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Mar 12, 2009 7:10 AM CSTDo you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts

Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?(Vote Below)

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Yes
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No
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Yes, this is a dumb poll, but I wonder how people perceive themselves.

Answers that are not allowed (tounge-in-cheek):

"I'm beautiful on the inside" (too pc)

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" (yeah yeah, whatever)

"I will be after the lipo/facelift" (humor to evade the Q doesn't count)

"I'm hot s***" (cute, but no cigar)

"I wouldn't say I'm beautiful / handsome, but fairly good looking" (goodness.. just answer yes or no)

"well, compared to x, y and z, I'm gorgeous/ugly" (this isn't an exercise in relativity, try again)

"I'm good looking (or not) for my age" (geez... stop it already!)

Just be honest. Do you or do you not think you're good looking?

My position: If I were put on the spot, I'd have to say no. I was when I was young, but not anymore.

How important is it to you to be perceived as good looking? Do you care? no... really... do you care?
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Mar 12, 2009 7:14 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
I'm happy with the way I look. I have no hang ups about my outward appearance. I see myself as attractive.

No, I only care if I am attractive to the man I wake up with. After that, I do not care, what other people think. What he and I think is all that matters.
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Mar 12, 2009 7:15 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
tina_olson
tina_olsontina_olsonWestby, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 694 Posts
I do not go around thinking that about myself and never have-- I think of myself as very down to earth but I do know I have a big heart and would help someone out in anyway I could, and to me that is all that count's...
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Mar 12, 2009 7:27 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Dang right!
Tell myself that every morning when I look into the Mirror!laugh grin

























Wonder why it doesn't break some mornings,though!confused hole
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Mar 12, 2009 7:31 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
tina_olson: I do not go around thinking that about myself and never have-- I think of myself as very down to earth but I do know I have a big heart and would help someone out in anyway I could, and to me that is all that count's...



Hi Tina

Your post intrigues me. Do you think a person who thinks of themselves, is selfish?

I have thought of myself since I have been alone, learned how to take care of myself and my emotions, so that I could be a positive and loving partner. I refuse to sacrifice myself for another person.

Being emotionally independent and alone has taught me an awful lot, a hell of a lot, in fact.

Like when I was pregnant with my second child, I often wondered how I could have loved another child as much as my first.

But I did, I found the room to love her. Because we do.

We should think about ourselves, be at peace with ourselves and happy.

Do you not think of yourself as attractive?
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Mar 12, 2009 7:33 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
broncos
broncosbroncosToms River, New Jersey USA5 Threads 138 Posts
No, never thought of myself as attractive, thats probably why I'm alone!! LOL
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Mar 12, 2009 7:33 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
I have very nice feet! laugh
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Mar 12, 2009 7:35 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Fallingman: I have very nice feet!
i like the lilac hair wave
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Mar 12, 2009 7:36 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
Fallingman: I have very nice feet!
nice hairdo in that photo as welllaugh
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Mar 12, 2009 7:37 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
morgan5: i like the lilac hair
see great minds morganthumbs up
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Mar 12, 2009 7:38 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
morgan5: i like the lilac hair


Thank you. It takes ages to get it just right!

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Mar 12, 2009 7:38 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
jessejess47: see great minds morgan
Hi jesse wave
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Mar 12, 2009 7:38 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
snugglysenior
snugglyseniorsnugglyseniorDover, New Jersey USA38 Threads 1 Polls 284 Posts
I don't think of myself as "good looking". I have been told I'm pretty. I've never been told "you look good for your age" which I think is an insult.

I care if people think I'm pretty but it's more important that I think I'm pretty without flaunting it.
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Mar 12, 2009 7:39 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
I get by and am content with that
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Mar 12, 2009 7:39 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
The man in the mirror does not scare me! I know he isn't George Clooney or Brad Pitt, but he is confident, assured and happy with himself. He can make me smile! So do I think I am attractive--yes. Oh, by the way, he is a very humble man.
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Mar 12, 2009 7:42 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
tina_olson
tina_olsontina_olsonWestby, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 694 Posts
Sommerauer71: Hi Tina

Your post intrigues me. Do you think a person who thinks of themselves, is selfish?

I have thought of myself since I have been alone, learned how to take care of myself and my emotions, so that I could be a positive and loving partner. I refuse to sacrifice myself for another person.

Being emotionally independent and alone has taught me an awful lot, a hell of a lot, in fact.

Like when I was pregnant with my second child, I often wondered how I could have loved another child as much as my first.

But I did, I found the room to love her. Because we do.

