I'm happy with the way I look. I have no hang ups about my outward appearance. I see myself as attractive.
No, I only care if I am attractive to the man I wake up with. After that, I do not care, what other people think. What he and I think is all that matters.
I do not go around thinking that about myself and never have-- I think of myself as very down to earth but I do know I have a big heart and would help someone out in anyway I could, and to me that is all that count's...
tina_olson: I do not go around thinking that about myself and never have-- I think of myself as very down to earth but I do know I have a big heart and would help someone out in anyway I could, and to me that is all that count's...
Hi Tina
Your post intrigues me. Do you think a person who thinks of themselves, is selfish?
I have thought of myself since I have been alone, learned how to take care of myself and my emotions, so that I could be a positive and loving partner. I refuse to sacrifice myself for another person.
Being emotionally independent and alone has taught me an awful lot, a hell of a lot, in fact.
Like when I was pregnant with my second child, I often wondered how I could have loved another child as much as my first.
But I did, I found the room to love her. Because we do.
We should think about ourselves, be at peace with ourselves and happy.
The man in the mirror does not scare me! I know he isn't George Clooney or Brad Pitt, but he is confident, assured and happy with himself. He can make me smile! So do I think I am attractive--yes. Oh, by the way, he is a very humble man.
Your post intrigues me. Do you think a person who thinks of themselves, is selfish?
I have thought of myself since I have been alone, learned how to take care of myself and my emotions, so that I could be a positive and loving partner. I refuse to sacrifice myself for another person.
Being emotionally independent and alone has taught me an awful lot, a hell of a lot, in fact.
Like when I was pregnant with my second child, I often wondered how I could have loved another child as much as my first.
But I did, I found the room to love her. Because we do.
We should think about ourselves, be at peace with ourselves and happy.
Do you not think of yourself as attractive?
Somewhat difficult question to ask...I do not look at an attractive person as being selfish, but working in a bar for so many years--I have seen attractive men and women who go around acting like they are god's gift to everyone and behind the look's alot of them I have found to be very shallow...I was heavy for most of my life and always considered one of those girls always told--you have such a pretty face if only...So I guess when I look in the mirror I just see myself as me and not looking as to whether I am considered attractive or not.....
tina_olson: Somewhat difficult question to ask...I do not look at an attractive person as being selfish, but working in a bar for so many years--I have seen attractive men and women who go around acting like they are god's gift to everyone and behind the look's alot of them I have found to be very shallow...I was heavy for most of my life and always considered one of those girls always told--you have such a pretty face if only...So I guess when I look in the mirror I just see myself as me and not looking as to whether I am considered attractive or not.....
Hi Tina
This takes me back to another thread. Where we were talking about looks and did they matter. Outwardly attractive people are not always shallow, I see that as a way of a person who has low self esteem making themselves feel better, in some cases. There is nothing I like more than seeing a confident handsome person in the street, smiling and radiating attractiveness. I want to run and kiss them...
You have answered the question well. When the me looks back at you, if you are happy with the image then that is all that matters.
Yes, I think I'm attractive. Not beautiful, not drop-dead gorgeous, but attractive, yes.
And as Sommer said, so long as the man I love finds me to be attractive as well, I don't care how the rest of the world perceives me, that's all that matters.
druidess6308: Yes, I think I'm attractive. Not beautiful, not drop-dead gorgeous, but attractive, yes.
And as Sommer said, so long as the man I love finds me to be attractive as well, I don't care how the rest of the world perceives me, that's all that matters.
Interesting poll and thread.
It is isn't it Dru? I have no problem with thinking good about myself.
If I walk around feeling low, needy and unhappy, I would attract likeminded people.
I dont know..I don't think Its for me to decide..And like has already been said several times..if the person who you fall asleep/wake up with thinks you are..It doesnt matter what anyone else thinks..
Phoenix: I dont know..I don't think Its for me to decide..And like has already been said several times..if the person who you fall asleep/wake up with thinks you are..It doesnt matter what anyone else thinks..
You were not supposed to break the rules here, mate.
Acording to my rating , I am a between 6-7 , but true beauty comes from the heart, I dont care if she is a 10+ . If her inner beauty is not there, she has nothing. I have learned what comes from the heart, and MIND, is what determines who is who!
I will just say that if I were a woman...I wouldn't find me attractive. If I were a woman...I would run the other way. I am just glad there there are women with such low self-esteem and self image that they don't mind spending time with me.
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Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?(Vote Below)
Answers that are not allowed (tounge-in-cheek):
"I'm beautiful on the inside" (too pc)
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" (yeah yeah, whatever)
"I will be after the lipo/facelift" (humor to evade the Q doesn't count)
"I'm hot s***" (cute, but no cigar)
"I wouldn't say I'm beautiful / handsome, but fairly good looking" (goodness.. just answer yes or no)
"well, compared to x, y and z, I'm gorgeous/ugly" (this isn't an exercise in relativity, try again)
"I'm good looking (or not) for my age" (geez... stop it already!)
Just be honest. Do you or do you not think you're good looking?
My position: If I were put on the spot, I'd have to say no. I was when I was young, but not anymore.
How important is it to you to be perceived as good looking? Do you care? no... really... do you care?