If you just want to do the deed, then why waste time and money (skip the drink), jump right into it. But, if you want a serious relationship, I don't think that's the way to go. But, then again, I'm just an old fashioned gal
princessadele: just want to know what people think .
I would ask you #1 How do you feel about the guy? #2 How would you feel if you never heard from him agian after you did the deed. #3 How long have you been with the guy? Maybe not in that order.But please take it from me, I'm 51yrs old and most guys want one thing and one thing only. Doing the deed. How much do you respect yourself. If you can answer all these questions and still think your ready, then go for it. Just please protect yourself...........DEB
LadyMiniMe: If you just want to do the deed, then why waste time and money (skip the drink), jump right into it. But, if you want a serious relationship, I don't think that's the way to go. But, then again, I'm just an old fashioned gal
just jump in and do it, why waste time with conversation, and money, and all that, you can do all that after...
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If you have any doubts, it's not time. If there's pressure involved from your partner, it's not time. If you're not comfortable with it, keep waiting.
Only you will know when it's right for you.