We should think about ourselves, be at peace with ourselves and happy.

Do you not think of yourself as attractive?


Somewhat difficult question to ask...I do not look at an attractive person as being selfish, but working in a bar for so many years--I have seen attractive men and women who go around acting like they are god's gift to everyone and behind the look's alot of them I have found to be very shallow...I was heavy for most of my life and always considered one of those girls always told--you have such a pretty face if only...So I guess when I look in the mirror I just see myself as me and not looking as to whether I am considered attractive or not.....
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Mar 12, 2009 7:44 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
I don't consider myself unattractive. But true beauty is on the inside. wine

I always say if you feel good on the inside, it shows on the outside & draws people to you.
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Mar 12, 2009 7:48 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
tina_olson: Somewhat difficult question to ask...I do not look at an attractive person as being selfish, but working in a bar for so many years--I have seen attractive men and women who go around acting like they are god's gift to everyone and behind the look's alot of them I have found to be very shallow...I was heavy for most of my life and always considered one of those girls always told--you have such a pretty face if only...So I guess when I look in the mirror I just see myself as me and not looking as to whether I am considered attractive or not.....



Hi Tina

This takes me back to another thread. Where we were talking about looks and did they matter. Outwardly attractive people are not always shallow, I see that as a way of a person who has low self esteem making themselves feel better, in some cases. There is nothing I like more than seeing a confident handsome person in the street, smiling and radiating attractiveness. I want to run and kiss them...

You have answered the question well. When the me looks back at you, if you are happy with the image then that is all that matters.

Thank you Tina, interesting discussion.
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Mar 12, 2009 7:56 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Yes, I think I'm attractive. Not beautiful, not drop-dead gorgeous, but attractive, yes.

And as Sommer said, so long as the man I love finds me to be attractive as well, I don't care how the rest of the world perceives me, that's all that matters.

Interesting poll and thread. wine
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Mar 12, 2009 8:00 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
druidess6308: Yes, I think I'm attractive. Not beautiful, not drop-dead gorgeous, but attractive, yes.

And as Sommer said, so long as the man I love finds me to be attractive as well, I don't care how the rest of the world perceives me, that's all that matters.

Interesting poll and thread.


It is isn't it Dru? I have no problem with thinking good about myself.

If I walk around feeling low, needy and unhappy, I would attract likeminded people.
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Mar 12, 2009 8:01 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
I dont think i drink <> for all good people of this planetwine cheers !!!
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Mar 12, 2009 8:46 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
nope
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Mar 12, 2009 9:38 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
Scubadiva: I wonder how people perceive themselves.
Just be honest. Do you or do you not think you're good looking


Meh...my opinion on my looks...average...I've seem many, many that look much, much better...but I've also seen those that looked way worse...conversing conversing conversing
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Mar 12, 2009 9:55 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
lol i dont think im attractive but i like who i am on the inside lol well i hope i am roll eyes
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Mar 12, 2009 9:59 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"In my opinion,I feel comfortable with who I am;
I love me,therefore I feel attractive."


wave
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Mar 12, 2009 10:08 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
I think I am.

dunno
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Mar 12, 2009 10:14 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixparis, Ile-de-France France89 Threads 23 Polls 2,325 Posts
mike69spain: I think I am.


I dont know..I don't think Its for me to decide..And like has already been said several times..if the person who you fall asleep/wake up with thinks you are..It doesnt matter what anyone else thinks..
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Mar 12, 2009 10:24 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
Phoenix: I dont know..I don't think Its for me to decide..And like has already been said several times..if the person who you fall asleep/wake up with thinks you are..It doesnt matter what anyone else thinks..


You were not supposed to break the rules here, mate.

Let me put it straight - You are.

There laugh

wine
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Mar 12, 2009 10:40 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Acording to my rating , I am a between 6-7 , but true beauty comes from the heart, I dont care if she is a 10+ . If her inner beauty is not there, she has nothing. I have learned what comes from the heart, and MIND, is what determines who is who!scold blushing teddybear
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Mar 12, 2009 10:45 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
I will just say that if I were a woman...I wouldn't find me attractive. If I were a woman...I would run the other way. I am just glad there there are women with such low self-esteem and self image that they don't mind spending time with me.thumbs up
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Mar 12, 2009 11:08 AM CST Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixparis, Ile-de-France France89 Threads 23 Polls 2,325 Posts
mike69spain: You were not supposed to break the rules here, mate.

Let me put it straight - You are.

There


Split the difference...We are..

wine
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