I didn't vote because both can be true. It depends...how long have you taken to get to know each other, and via what means? Online, IM, phone calls...and you meet, and the chemistry is there as well with this best friend who you already love? Then I see no point in waiting. Just met in a bar and hardly know the person's name? I'd wait...until both are sober and you know each other better. (Have I ever gone against this advice? How do you think I learned the wisdom of it. )
To each their own, personally. So long as both consent and agree on it, the timing is up to the couple.
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
Wait till you have ay least had a drink with them, as in one drink....i have never managed to chase after anyone and mount them in less time than it takes to drink a pint of cider or beer.
RobbieM: Wait till you have ay least had a drink with them, as in one drink....i have never managed to chase after anyone and mount them in less time than it takes to drink a pint of cider or beer.
BeethovenfanWest County St. Louis, Missouri USA219 posts
Nothing has changed since we were children....We were told to hold out for the "ONE" ....I think the same standards still apply..Although I think I have cheated in the past..
Beethovenfan: Nothing has changed since we were children....We were told to hold out for the "ONE" ....I think the same standards still apply..Although I think I have cheated in the past..
I don't know about anyone else, but I was told a lot of BS that is not true...
Beethovenfan: To each his own, I was just hurt by giving in too early...When it all comes down to it, a man wants a " good girl"..sorry.....
I also heard a therapist state, "another is not responsible for my "feelings". They are mine, I must own them. Another cannot hurt me unless I "choose" to be hurt"..
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how long should u wait until u do the deed with somone?(Vote Below)