Would you date a person with a disability? ( Archived) (66)

Nov 23, 2022 10:12 AM CSTWould you date a person with a disability?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas, Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts

Would you date a person with a disability?(Vote Below)

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It depends on the disability
46%
18 Votes
No way, that's too much work
10%
4 Votes
Yes, dating is ok
23%
9 Votes
Sure, but only if the person had the ability to manage their disability themselves
5%
2 Votes
No, only a person with disability should date a person with a disability
5%
2 Votes
Other answer/s
10%
4 Votes
39 Total Votes
My youngest brother is in his 50s and is wheel-chair bound. In his younger years he did the most - partied hard, socialized often, swam, played basketball, did marathons, travelled, and other things that I am not privy to (I'm surewink grin). So, not all persons with a disability may have problems socially.
He's still single, never married, is employed, owns & drives his own car, owns his own home... but he's not dating the way he once did. Is it still an option?

Ladies, would you date someone like him?
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Nov 23, 2022 10:37 AM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
One time it happened by mistake but i'm older now and you never know. I'd like to at least see more in her than the arm she didn't have.
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Nov 23, 2022 10:42 AM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Yes I would and I have.
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Nov 23, 2022 12:00 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
ChesneyChrist: One time it happened by mistake but i'm older now and you never know. I'd like to at least see more in her than the arm she didn't have.
Wow CC, how did it end?
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Nov 23, 2022 12:01 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
bodleing2: Yes I would and I have.
Ho Bod, what was the experience like? Difficult? Great?
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Nov 23, 2022 12:21 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
spikkels999
spikkels999spikkels999..., Gauteng South Africa103 Threads 843 Posts
I have nothing against anybody with anything...which should not even be mentioned...the "normal" people think they are the be all and end all pitying the rest...as long as they are alive, even dead...being it fauna and flora too...they count very much in my book...and no they are the ones with the sense...
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Nov 23, 2022 12:26 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
My best friend is paraplegic since his teens. I was best man in his wedding in May. I am disabled and never married (bipolar). It depends on the person, but it's difficult to find someone who has an understanding of such things.

I hope your brother can find someone Didi.
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Nov 23, 2022 12:44 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
My recent ex had a disability. When you fall for someone you see past it and love them regardless.
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Nov 23, 2022 12:51 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Didi7: Ho Bod, what was the experience like? Difficult? Great?
As her debilitating condition progressed it became increasingly difficult. Eventually she had to move back to the south coast to be with her family.
It was so sad, when we first met we would go climbing and mountain biking together, but within 18 months she was in a wheelchair. I used to carry her into the pub or into her flat, she never gave up.
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Nov 23, 2022 1:08 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Yes, I had actively dated someone with relapsing remitting MS. the disease finally took her years later. Somethings were uncomfortable but manageable.
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Nov 23, 2022 1:08 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
spikkels999: I have nothing against anybody with anything...which should not even be mentioned...the "normal" people think they are the be all and end all pitying the rest...as long as they are alive, even dead...being it fauna and flora too...they count very much in my book...and no they are the ones with the sense...
Ok.
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Nov 23, 2022 1:13 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
mbken: My best friend is paraplegic since his teens. I was best man in his wedding in May. I am disabled and never married (bipolar). It depends on the person, but it's difficult to find someone who has an understanding of such things.

I hope your brother can find someone Didi.
Wow Ken, didn't know but (from what I know about the Bipolar issue) I can empathize with your struggle. I think that my brother may have given up on marriage, but I still wish that he could find someone who cares enough to take him seriously.
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Nov 23, 2022 1:15 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
MysteriousGirl80: My recent ex had a disability. When you fall for someone you see past it and love them regardless.
Nice to know that you did MG. That's not always an easy thing to do.teddybear
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Nov 23, 2022 1:17 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7: Don't think so, Pedro.
I was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder but I feel well since 2010


basically hell and back cheers
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Nov 23, 2022 1:18 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
bodleing2: As her debilitating condition progressed it became increasingly difficult. Eventually she had to move back to the south coast to be with her family.
It was so sad, when we first met we would go climbing and mountain biking together, but within 18 months she was in a wheelchair. I used to carry her into the pub or into her flat, she never gave up.
Oh my, sorry to hear about this. What an experience that must have been for her, and for you. I've only ever seen that scenario in movies, but you both actually lived it.sad flower
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Nov 23, 2022 1:19 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
pedro27: I was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder but I feel well since 2010
basically hell and back
Sorry to hear, Pedro, but thank God that you're feeling much better. Keep taking care of yourself.hug
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Nov 23, 2022 1:24 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7: Sorry to hear, Pedro, but thank God that you're feeling much better. Keep taking care of yourself.
Tanks Didi...... it's not too bad now I learned to live with itcheers
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Nov 23, 2022 1:26 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
jac_the_gripper: No way, that's too much work.
Really Jac? Isn't that dependent upon the type of disability that the person has, and how well he/she manages it?
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Nov 23, 2022 1:30 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
galrads: Yes, I had actively dated someone with relapsing remitting MS. the disease finally took her years later. Somethings were uncomfortable but manageable.
Nice of you to have overlooked her disability, to see and be with her Gal. It takes patience, understanding and compassion to be with someone with medical issues.heart wings
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Nov 23, 2022 1:33 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Didi7: Oh my, sorry to hear about this. What an experience that must have been for her, and for you. I've only ever seen that scenario in movies, but you both actually lived it.
It was only when she moved south that the NHS came up with a diagnosis. It was a fairly rare condition , dystonia.
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Nov 23, 2022 1:55 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
After a bad stroke my mother was disabled. I care for her 20years 24/7..........I made sure she was happy. And she was. Never demanding. ............but her brain was still as. Active. A lovely lady. X xhug hug hug
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Nov 23, 2022 2:28 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Didi7: Really Jac? Isn't that dependent upon the type of disability that the person has, and how well he/she manages it?
You missed my point. grin
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Nov 23, 2022 2:34 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
jac_the_gripper: You missed my point.
grin
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Nov 23, 2022 2:38 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
I'm glad someone got it, Bod. laugh
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Nov 23, 2022 2:46 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
jac_the_gripper: I'm glad someone got it, Bod.
Yes, keeping up with them really would be hard work, for most of us.
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Nov 23, 2022 2:48 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
bodleing2: Yes, keeping up with them really would be hard work, for most of us.
Or should I say, most of us normal people....laugh
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Nov 23, 2022 3:01 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
bodleing2: Or should I say, most of us normal people....
Us able-bodied people. giggle
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Nov 23, 2022 3:03 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
jac_the_gripper: You missed my point.
laugh Oh Jac, I missed your sarcasm, that's why I missed your point.doh
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Nov 23, 2022 3:06 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
truheart1941: After a bad stroke my mother was disabled. I care for her 20years 24/7..........I made sure she was happy. And she was. Never demanding. ............but her brain was still as. Active. A lovely lady. X x
Wow Tru, that was very loving and very dedicated care that you gave her. I'm sure she was proud that you were such a good son to her. Lovely...heart wings
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Nov 23, 2022 3:18 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Didi7: Oh Jac, I missed your sarcasm, that's why I missed your point.
It wasn't sarcasm, it was a different perspective.

I really don't like the word 'disabled'.

I really don't like the vibe I'm getting off this thread.
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Nov 23, 2022 3:59 PM CST Would you date a person with a disability?
Didi7: Nice to know JT.
John Msall a disabled man has been selected as an astronaut today.
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