to the ladies.....Money or True love? (174)

Nov 1, 2014 5:40 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
Kalpataru: I need both.
Someone said "without money AT ALL, true love between couples fades away and without true love, money worths nothing much."


I said this before They need both.tongue
Nov 1, 2014 5:42 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
Kalpataru
KalpataruKalpatarusomewhere close to, Jakarta Indonesia1,083 Posts
truheart1941: you have,nt seen me undressed have you......

Wasn't it you whom I saw on that day? uh oh
Heyy, you are not a truelove.. You are a.. .. truheart. grin
Nov 1, 2014 5:47 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
Kalpataru: Wasn't it you whom I saw on that day?
Heyy, you are not a truelove.. You are a.. .. truheart.
Awww. your fine body/my fine mind.....its written in the stars.....daydream daydream blushing giggle giggle giggle
Nov 1, 2014 5:48 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
Kalpataru
KalpataruKalpatarusomewhere close to, Jakarta Indonesia1,083 Posts
guysimple: I said this before They need both.

But.. but.. the op said "to the ladies..." grin Sorry, I didn't read all comments. My mistake. sad flower
Nov 1, 2014 5:52 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
Kalpataru
KalpataruKalpatarusomewhere close to, Jakarta Indonesia1,083 Posts
truheart1941: Awww. your fine body/my fine mind.....its written in the stars.....

yay dancing grin
Nov 1, 2014 5:54 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
Kalpataru: But.. but.. the op said "to the ladies..." Sorry, I didn't read all comments. My mistake.


Lolzbouquet
Nov 1, 2014 5:55 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
Harryonline
HarryonlineHarryonlineLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 639 Posts
Thanks for the link. I did invest over there...made a very good return...getting it back here was easy (although taxes apply). If you know thew right people, then there is a way to not have profits eaten in to by the high Tax from the country of origin...in this case India).
Nov 1, 2014 5:56 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
guysimple: Lolz
..hey.....are you sending flowers....to my beloveded.......scold laugh laugh
Nov 1, 2014 6:42 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
guysimple: Lolzz...Yes I will tell them that you said me to tell this.
I will fix my keeboard boxing laugh thumbs up
Nov 1, 2014 6:45 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
truheart1941: ....grunt/grunt/grunt......and that's told you......
Go To Bedtongue Your told.wink dunno buddies
Nov 1, 2014 7:11 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
chatonlyman2: Go To Bed Your told.
ok...play me a lullaby.......in c major......on your violin....??????grin rolling on the floor laughing roll eyes roll eyes laugh
Nov 1, 2014 7:15 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
truheart1941: ok...play me a lullaby.......in c major......on your violin....??????


Hush a bye truby on the tree top (hope you're not afraid of heights! laugh )
Nov 1, 2014 7:31 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
minnieme2: Hush a bye truby on the tree top (hope you're not afraid of heights! )
dunno are you a tall woman with bosoms.......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 1, 2014 7:31 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
minnieme2: Hush a bye truby on the tree top (hope you're not afraid of heights! )
Umpty Dumpty Rock it styleguitarC major plus tongue hug peace
Nov 1, 2014 7:59 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
truheart1941: are you a tall woman with bosoms.......


laugh no, 'fraid not! Depends on the tree! lol
Nov 1, 2014 8:05 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
chatonlyman2: Umpty Dumpty Rock it styleC major plus


rolling on the floor laughing poor 'umpty came to a bad end! don't be scaring tru! lol
Nov 1, 2014 8:09 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
minnieme2: poor 'umpty came to a bad end! don't be scaring tru! lol
I will try to be softerhug
Nov 1, 2014 8:29 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
chatonlyman2: I will try to be softer
..yer....like a cow.s pat......(poo.poo,s)......rolling on the floor laughing laugh
Nov 1, 2014 8:33 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
truheart1941: ..yer....like a cow.s pat......(poo.poo,s)......
My Mommy loves yousad flower comfort
Nov 1, 2014 8:41 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Obstinance_Works: That's breaking the chains of assortative mating! Why should the rich only mate with the rich, the poor only breed with the poor and so on and so forth..? There is no room for such abundance of class discrimination in an age which prides itself upon its depths of tolerance. To hell with the neo-edwardian snobs and their 21st century Downton Abbey.


