Mar 14, 2009 8:24 PM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
retroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 Posts
retroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 posts
yes i think im atrractive /pretty , its nice when people say im pretty etc , but i dont realy care how other people see me .i would want all my boyfriends to think i was attractive tho i wudnt want them just to be going out with me because they thought i was a nice person i hope theyd like me for my looks and personality
Am I handsome Man (or "attractive", by definition: Pleasing to the eye or mind.)? To me and to all Women that were a part of my Life, of course I am.
If someone look at a person and ONLY ask them self is She/He attractive/handsome, an answer is yes, no, or somewhat. And then what, is that an end of a story? A Window shopping? It is a relative reference point subjective to an opinion.
The beauty (OK, an attractiveness) is only a skin deep. What I care for is am I attracted to her heart and mind, do I like her substance (and depth, if there is some), what is She all about, would I want to have just a Tango with Her, or would we want to write, and play, a Musical together.
But all of those questions, and more, could be all another tred.
I don't consider myself attractive. I'm more able, faster, fitter and carry myself better than most and, am proud of it. It's a combination of skills and ability that I can measure rather than an obscure emotion from others that I go by. I suppose I am not ugly as while a bit shy, girls come talk to me when I do find myself in a social environment so
Drewski: I don't consider myself attractive. I'm more able, faster, fitter and carry myself better than most and, am proud of it. It's a combination of skills and ability that I can measure rather than an obscure emotion from others that I go by. I suppose I am not ugly as while a bit shy, girls come talk to me when I do find myself in a social environment so
zoranova: Am I handsome Man (or "attractive", by definition: Pleasing to the eye or mind.)? To me and to all Women that were a part of my Life, of course I am.
If someone look at a person and ONLY ask them self is She/He attractive/handsome, an answer is yes, no, or somewhat. And then what, is that an end of a story? A Window shopping? It is a relative reference point subjective to an opinion.
The beauty (OK, an attractiveness) is only a skin deep. What I care for is am I attracted to her heart and mind, do I like her substance (and depth, if there is some), what is She all about, would I want to have just a Tango with Her, or would we want to write, and play, a Musical together. But all of those questions, and more, could be all another tred.
This is a nice analogy for how serious a relationship may or may not be.
I think I have an attractive personality...and I don't think I am beautiful by any means..BUT I would go with attractive depending on who was doing the looking...
Hugz_n_Kissez: I think I have an attractive personality...and I don't think I am beautiful by any means..BUT I would go with attractive depending on who was doing the looking...
That´s not being big-headed, I´m certainly less physically atractive than I was when I was younger, but I´ve always been a pretty girl who turned heads....thanks to my gorgeous mum! And Spanish men seem to appreciate the more mature, attractive ladies too, so my self-confidence is boosted daily! I love living here!
More importantly though I am a very nice, loving person, who actually has never been too interested in looks. My friends always thought I was crazy when I danced or accepted dates with guys not perceived as classically good-looking.
However, people are attracted by different looks, personalities etc etc...a good thing as everybody gets to experience a little loving!
As Arizona Pat here always says, "love yourself above all".
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
Jan1305: Yes I do think I´m attractive.
That´s not being big-headed, I´m certainly less physically atractive than I was when I was younger, but I´ve always been a pretty girl who turned heads....thanks to my gorgeous mum! And Spanish men seem to appreciate the more mature, attractive ladies too, so my self-confidence is boosted daily! I love living here!
More importantly though I am a very nice, loving person, who actually has never been too interested in looks. My friends always thought I was crazy when I danced or accepted dates with guys not perceived as classically good-looking.
However, people are attracted by different looks, personalities etc etc...a good thing as everybody gets to experience a little loving!
As Arizona Pat here always says, "love yourself above all".
Yes, this is a dumb poll, but I wonder how people perceive themselves.
Answers that are not allowed (tounge-in-cheek):
"I'm beautiful on the inside" (too pc)
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" (yeah yeah, whatever)
"I will be after the lipo/facelift" (humor to evade the Q doesn't count)
"I'm hot s***" (cute, but no cigar)
"I wouldn't say I'm beautiful / handsome, but fairly good looking" (goodness.. just answer yes or no)
"well, compared to x, y and z, I'm gorgeous/ugly" (this isn't an exercise in relativity, try again)
"I'm good looking (or not) for my age" (geez... stop it already!)
Just be honest. Do you or do you not think you're good looking?
My position: If I were put on the spot, I'd have to say no. I was when I was young, but not anymore. I think I am good looking after all beauty is in the eye of the beerholder
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