People who Hurt, Play and Let you down .. what should you do ? (110)

forgive and forget

Definitely forgive.. by carrying around dark ugly resentment, the persons who hurt u continue to have a hold over u

Very wise words...

Copy that. As I get older and maybe wiser, I see how Karma has effected me and others. So many of the not so good things I have done in my life have come around to haunt me in some way or another. Today, I just try to be the best person I can. It seems to be working! If it ain't broke, don't fix it!
Peace to all!

forgive and forget life is to short.

Thats true. I think you should forgive but not forget. I think if you forget, you open yourself up to letting it happen again.

Forgive yes...Move on yes...BUT I won't forget...Mainly so I don't make the same mistake again!!!!!!!!

I don't believe you can take responsibility for someone elses deception...I'm sorry but that is entirely upon them and their issue...Everyone wants trust yet people still want to act untrustworthy...Is it any wonder you don't know who you can trust and open up to and who you can't?????....Deception is an ugly thing and longstanding upon the heart!!!!!!!!!

What comes around goes around...

Oh Uli I do hope so, I went for revenge, am already practising

I know how you feel foreveryoung.... believe me as time tunnels through the hour glass ...

I understand pain is neccessary for spiritual growth. I also understand (today) that the suffering was optional, it was my "choice"..

I "THINK", I detect just a wweeeee bit of anger & resentment. I wonder how that is working for those holding on to the anger & resentment??

Have gone thought it myself a few times since coming on line. I think the greatest disappointment is how quickly people walk away or give up on a relationship; especially those that post such despirate, longing, even begging for anyone to pay just a bit of attention to them. I know it's a lot different now than from when I was in my 20's, but you'd think that the basic desire for having somebody to share a life with would be just as strong ... but perhaps not.

In any case, I'm still living my life like it's the big guys day every day of the year, but am finding that being an honestly "nice guy" just isn't what is wanted ... and I'm just not willing to back to what I once was. But certainly one of these days there will be some kind of reward ... just hope I'm still young enough to enjoy and appreciate it!

Ho Ho Ho (as in the old meaning, not the so-called new one! LOL)

You are right

– it`s one of the most problems today – most of the people lies, in their job in their relationship and so on – I think it becomes a culture problem – but it depends on you – and only on you what to do:
When you think about what happened in the past – it will happen again and again …
…some people say Karma – other change their mind – and get happy.

Here an example:

When you eat Spaghetti Bolognese and you think about – what can happen – it will happen – you get little small red points on your jacket – doesn’t matter how care you have been…

Think negative and the life will come in this way…

Never think about the negative possibilities – okay – but only a short moment…

Everybody of us had an experience his own – you fall in love and went out for dinner, suddenly you see such a lot of beautiful women you never have seen before… and you think for a moment

– when I have been single where have they been? – but you think it only for a short moment – you are in love – forgotten?

you know what I mean - and this is right all in your life

PS.

Excuse my English, it’s not really good …

I wish ...

and lots of ...

compliment

you are thinking triply...

cream to cream
red to red
and "all" to companion...

and I hope it´s a far alley way

Suppose the idiom "right up my alley" would be fitting now?

yes you are right...

...and you thought about the way home during the dinner, so it must happen...definitly yes...the power of the thougts...even twice...I would think the hole evening about "bolognese or ream"

...or however karma?