do u think a guy feels about a overweight female? (112)
Topher83Jacksonville, Florida USA3 Threads 40 PostsI can't say Im a fan of giving someone else the time of day that doesn't give themselves the time of day.. People need to make an effort to stay in some kinda shape.
Topher83: I can't say Im a fan of giving someone else the time of day that doesn't give themselves the time of day.. People need to make an effort to stay in some kinda shape.
I would simple ask you if you are a perfect specimen of what a human should be
If we are overweight,underweight,and for those lucky to be perfect in some guys eyes!
I reckon our parents are accountable
I reckon our parents are accountable
angelLoveGuru: because man can be cruel to fat chicks
Most people are cruel to anyone they can be. It can be short, tall, fat, skinny, rich, poor, feamle, male,....etc..... The rest are kind to all. Even you....who have you been cruel to...was it a little brother or sister, a pretty girl, some boy that liked you but you blocked off, did you cuss some guy because he declined you affections for real reasons and not your weight. (he could have a father who is cruel and shames him in front of friends and girls....so he keeps away from girls because of his cruel father.....did you maybe be cruel to someone.
Be kind, sweet to all and build you esteem. Let the nuts go by the way....and you will find some guy that wants to be loved and has his own demons in his world. he needs you as much as you need him. Then build a relation on good things and let the world do the best it can with its crazy ways.
Topher83: I can't say Im a fan of giving someone else the time of day that doesn't give themselves the time of day.. People need to make an effort to stay in some kinda shape.
"Round", is a shape..
I don't quite understand the poll options.... why there isn't any option there to allow a guy to show his appreciation, or a lot of appreciation for bigger girls... why didn't you do this?
There are a LOT of us guys out here in the big bad world who really like bigger girls. In fact, lots of us who can ONLY like bigger/rounder/curvier and every other beautiful variant.
Curvy chicks... ye DEFINE femininity.
I'd have to make the inclusion that I would obviously be great if you also kept yourself fit. I would also just be concerned for your health. But there are a lot of bigger girls out there who ARE fit, and still get picked on and mocked etc. This is awful. WHY pick on another person based on their looks?
I generally can't find slimmer girls attractive myself, but I would never ever say anything harmful or nasty about them, not even in an impersonal forum like this. They just wouldn't know that I don't fancy them, though I do respect them.
If you haven't got something nice to say about the girl, don't say anything at all!!
But for what it's worth, there ARE a lot of us guys, who just love ye!!
xox
There are a LOT of us guys out here in the big bad world who really like bigger girls. In fact, lots of us who can ONLY like bigger/rounder/curvier and every other beautiful variant.
Curvy chicks... ye DEFINE femininity.
I'd have to make the inclusion that I would obviously be great if you also kept yourself fit. I would also just be concerned for your health. But there are a lot of bigger girls out there who ARE fit, and still get picked on and mocked etc. This is awful. WHY pick on another person based on their looks?
I generally can't find slimmer girls attractive myself, but I would never ever say anything harmful or nasty about them, not even in an impersonal forum like this. They just wouldn't know that I don't fancy them, though I do respect them.
If you haven't got something nice to say about the girl, don't say anything at all!!
But for what it's worth, there ARE a lot of us guys, who just love ye!!
xox
Until "I" am perfect...I can't expect perfection from others!
pretzelman: Until "I" am perfect...I can't expect perfection from others!
Words of wisdom!
well there is not much of a choice in the polls so thats a bad thing and the other thing about over weight women is its a personal thing each to there own buts thats my personal opinon
I will put up a comment, but will NOT vote. there are no choices that are acceptible. we are all people no matter what shape, size, or color we are. we all have feelings, and if people would think of this before thay talk, maybe things would be better.
I get so sick of this crap!! Will some one define "overweight" I myself gravitate to size 12-16. I just do. It's not a conscious decision. And the checkout counter mags....don't even get me started. Those pictures on the covers are.......CARTOONS. I feel bad when women actually think that is the standard. What's next..."normal" weight. Normal is a setting on a washing machine.
bob1959: I get so sick of this crap!! Will some one define "overweight" I myself gravitate to size 12-16. I just do. It's not a conscious decision. And the checkout counter mags....don't even get me started. Those pictures on the covers are.......CARTOONS. I feel bad when women actually think that is the standard. What's next..."normal" weight. Normal is a setting on a washing machine.