I am talking about equal and that it CAN be financially if someone DELIBERATELY tries to have the upper hand and dictate conditions to their partner. It has nothing to do with a class system. uh oh
Nov 1, 2014 8:44 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
guysimple: I am sorry to hear about you.
I am agree If women are financial stable they have opportunity/confidence to get out of such situation.
But it doesn't bother much for guys whether their wife/gf is bringing money home. here are some guys too who wants ugly, fat, old but rich Lady.


It is a decision I made for myself that I never want to be financially dependent on someone.

I think there will always be people who want the easy way out and go for someone with money. dunno Not everyone is the same though and is looking for something like that.
Nov 1, 2014 8:46 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
KNenagh: I am talking about equal and that it CAN be financially if someone DELIBERATELY tries to have the upper hand and dictate conditions to their partner. It has nothing to do with a class system.


I think some people have misinterpreted what we're trying to convey. Personally, I give up. laugh wave
Nov 1, 2014 8:53 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
2intrigued: I think some people have misinterpreted what we're trying to convey. Personally, I give up.


I think it's an easy way for some people to blame someone else if they can't find a partner - not because of not having a job or a lot of money, but because of their attitude. conversing They never want to accept that it could be them and not someone else. wink

As for Obs, I think that was a deliberate misunderstanding to go off on a rant. grin
Nov 1, 2014 9:12 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
KNenagh: I think it's an easy way for some people to blame someone else if they can't find a partner - not because of not having a job or a lot of money, but because of their attitude. They never want to accept that it could be them and not someone else.

As for Obs, I think that was a deliberate misunderstanding to go off on a rant.


Probably that and the fact that the forum members have a different opinion based on their cultural differences...a very diverse group here and some may also have trouble deciphering what we're trying to say. dunno
Where I'm from, most couples have to work to make ends meet and it's the rare few that are able to survive on one income. In some parts of the world, this probably still works for them so that's their mindset perhaps. I'm thankful for not having to rely on the income of a partner when we parted ways. wave
Nov 1, 2014 11:24 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
Harryonline
HarryonlineHarryonlineLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 639 Posts
This is an excerpt from the link below:

Most studies show that single homeless adults are more likely to be male than female.

In 2007, a survey by the U.S. Conference of Mayors found that of the population surveyed 35% of the homeless people who are members of households with children are male while 65% of these people are females. However, 67.5% of the single homeless population is male, and it is this single population that makes up 76% of the homeless populations surveyed (U.S. Conference of Mayors, 2007).



It kind of uncanny to the thrust of this thread.
Nov 2, 2014 12:28 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
KNenagh: It is a decision I made for myself that I never want to be financially dependent on someone.

I think there will always be people who want the easy way out and go for someone with money. Not everyone is the same though and is looking for something like that.


I appreciate your thinking of self depended and yes there is another way what many people follow to get everything by doing nothing.

for your replythumbs up peace
Nov 2, 2014 12:39 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
2intrigued: Probably that and the fact that the forum members have a different opinion based on their cultural differences...a very diverse group here and some may also have trouble deciphering what we're trying to say.
Where I'm from, most couples have to work to make ends meet and it's the rare few that are able to survive on one income. In some parts of the world, this probably still works for them so that's their mindset perhaps. I'm thankful for not having to rely on the income of a partner when we parted ways.


Yes you are right we all from different countries and culture and cost of living are different. In some countries Men only work to earn money where woman look after home or work both but its never mandatory for woman earn and support. Its all her wish.
Nov 2, 2014 12:43 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
Harryonline
HarryonlineHarryonlineLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 639 Posts
There are skills/attributes that money cant by - this may well be in DIY/home improvement, cooking, meditating and counseling, child caring, being a good person, skilled at being a mother or a father..the list goes on.
Nov 2, 2014 12:45 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
Leoma
LeomaLeomaJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1 Threads 177 Posts
Prezcato: A friend and I were having a conversation about this poll amd I wanted to know your ladies thoughts on the subject.



Personally I just want someone to listen to me and appreciate me:professor

But he must have a job also

coz honestly you can't be in love and unable to pay bills

simply won't have peace conversing
Nov 2, 2014 1:08 PM CST to the ladies.....Money or True love?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
guysimple: Exactly.

KN I know not all women look for money because i have seen many in my life and one was with me. She supported me sometimes financially our dates without asking her even i got angry at her during my visit as we had long distance relationship and I was studying that time.


I think helping your partner is just normal. handshake
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