...support......
Support is fine if it's temporary but I don't think people will want to support someone who shows no interest in ever contributing. Doesn't have to be big bucks but enough to at least sustain a sensible lifestyle for the couple.
my dream is too be a millionaire and move to the south of france
2intrigued: Support is fine if it's temporary but I don't think people will want to support someone who shows no interest in ever contributing. Doesn't have to be big bucks but enough to at least sustain a sensible lifestyle for the couple.
Do men care whether their's partner financial stable or not??
guysimple: Do men care whether their's partner financial stable or not??
Yes, they do if they want a partner and not a maid or a simple lay.
guysimple: Do men care whether their's partner financial stable or not??
no because she would have to look after my kidsguysimple: Do men care whether their's partner financial stable or not??
I don't know, you tell me. Would you go into a relationship with a woman who has no interest or motivation to contribute?
KNenagh: Yes, they do if they want a partner and not a maid or a simple lay.
May be but some not all.
If partner is not financial stable does it make them Maid?
KNenagh: Yes, they do if they want a partner and not a maid or a simple lay.
...sorry to burst your bubble KN......I see it ,as a couple, who regards their partner ..as a partner....to share what they have together.........
2intrigued: I don't know, you tell me. Would you go into a relationship with a woman who has no interest or motivation to contribute?
If she is nice why not...
I will look for wife not for another income source.
guysimple: May be but some not all.
If partner is not financial stable does it make them Maid?
If partner is not financial stable does it make them Maid?
Not everyone is the same. Just look for someone you have compatibility with.
No, and if you read my post, that's not what I said. Guys who want a partner who is compatible often want someone with a similar lifestyle - as I would ideally as well - but some deliberately go for partners who isn't their "equal" (that can be financially but not only) to be able to dictate.
KNenagh: Not everyone is the same. Just look for someone you have compatibility with.
No, and if you read my post, that's not what I said. Guys who want a partner who is compatible often want someone with a similar lifestyle - as I would ideally as well - but some deliberately go for partners who isn't their "equal" (that can be financially but not only) to be able to dictate.
No, and if you read my post, that's not what I said. Guys who want a partner who is compatible often want someone with a similar lifestyle - as I would ideally as well - but some deliberately go for partners who isn't their "equal" (that can be financially but not only) to be able to dictate.
That's where I'm coming from on this as well.
guysimple: If she is nice why not...
I will look for wife not for another income source.
I will look for wife not for another income source.
If you are able to financially support a wife and perhaps children as well without her having an income, that's excellent.
truheart1941: ...sorry to burst your bubble KN......I see it ,as a couple, who regards their partner ..as a partner....to share what they have together.........
That's the way I see it as well Tru. I have been with someone who went back to college and didn't have a lot of money and there was a time when I couldn't work for a while due to an operation and I actually met someone during that time and it didn't bother him (he tried to dictate to me at some stage though because he earned more money than me when I was working). I will always support someone to my best ability I'm with and share my life with him.
KNenagh: Not everyone is the same. Just look for someone you have compatibility with.
No, and if you read my post, that's not what I said. Guys who want a partner who is compatible often want someone with a similar lifestyle - as I would ideally as well - but some deliberately go for partners who isn't their "equal" (that can be financially but not only) to be able to dictate.
No, and if you read my post, that's not what I said. Guys who want a partner who is compatible often want someone with a similar lifestyle - as I would ideally as well - but some deliberately go for partners who isn't their "equal" (that can be financially but not only) to be able to dictate.
KNenagh: "“Yes, they do if they want a partner and not a maid or a simple lay."
This was your post
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I think it's more about being responsible and able to support himself financially. I don't think many women would go into a relationship knowing that she would have to support her partner.