Normal, like average. means...the worst of the best and the best of the worst!WHO WANTS TO BE EITHER??
Actually I should make the inclusion there that a size 6 may be attractive to SOME men & healthy for SOME women, but not a whole lot I should think...
Anyone with any kind of relevant statistics on what 'size' the MOST of girls in say Western Society (for a start) 'should' actually be from a medical health point of view?
Anyone with any kind of relevant statistics on what 'size' the MOST of girls in say Western Society (for a start) 'should' actually be from a medical health point of view?
no because fat chicks get ruled out all the time.and being a nobody 2yr single bc i have extra weight men are the cruel one if ur not skinny forget u thats wrong i tell you wrong wrong wrong ugh.but i found i guy who dont judge like all other men
angelLoveGuru: no because fat chicks get ruled out all the time.and being a nobody 2yr single bc i have extra weight men are the cruel one if ur not skinny forget u thats wrong i tell you wrong wrong wrong ugh.but i found i guy who dont judge like all other men
Nice way to generalize.Da10th: Nice way to generalize.
I agree I just hate when we are all put in the same pool 
desmond: I agree I just hate when we are all put in the same pool
It's an epidemic as of late. Alot of man bash threads & posts. Guess it's the hip thing to do.tina_olson: Almost 2 years ago I weighed 265 pounds--was newly single-was always known as being the funny and friendly girl but never asked out....Decided the only person who could change myself was me and so I did--I now weigh 160 pounds and there is a big difference in how men treat me--funny thing is some of the men who are interested now are the same ones who had no time for me when I was heavy and even though I am not rude-I do not let them forget that I am still the same person I always was-just smaller....
Yay for you!!! That is awesome.....don't ever let them forget either. I gained a bit of weight after getting out the military and having my daughter, still trying to get it off, but I will get there.
As far as the question at hand, I think it depends on what the woman is like, just like hygiene etc, if a woman is a little big or if she has a medical condition that she has no control over then people seem to (in my experience) not such a**hole about it. But if you are one of those people that obviously just doesn't take care of yourself, then I personally think you deserve to be treated like crap...i.e dirty clothes 400lbs no shower....whatever it may be. JMO
spicey1: Yay for you!!! That is awesome.....don't ever let them forget either.
I gained a bit of weight after getting out the military and having my daughter, still trying to get it off, but I will get there. As far as the question at hand, I think it depends on what the woman is like, just like hygiene etc, if a woman is a little big or if she has a medical condition that she has no control over then people seem to (in my experience) not such a**hole about it. But if you are one of those people that obviously just doesn't take care of yourself, then I personally think you deserve to be treated like crap...i.e dirty clothes 400lbs no shower....whatever it may be. JMO
I gained a bit of weight after getting out the military and having my daughter, still trying to get it off, but I will get there. As far as the question at hand, I think it depends on what the woman is like, just like hygiene etc, if a woman is a little big or if she has a medical condition that she has no control over then people seem to (in my experience) not such a**hole about it. But if you are one of those people that obviously just doesn't take care of yourself, then I personally think you deserve to be treated like crap...i.e dirty clothes 400lbs no shower....whatever it may be. JMO
I agreedesmond: I agree
Sounds pretty negative to me...I know LOTS of thin people who have alot of mental problems. On the other hand I know heavy people who are happy and healthy, physically and emotionally. Size seems to make little difference!
more to love and more to hold 
women who are a little more fuller are just as good as any other woman
Ok... It sounds like most of the men on here like BBW, thats great, there's plenty of then around. 
Inthewoods: Ok... It sounds like most of the men on here like BBW, thats great, there's plenty of then around.
This poll is no good, there are no positive choices, I could not choose, I could not vote!!!
rubendario: This poll is no good, there are no positive choices, I could not choose, I could not vote!!!
Yes I felt the same way & the OP has vanished also.
I am sure an overweight guy will feel about an overweight female
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