So THAT's why we're single! (89)
LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 PostsI'm single because I want the magic, the tenderness, the passion and the commitment. Finding someone with all these qualities is rare indeed.......and men who wear kilts are in short supply down here
Just imagine if you liked everyone and they lived you - that would be a living curse !
LadyDiz2: I'm single because I want the magic, the tenderness, the passion and the commitment. Finding someone with all these qualities is rare indeed.......and men who wear kilts are in short supply down here
I live in Scotland. Men look their best in the kilt, no denying
They're not necessarily magical, tender and passionate, though. That's a world-wide shortage ...
Harryonline: Just imagine if you liked everyone and they loved you - that would be a living curse !
thinking about it ... would be fun for a while!
I am single because I live on a very small island so I would have to relocate which means I have to be extra sure he is the right one.
I am mostly single by choice. Good luck to u tho
I selected the answer that I am too picky it has to be amazing and now also I guess my weird sense of humor is not helping.....
I selected the answer that I am too picky it has to be amazing and now also I guess my weird sense of humor is not helping.....
In response to: I am not Single by choice. How about You ?
I'm single because I'm not in a relationship...
justjim63: I'm single because I'm not in a relationship...
so is that a choice james?
I have memory problem, and it's hard to live with. It's even harder starting a new relationship. It would take a strong men to look past it, and see the loving woman I am.
felixis99: so is that a choice james?
Yes it is, I'd rather wait forever for miss right then to settle now for miss wrong, Whatever years I have left I want to spend with someone that capitivates me in every way and that I can love with abandon....And if she doesn't turn up then such is life.
...I want to settle down......but over here...I,m treated like a prize.bull.......being transported....from place to place.....just for breeding purposes.......I feel I,m being used.......
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..................................................................................................................................... truheart1941: ...I want to settle down......but over here...I,m treated like a prize.bull.......being transported....from place to place.....just for breeding purposes.......I feel I,m being used....... .....................................................................................................................................
Better than being sent to the abbatoir...
mollybaby: Better than being sent to the abbatoir...
morning Molly......
or the vets...??????? Lannna23: I am not giving up too easily, but here, at CS since you cannot see facial expression or hear a voice (letters are pretty much what we have), I pay a lott of intention to details - I don't like if people ask me the same thing more than twice (than they are not interested enough, or they are talking with a few of us at same time); if they are giving me sort of "orders", if they provide me with their e-mail or phone number right away.....etc..... I definitely will walk away with no regret at all
after read your esperience I thought I was the only one in the same situation :P
truheart1941: morning Molly...... or the vets...???????
I brought the dog to the vet yesterday.
I should have brought you along too for the 2 for 1 offer
you are single because you think you deserve better than what is available without, of course, fully knowing or understanding what really is better. (now time to hide from the onslaught of the ladies here
)
)VivianLee: It is incredibly easy to meet someone, but the hardest thing in the world to meet someone *special*. So - we all been there. Met someone good but no fairy godmother appears to wave a wand and make everything happen exactly the way we want it to. He's interested. She's interested. There's no obstacles that couldn't be overcome. And yet ...
Do we give up too easily? Ever walked away from something that could have worked?
Ever regretted it?
Do we give up too easily? Ever walked away from something that could have worked?
Ever regretted it?
It is the old story of lonely men seeking companionship,and/ or ‘love’ and lonely women,(both ‘old’ and young) who both have “been there, done that” who have given up to even meet for a coffee. They both sit at home and compose their expectations on their computers for various singles web sites. They never meet and if any ever do, their prerequisites cancel out any possible connections. It’s far easier to avoid their expected disappointments and to maintain their illusions that there is no one out there for them to meet. That mind set does make it very easy to give up actually actively look for that ever elusive ‘special’ person. It is simply too hard to back away from their expectations. In the quiet darkness of their nights, will they ever admit to their regret of not really being interested to look and settle for an empty haunting loneliness that eats away at their hearts…Consolation from alcohol or drugs bring no self delusion to their reality each morning. Just my opinion and observations.
HappyValerie: I am not Single by choice. How about You ?
Not being single by choice is the worse..
VivianLee: Oh, I hate the same questions coming up, sheesh, listen already! BTW I got talked into buying a webcam and talking on Skype makes all the difference, once you've reached the stage where you are interested in learning more. Just for talking - any suggestion of cyber hanky panky and I'd be blocking any further calls
Than I have to give my skype ID to majority of people here?
Not me :)
Lannna23: Than I have to give my skype ID to majority of people here?
Not me :)
Not me :)
Ya....that would be a good idea. Now, pls start sharing your skype id with me purely for some academic reasons
Scottishlass88: I am single because I live on a very small island so I would have to relocate which means I have to be extra sure he is the right one.
Or he might? Malta must be fab
felixis99: I am mostly single by choice. Good luck to u tho
I selected the answer that I am too picky it has to be amazing and now also I guess my weird sense of humor is not helping.....
I selected the answer that I am too picky it has to be amazing and now also I guess my weird sense of humor is not helping.....
A weird sense of humour is a huge help when meeting most single men. Or so I've found. And it makes life much more fun
VivianLee: A weird sense of humour is a huge help when meeting most single men. Or so I've found. And it makes life much more fun
i agree ! I Love a good sense of Humour , Period vilas73: I have memory problem, and it's hard to live with. It's even harder starting a new relationship. It would take a strong men to look past it, and see the loving woman I am.
That's hard. He's out there -
mnowsa: you are single because you think you deserve better than what is available without, of course, fully knowing or understanding what really is better. (now time to hide from the onslaught of the ladies here)
Haha that applies at least to much to men as it does to women. Maybe more.
No - thinking about it - definitely more to men than women. Both guilty.
VivianLee: You're a strong lady who knows her mind. I've never regretted walking away either, but sometimes I wonder whether I have unreasonable expectations.
That is only something you know and can change.
All I expect from someone is being honest and I found that even that is impossible to get in most instances.
Kattte: It’s far easier to avoid their expected disappointments and to maintain their illusions that there is no one out there for them to meet.
Yes, we do sometimes say we're trying, and what we mean is, we are rejecting possibles. So many crazies out there, and it is so warm and safe at home. That's why this blog, in a way. The excuses we make, to ourselves as much as to friends who ask.
.....is there a nypo......site.......
damshoppin: Not being single by choice is the worse..
You must be single by choice. There are so very many single people out there looking for someone like you. Your expectations may be too high, or you're not actively looking - and those are choices.
I had to answer the 2nd to last one.........BUT it's not fully correct
either, it does not have to be Amazing but it would be nice for it to be special with some similar interests, i can't just settle for the sake of settling, as i think alot do..........
Do i expect too much perhaps, do others expect too much, Most probably, i don't give up easily, BUT if i find someone does not care to put in similar effort, what is the point..???
i have regretted a couple of instances...mainly around the fact that maybe
i look for too much, you can't live on Regrets though
Sometimes i find woman are not content enough to get to know a person, it has the be the Full Monty from the start...so to speak.. 
either, it does not have to be Amazing but it would be nice for it to be special with some similar interests, i can't just settle for the sake of settling, as i think alot do..........
Do i expect too much perhaps, do others expect too much, Most probably, i don't give up easily, BUT if i find someone does not care to put in similar effort, what is the point..???
i have regretted a couple of instances...mainly around the fact that maybe
i look for too much, you can't live on Regrets though
Sometimes i find woman are not content enough to get to know a person, it has the be the Full Monty from the start...so to speak..
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